I am only 15 right now, and ofcourse I am still a virgin, but what do you think the right age to get maaried at is? and do you think people should only have sex if they are married?
2007-07-01 13:13:26 · 13 answers · asked by wyles s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't marry until after college. That gives you plenty of time to experiment with different relationships and people. I wouldn't have sex either until after marriage. Sex is special and shouldn't be shared with just anyone. It also has a lot of possible consequences that you don't want to enter into unless you've found the one.
2007-07-01 13:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by just my opinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many years ago sex was a showing of love between two people, male & female. To day it is "get it while you can" which I feel is wrong. People wanting to get married should be in no rush as the divorce rate is high enough now. The age should be at least the mid twenties. Plenty of time to have children. Of course there are exceptions to every rule. I met my wife the middle of August 1947 and married the end of October 1947 so by now you should have figured out how many years we will have been married in October. I was 22, my wife 20 but like I said under to days standards we are the exception. Sex should be reserved for only the married people who have made a promise before God to Love and Obey until death do us part.
2007-07-01 20:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right age to get married does not come in
numbers. When TWO people are mature and
responsible and loving and committed to each
other and take it seriously, then that is the right
time to get married. TWO people have to fall in
the catagories mentioned above, because if only
one is ready and not the other, then the marriage
will never work out. The question about sex only
when they are married, it depends upon the per-
son, as there is no rush since one is married and
is to be with their spouse until the end then there
will be plenty of time for sex.
2007-07-01 23:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the person who said once you are 25, you're brain stops maturing. Wrong!!! I'm in my mid-thirties and my brain and mind are continuously maturing. It's amazing. Point is you can keep on changing and growing throughout your whole life.
To answer your question, get to know a lot of people before you ever get married. This way you will know from experience what a "jerk" is and is not. Once you find a nice person, you'll appreciate him or her for what he has to offer since you will have had experienced jerks!! You need to experience what jerks are first - or if you ARE a jerk, you need to overcome that before you attach yourself to another person.
Personally, I would think that getting married should be saved for the person in their 30's, 40's or 50's - perhaps even older.
At 15 try to enjoy yourself and do not worry about getting married for a long, long time.
2007-07-01 21:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Hermione G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and marriage should not be really important to you at 15 years old, but just to let you know.
You have to date alot of men, before you will find the man of your dreams. That usually happens in your late 20's, early 30's. DON'T EVEN CONSIDER HAVING SEX WITH THEM. If you do you will never know if they like you THE PERSON, or you THE SEX!
Men use woman for sex. In today's society, woman are doing the same thing. Woman are so stupid, because they let men treat them like a sex object. They then become pregnant and the guy moves on to another stupid broad that will let him to the same. That's how so many children are born today. Woman like that have no class, no respect and nothing but sex that any real man would want from them.
If you let a man screw you, you will never know how he really feels about you. If he just wants sex and your giving it to him, he will come and go. If he just wants sex and he's not getting it, he'll be gone.
If he loves you and he's not having sex, he'll wait as long as he has to so you could make love. That's the man you want. Don't let anyone play you for a fool and use your body for their pleasure. You will regret it.
2007-07-01 20:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right age for marriage? Thats a good one. Scientifically, you should not get married until you're 25 or older for the reason being: until that age, you are still maturing. Once you hit 25, you're brain is done. You will still learn, of course, but you are officially grown. Until that time, when/if you're with someone, you will either 1) grow together or 2) grow apart. Sadly, its usually grow apart.
Sex when married or pre-marital sex? I waited until I was married...its more meaningful that way. =)
2007-07-01 20:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "right" age is when you are emotionally prepared to enter into a partnership with another person and work together on a marriage. You SHOULD know one another well enough to know that whatever habits and quirks the two of you have that you BOTH can live with them and tolerate them for the rest of your lives. If you can't then somewhere along the way these things could become major issues in your marriage.
Personally I don't feel people need to wait until they are married to have sex. Lot's of people don't get married. Some of us don't WANT to be married, yet I don't believe they shouldn't partake in the joys of sex. I don't believe that sex is solely for procreation, I believe it is for recreation as well.
2007-07-01 20:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I got married at 20, but that is not the magical age. I think that people should only get married when they are truly in love, and when they are financially and emotionally stable. My husband and I were both employed, had some money in the bank, and knew that we were willing to work through any problems that came up.
I don't think that sex should be saved for marriage. BUT, I think that it should be done with someone you care about and with SAFETY!!
Best wishes
2007-07-01 20:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are concerned about things you don't need to worry about for quite awhile. You're only 15, go ahead and enjoy your teenage years, high school years, college, etc.
Regarding marriage, I'd say from mid-twenties on, but only if both parties are mature enough and ready to make the life-long commitment.
As for sex, it is better if people only have sex when they are married--a true expression of love and intimacy.
2007-07-01 22:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex be safe. Make sure you understand all about STDs and how to prevent them. As for marriage, if you're under 25 years old, don't marry until you've been dating seriously for 5 years. Otherwise wait until you're 30 and have your career straight.
2007-07-05 17:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋