I met this guy and I think he was flirting with me. He said that he has found an "exceptional person" and recently texted me saying I could text him kinky anytime! No - I didn't text him anything kinky at all?? I am already with someone else and do not want to be cheating. I told him that I was already taken.
2007-07-01 08:37:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
P.S. Should I tell my man about this or am i just being silly over nothing?
2007-07-01 08:55:45 · update #1
We gave each other our numbers because we are friends also know of a mutal friend as well.... am I not allowed to have friends?
2007-07-01 10:40:16 · update #2
I have male friends but none have asked me to text them "kinky". Yes you are allowed to have friends, but friends don't treat each other that way and if you are committed to your man, you wouldn't like him texting some bimbo "kinky" things either, would you? I wouldn't tell him but I wouldn't let that crap continue, change your number or tell him to lose it.
2007-07-01 10:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes,you are genuinely naive and I bet you dont know what you want.What is wrong in talking kinky or texting kinky?It is no crime at all because every woman knows when a man is flirting with them.I bet you enjoyed the flirting and stop saying;you think he was flirting.Well if you feel like making the best fool of your self then tell your boyfriend and get kicked on the bum.
Bearing in mind that you have the right to make friends so do your boyfriend but the truth is that the guy you will be texting kinky with will never be done to your friend.However if you gave your number to this guy,the reason is because you liked him or fancied him but then he has the wrong step by requesting you can text kinky to him rather than talk kinky with you in person and set your emotions craving and blazing.Even you dont wanna cheat but you can be a cheat or you have been a cheat which means you are not new in the field.
2007-07-01 20:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Other guy should have Never gotten your phone number to begin with, If you were already with someone. It's not fair to your bf, to be giving out your number to other men. You need to let the other guy know, that you will not tolerate receiving those kind of texts, or any from him. You don't want your current bf do believe something else is going on.
2007-07-01 16:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by mswickidkittie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Fury, your not being naive but correct, this guy is obviously trying to hit on you and finds it a turn on if you write to him in a kinky way. Let him go play his games somewhere else and keep what you got, as it sounds your pretty happy.
2007-07-01 15:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by David Wilson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Miss fury, You sound like a good girl ! I am a nieve man and the guy hat text you sounds like he was flirting in an out of bounds kinda way ! Jerk !
2007-07-01 15:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want to leave your boyfriend for him do so if not stay away as he may just be after an ego trip. so until you know him better show your worth he knows you have a boyfriend how does he know you wont dump him after sex im not saying your easy but some guys are just like that no matter how good you are tread carefully
2007-07-01 15:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did he get your number? Block his number and stop giving out yours if you are with someone. Or leave the one you are with and flirt away. You do not seem to be acting like someone in a committed relationship. Either he is a freak, or you acted like someone who would be into phone sex.
2007-07-01 15:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by blazes m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your choice. you can break up with the one guy and go out with guy you just met. but i would stay with who your with becuz you dont for surley know if the texting dude really likes you. becuz then if he doesnt like you..... well you just ruined a great relationship with the first dude.
2007-07-01 15:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by ☼ Lil - Pink ☼ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good girl. don't cheat. you don't want your man to cheat on you so you don't cheat on him! tell that loser to hit the road!
2007-07-01 15:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you did the right thing, Good girl.
2007-07-01 15:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by spottychan 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋