Marriage & Divorce - 28 June 2007

My Ex husband is always finding reasons to argue with me. This time he is mad because its summertime and I found our children clothes at a garage sale that were way nice and perfect for summer. What I got for them I couldnt touch in a store for less than 500 dollars and I only paid 30. He accually told me that he dosnt pay me child support so that I can buy the kids garage sale clothes. I tried to explain that what I did with that money for my kids was none of his buisness and now he is trying to have his rate reduced. I will buy them new clothes at the beginning of the school year but for now they play outside alot and I dont see anything wrong with it. Does this make any sense or am I wrong?

2007-06-28 06:48:23 · 16 answers · asked by YouAsked4it 3

to the baby?

2007-06-28 06:47:28 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

balls deep with my best friend. I waited till she finished to confront her. Now she's mad at me for waiting. What should I do ? I guessed he smelled and she would have liked a reason to stop

2007-06-28 06:47:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked before about my fiance and I not having sex for quite awhile. He's not the real touchy feely kinda guy either. It has crossed my mind a few times over the 4 years we have been together that maybe he's gay. I caught him looking a couple different xxx tranny girl websites. I confronted him and he said he was just curious. 29 yrs old and just getting curious at that age?? Also during sex he loves when I insert my finger all the way up him. Sorry if that was too graphic but it does all worry me when you put it together. Could he be gay?

2007-06-28 06:42:54 · 9 answers · asked by Dextergirl 1

My husband is the only son in his family with four younger sisters, and he had a mother who always told him how proud of him she was, and how great he is and the things he does. He always got encourgement from his family and everything. Now I am his wife and when i'm talking to him about an idea he's just like "OK". He has NO encourgement for me, no feedback anything. It makes me feel like he does not care about me. Yet he is always telling me about his college classes, grades he gets on his papers, how he might get promote to staff Sargeant in August. I feel like he's a taker in encourgament and needing affirmation, but has no idea how to give it to others. Am I right? Is he selfish, can anyone help me understand this?

2007-06-28 06:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

I am a lady 23yrs and married with a 33yrs I was happy with him at the starting but now He doesn't care about me,comes back home late at nite,always use rude words on me, I don't feel happy if I am with him and we are having a 2yr old baby girl and she is with ma mum.
Through this problem I fall in love with another man and he always care for me but he is a married man and I love him so much, What Should I do Now!!!! Pls help me with advice...............

2007-06-28 06:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by angle 1

He is conservative and I would be asking because i would like to and my girlfriend thinks I should.

Im not thinking any time soon soon, probably november(anniversay) or feburary(her birthday).

whats the best way to ask, what are things I should definetly say, and what i should definetely not say

thank you

2007-06-28 06:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does everyone have something they would live for and totally enjoy.

2007-06-28 06:33:51 · 2 answers · asked by Enigma 1

Hello I am a married man, and have been married for 5 years now. I have two toddler boys, and I love them dearly. However my releationship with my wife is ok but it could be better. I have recently started talking with woman that i have known for a while. The woman that I'm falling for is someone that i have been wanting to hook up with for 3 over years, and it finally happened. She is not pressuring me at all but I can feel myself falling in love with this woman. I need some advice on what to do with this situation. I have an idea but I just want to get some others thoughts.

2007-06-28 06:28:13 · 25 answers · asked by DVUS 1

I was born and raised in LA California... and his home town is guadalajara, mexico.... I am so freaked out about moving there... I was planing to get my realestate license and become a broker and now it looks like my plans are going to change... this is not what i wanted... but how far does one go for love... After all is love more important that goals... someone give me some advice. or if someone has been in that city of mexico give me some feed back on how it is... I have never been to any part of mexico except baja... please HELP!!!!!

2007-06-28 06:24:51 · 12 answers · asked by Hannah Saramae 1

How many of you have cheated your husbands and booyfriends and they don't know about it. Be honest

2007-06-28 06:08:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband is remarrying and this will be his second marriage and his fiance's first. She is somehow discrediting my ex's marriage to me so that they can marry in the Catholic church based on the fact that I was married previously. I have no problems as long as I am not signing or agreeing that our marriage was not "valid" since we have a daughter that is almost 10 years old. If they marry under these circumstances, does it mean that my ex acknowledges her as "bastard" child? I support their marriage, however, I really resent under that circumstance. I am not Catholic and really unsure of stipulations. Thanks

2007-06-28 06:04:20 · 25 answers · asked by farmersgirl99 2

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW I CAN GET A WARRANT ISSUED ON MY EX HUSBAND ? HE OWES ME FOR ALIMONY OF $3900.00 ARREARAGE
HE ALSO OWES ME FOR ARREARS OF CHILDSUPPORT FOR THE AMOUNT OF $1600.00 IN CHILDSUPPORT...

I HAVE HAD HIM IN THE FAMILY COURT OF BIRMINGHAM AL FOR CONTEMPT 6 TIMES ALREADY,NOTHING HAS BEEN DONE ACCEPT, TO KEEP WARNING HIM TO PAY OR A NEW PAYMENT ARRANGEMENTS FOR THE ARREARAGE, AND STILL NO PAYMENTS OR ACTIONS...

MY DAUGHTER HAS NOT SEEN HER DAD IN 16 MONTHS,. HE KEEPS QUITING JOBS, TO STOP PAYING FOR CHILDSUPPORT... OR HE MOVES JOBS, AND IT TAKES THAT MUCH MORE TIME TO GET THE WITHOLDING ORDER OUT, AND THEN THEY INFORM HIM OF THE WITHOLDING ORDER AND HE QUITS....

I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY NO ACTIONS ARE BEING TAKEN.. I HAVE PUSHED THE ISSUE WITH THE COURT, STILL NOTHING,,,,HELP????

2007-06-28 06:00:16 · 2 answers · asked by jenny t 1

I been working as office clerk for 4 months,but is so boring.
My hours are from 9am-5pm Monday -friday,and I get pay every week,but not holidays.The owner is a chinese so you know what I mean by that.They tell you your job is one thing,then they put you to do other things.
Sometimes I have work to do and sometimes i do, lately I have nothing to do .Is only me working here,I have no one to talk to.
My friend offer me a job almost the samething as this one but from 12pm-5pm Monday-friday getting pay every week and holidays too.the same amount I'm getting paid right know,The good thing is that I wont be alone and bord,but the bad thing is that is less hours.It's not to far from my house is like about 10 minutes away.a little far from my present job.
oh something else,the owner put alot of pressure for me to do sales,when I don't even want to.
She tells me that I will get 1% commission on sales,thats nothing..I though i was just an office clerk not a sales person.
PLEASE GOOD ADVISE

2007-06-28 05:58:30 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy 5

2007-06-28 05:56:01 · 23 answers · asked by Sven 1

2007-06-28 05:54:27 · 5 answers · asked by Sven 1

They just had their dissolution of marriage court appearance on 6-14-07 and a final signing of any settlement scheduled for the 6-25. He died on 6-19-07. A copy of the dissolution of marriage was signed by a magistrate on 6-18-07 but neither party signed the dissolution of marriage.

2007-06-28 05:50:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told him he is driving me to want to cheat because I am dying to feel wanted. All he did was say "awwww" and hug me. WTF is wrong with this guy. No he's not cheating. He's 29. He smokes pot several time daily. Any ideas???????

2007-06-28 05:49:47 · 34 answers · asked by Dextergirl 1

2007-06-28 05:34:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live with my MIL, I work all day reach home at 11:30 in the night sleep by 12:00 as I have to wake up at 6:30 in the morning to do the household chores before I go back to office. Even if a single day I get up a litlle late - my MIL starting yelling and using abusive lang. my husband n FIL keep mum on this.
Inspite of me doing both house hold chores as well as earning money ( I get decent pay equal to my husband and work with a renowned company). My MIL always keeps looking down on me and searches different reasons to yell at me all the time I am at home. She treats me like a maid. I cook breakfast and afternoon food also before I leave -so that she does not have to work yet She keeps complaining and I cannot stand it any more. I am not allowed to open my mouth against her. I keep listening to every dirty word she uses for me without even raising my eye-brow.
I am completely fed up of this situation and more upset by the fact that my husband does not care.

2007-06-28 05:32:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my husband 17 years and it has become obvious lately that our lives have taken different directions. It's not that I'm bored or that I dislike him and I'm not unhappy, but I wouldn't say I'm mind blowingly happy either.
We do try to do stuff together like he comes to the Gym with me although he doesn't really enjoy working out, that is my passion, and I will go to football matches with him, which is OK but I can't help wishing I was somewhere else doing soemthing more interesting. I'm not really looking for anyone else but I have recently decided to start pursuing stuff that I'm interested in like body building and going out meeting people. He has told me categorically that he will divorce me if I get big and muscly but that doesn't really hold any fear for me and it's what I want to do. For now I'm happy with the status quo but can't help feeling there is something missing in my life somewhere. What would you do?

2007-06-28 05:27:51 · 36 answers · asked by Louise H 3

2007-06-28 05:26:25 · 28 answers · asked by lantosszabi 2

Committment is a feeling between two people whether they married or not. I don't think religion has anything to do with it. When partners cheat they have enough to deal with, without there being some religious or moral meaning attached to it. When my husband cheated on me it became larger than life because I thought he had committed a sin or broken some commandment. But we are buddhist, and all that religious thinking comes from growing up in Christian society. In reality, people are free to do whatever they want. They can stray or not, forgive or not. Everything is governed by the law of cause and effect. Your judgement as an outsider is irrelevent.

2007-06-28 05:20:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

music makes me happy, going for a walk at night time.
dancing and being with my kids how about you

2007-06-28 05:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'am in a relationship is this lady. Who has 3 kids that i'm helping her with. I have a house that I invited her and her kids to live in. I pay all the bill, gave her 2 cars with 6 mo. of us being together, buy her what ever she needs or want, let her send her child support on what ever she want (which she only gets support for one of them), I work a second job and told her I would give her that check so she can have some money in her pocket, we go out as family and do things, but she is always complaining about everything. (cleaning, washing, the kids you name it she complains about it. And im starting to get tried of it. I Love her but i'm at the point that I want to snap and kick her out. We are going on year in july. And the kid have become a big part in my life. What should I do?

2007-06-28 05:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by Bigd 1

My best friend is married she and her husband have been split up for a little over a year. Since about Jan 07, she has been seeing a man off and on, her husband has been seeing someone off and on since about March 07.

Her and hubby have been talking recently and wanting to work their marriage out. How do they tell the "others" that they want to fix things?


Any suggestions???

Yes, the "others" know that they are married. My best friend knows that she made a mistake by leaving, and that she still loves her husband as much as she did the day she married him. As he does her.

They want to work to make it last, they are young she is almost 29 and he is 32, and they have some great kids.

2007-06-28 05:05:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and I married in chicago il, like 8 months ago but i didn't take his last name, where wouldI go to do that?

2007-06-28 04:58:42 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1

While I was working part time and my husband was full time I did everything in the house-now we are both full time,guess what?I still do everything in the house! Do other women find the same thing?What can I do to train him or is it too late after 20 years?

2007-06-28 04:55:53 · 44 answers · asked by Modbird 4

she treats me perfect in every way. I changed. 12 -13 years ago i realized i wasnt in love with her. we dont fight, nor do we have sex. Im simply not attracted to her. I have told her my feelings and she said she wants me 2 stay. I am her sole support, she has no family left besides mine. 1 child that is grown. i could remain here, as i have, but its really not fair to either party. on the other hand she doesnt want me 2 leave and from my point of view it will create an unfair and undeserved hardship on her. tried counseling but the fact remains i'm simply not attarcted 2 her. In the interest of honesty i am now not being faithful 2 her and know i wouldnt be in the future. She pretty much knows this, ( i stay gone ALOT and tell her i have a girlfriend) but she has pretty much a dont ask dont tell attitude. She makes no effort 2 find out where i am or who im seeing, never checks my phone and only ask me during an absence that im safe or ok. Is my happiness worth causing so much sadness

2007-06-28 04:52:24 · 14 answers · asked by dpeslinger 1

2007-06-28 04:44:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous