Marriage & Divorce - 28 June 2007

Dating guy for a year sex dying down dramaticly?
Ive been dating this boy for a year and the sex has died down dramactily he use to want it all the time and now never starts it i always have to ask. we still have it but now its way shorter then it used to be way less and i always have to start it. and i know hes a very sexual person were going to move in together and im almost positive hes not cheating but when i ask i never get a straight answer

2007-06-28 09:33:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I live together, he's still married, but going through a divorce. She came over to get some of her belongings, they went upstairs to talk. They were quiet, I got worried. I went into the upstairs bedroom, and she had her pants and panties pulled down sitting on his lap. He had his pants still on, buttoned, zipped, everything. She told me they had sex, he told me they didn't. Who do I believe!? Why didn't he push her off?! Should I stay with him and deal with this crap? Or should I leave and try to find a new boyfriend? I really don't know what to do. They text eachother all the time. She told me they wern't really getting a divorce. But he assured me they were. He won't get a restraining order against her though. Is her still seeing her behind my back? Tell me what I should do please!!

2007-06-28 09:31:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 09:25:56 · 7 answers · asked by Buckeey 1

I dont know what to do or think , weve been together since i was 12 yrs old. I love him to death but im so angry and frustrated. why me? why when i was pregnant. now me, my unborn and possibly my daughter have chlamydia. im so depressed

2007-06-28 09:25:33 · 20 answers · asked by Need Motivation! 1

Have been married for 4 years, have a 1 year old daughter. Husband told me out of the blue he is not happy and doesn't want the responsibility of a family anymore. Says he wants a divorce. I don't know what to do. he contacted a lawyer before telling me. He makes a lot more money than me and said he will give child support and pay off bills. How do I go on? This happened last night and I am numb. How is the amount of child support determined (he already has an amount picked out) and would he be required to pay alimony?

2007-06-28 09:24:48 · 45 answers · asked by mandie111 1

2007-06-28 09:19:09 · 14 answers · asked by Gman 2

while you are married and or in a serious relationship would you let your significant other have a couple of porn magazines or no. how do you feel about others that do let there significant others have porn and do you feel that porn is bad or good?

2007-06-28 09:17:58 · 15 answers · asked by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5

I'm 24 and have a 4yr old boy that i have been raising on my own until about a year ago when i met this awesome man. i'm so sick of living paycheck to paycheck and just got laid off and i'm paying sooo much in rent. i know the Air Force doen't let single moms in there so i asked my boyfriend aboutit and he said that he would marry me if thats what i really want to do,and says he already want to marry me anyway. can anyone tell em more about have a family in the Ari Force and is it a good idea.

2007-06-28 09:08:57 · 6 answers · asked by JULIUS born @ 29 weeks, on 9-30 1

I'm reposting this to see if I can get some more peoples opinions.......

SO I have this younger girl threaten to kick my butt (it's a long story, I don't particularly want to fight, but if it comes down to it I will.....)..... so she claims she's a black belt in Tae Kwon Do and she's been doing it for 7 years. Now I don't know if I necessarily believe her because the first thing that hinted she might not be is that she spelled it Ty Kwon Do :P .... I've never learned it but even I know how to spell it.

Now what I need to know is if we actually get in a fight would i have a chance? I've gotten into brawls before and always come out victorious. The last time the girl grabbed my hair before I knew what was going on and I ended up grabbin hers back and kicked her in the face a couple times..... don't ask me how I was holding her head and made contact with my foot, I don't even know, I was in an enraged state but everyone that saw it said I made contact a couple times....

2007-06-28 09:07:45 · 8 answers · asked by Katia 3

I was actually wondering if there were any support groups for women with husbands in prison. I have been with him for 4 years and he has been gone for a year and a half now. He's up for parole soon and if he gets it this time he'll be home next may, but if not he'll probably be looking at least another year or two more. I am just really having a hard time dealing with it and it seems to be getting harder and harder especially when knowone understands what I am going through and why I am waiting. Anyone know of any group or anything I can do to find one?

2007-06-28 09:07:16 · 10 answers · asked by Amber 3

My husband is suppose to be a Christian. I knew he had wondering eyes for years but he always act in front of people he loved me so much and like a love machine. But I always had to cry and beg for his affections. I even accepted his impotenecy but could have worked around this. I love and miss him dearly but he has turned to porn of all sorts. We almost divorce two or three times as he continues but promises to quit. Now he is smoking and had a drinking/drug binge a few months ago. I feel like he doesn't love me as he changes from I think I do, I don't and now I do. I feel like a daisy he loves me, he loves me not. His parents told me, don't throw away those divorce papers just yet. Even seem interested in introducing him to someone else and say they are praying God sends me someone else. I am still married, so no thanks. I want this to work but can he really love me and hurt me this way. He lies until he is so caught. I felt if I were just???? he would be different? 13 years hurts.

2007-06-28 09:06:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd appreciate it if only married people over 30 answer my question. Thanks :)
Is it normal to feel like you may be making a mistake 2 weeks before the wedding? Everything was fine up until now. It seems the closer I get, the more afraid I get. I love him and we aren't having any problems. I'm just wondering if maybe I'd be more happy staying single. That's what keeps going through my mind. I'm in my 40's and this is my second marriage. Are these feelings normal?

2007-06-28 09:02:16 · 19 answers · asked by Jo 2

Care to trade?

2007-06-28 08:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

his friend asking if he took any pic of titys ??? and he specified not your wifes he wanted to see chicitas what ever that is.. i guess this is what my hubby does when were on vacation im pissed to say the least or am i over reacting... not to mention hubby was in my msn and found nothing in that nature. so how would you as the wife react knowing his co workers are talking about young woman or wanting your hubby to check out young ones on vacation with you . wow im pissed

2007-06-28 08:40:27 · 25 answers · asked by flowerlegz 3

2007-06-28 08:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by Guardian W 2

What 1 piece of advice would you give a bright and beautiful young woman in a bad marriage to an emotionally abusive man? She has given up her education and her own dreams, believing she can love him enough to change him. Any quotes, affirmations, thoughts (in one or two lines only please) would be wonderful.

2007-06-28 08:18:41 · 15 answers · asked by timberbliss 1

but i don't her to enjoy the sex more from the girl than from me. What should i do?

2007-06-28 08:15:25 · 15 answers · asked by Lucky Donovan 1

You
a) Approach them to introduce yourself.
b) Wave & smile back.
c) Look the other way.
d) Stand up & walk away.

2007-06-28 07:59:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 07:58:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 07:56:57 · 5 answers · asked by Millie C 1

What is the fate of 498A?
Check this & comment.

1. SC called misuse of 498a Legal terrorism
http://nzmera.orcon.net.nz/dowrylaw.html
2. SC on dowry law misuse
http://www.telegraphindia.com/1050722/asp/nation/story_5020229.asp
3. Adverse affect on the public image of India in the world. The foreign
governments, notably the United States and Canada, have taken note of this
malpractice and have issued advisories on their official websites
http://travel.state.gov/travel/cis_pa_tw/cis/cis_1139.html
4. Even well-educated women are misusing the laws (Star News coverage)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RfsZtD9wJOU
5. Educated women wanting to instil fear in men
http://www.telegraphindia.com/1060717/asp/calcutta/story_6474225.asp
6. Research on 498a
http://www.498a.org/contents/Publicity/498aResearchReport.pdf

2007-06-28 07:55:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

And, if so, was it a positive or negative experience.

2007-06-28 07:42:16 · 27 answers · asked by luv2help 5

How can I make my husband understand that he cant control the way I think or the way I feel. That I am my own person if he likes it or not.......that I will never think the same way as him.......please help.

2007-06-28 07:36:21 · 18 answers · asked by Spice 2

I have been married for 5yrs and sometimes there are just things that I don't want to talk to my husband about. Mostly when we have an arguement I don't want to talk to him about it. I talk to my sister but she absolutely hates him and always tells me to leave him. I am not looking for a relationship just someone with a good ear and good honest opinions.

2007-06-28 07:35:40 · 12 answers · asked by Please help 2

2007-06-28 07:31:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 3 years can not shake off his ex-wife. No matter what I say he still talks to her. While there has been times when he has improved but it goes back to the same thing. She feels he is availbe when she wants him too. They have 2 kids 22 and 18 there is no reason for them to be talking on a daily basis. He says he love me and is the happiest he has ever been but I am confused. He also tells me that now that they are divorced they can actually talk becasue they could not do it before. I have asked him to go to a therapist but he says no. Can someone please give me some advise.

2007-06-28 07:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by ANNY G 1

we have opposite personalities and bicker all day long. he's really type a and i'm b, but at the end of the day we snuggle everynight watching tv and can't wait to sit together and unwind. we have great sex- but during the day i hate him and at night i love him more than anything. Any advice- its been 6 years and we both don't believe in a throw away marriage.

2007-06-28 07:23:05 · 7 answers · asked by girl 3

My sister is a very wonderful mum and wife. She has a husband that gambles, although she believes he is not a heavy gambler, this still bothers her as it could get worse.
She has three beautiful children that, for kids, are quite well behaved. Her children are 6 years and under. I would like an idea from someone who has been through maybe a similar situation on how to help her through this period in her life.

2007-06-28 07:16:34 · 27 answers · asked by Elia 1

2007-06-28 07:01:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it seem to work for them? I would think it would couse lots of issues in the long run.

2007-06-28 06:53:37 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 5