while you are married and or in a serious relationship would you let your significant other have a couple of porn magazines or no. how do you feel about others that do let there significant others have porn and do you feel that porn is bad or good?
2007-06-28 09:17:58 · 15 answers · asked by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think porn isnt a bad thing. I'm a guy and guys are visual and sometimes we need to see things to get excited (like a lap dance or some porn) It just adds a little spice to everything. If you're blowin' all your hard earned money on porn, you are a sicko and need counseling. But a little porn here and there is a real good tool. I say YES to porn!!
2007-06-28 09:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-17 20:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with pretty_mommy, I think porn is perfectly acceptable. I’ve been married for 10yrs and have lived with porn in the house since the beginning. We watch it together and/or alone when we need to “do the laundry by hand” once in a while. Neither one of us has a problem with that.
It’s no threat to either one of us, especially since we’re both secure with our relationship and ourselves. Checking out guys/girls walking down the street or in a bar is more of a threat than porn. Since you can act on the situation but you can’t act on a porn situation.
2007-06-28 10:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Waldo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad. However someone who'd rather look at porn than their partner does have an issue.
There is no "letting" a significant other have porn mags or videos. He or she isn't our property or our kid to boss around, but an adult who can make their own decisions. No, it wouldn't bother me if I was with a guy who had some porn...I have some porn videos of my own and I've no intention of getting rid of them for an insecure guy.
2007-06-28 09:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no scientific evidence to support that porn is bad the Nixon Presidential Report showed that there was no connection between porn and violence toward women.
If porn does not cause any harm then its not bad.
For people who are intolerant of porn the only harm comes from their own intolerance much like racism.
2007-06-28 09:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I hated it. But that was because my husband was obsessed with it. We weren't having sex hardly at all because he was too busy watching porn everyday. We got into big fights about it. I took it very personal. In my situation it was like he was choosing porn over me. I caught him several times at the house (while I was sleeping, in the shower...) Finally we had fought about it enough. I knew he was going to do whatever he wanted regardless, but I asked him to please not do it when I was at home and to see how much it was affecting me. It's been about 5 months since then & I barely even think about it anymore. I know he looks at it, but it's not that big a deal. It's not an everyday thing now. I think when I was freaking out about it he did it more and now that I just don't care, he hardly ever does it, weird. The point is I don't agree with it really, but he's a man and it's kinda what they do. As long as it doesn't interfere with our marriage, then whatever..
2007-06-28 09:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a time when both of you are in the mood to watch a porn movie. Watch fully clothed. Listen for his comments and he will listen to yours about things that look interesting or neither of you would like to perform. No touching or anything while the movie is on. When the movie is over or you both decided to stop watching, head for the bedroom for some hot body mingling.
2007-06-29 04:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by amyc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Porn is a very good and positive thing in my relationship.
2007-06-28 09:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching a video together is ok.. porn solo isnt realy too cool.it can spice up your lovemaking.kiddie porn is totally out of the question tho.soft porn can be ok in some cses.. the triple x kind is kinda sick where they are tieing eachother up and doing wierd things. is kinda sick..
2007-06-28 09:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by road runner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would bother me about the mags... maybe when I was younger, but not now. Hell it might get him off my back... LOL. porn is OK I liked it when i was younger but seeing all those "perfect" women who can have an "orgasm" at the drop of a hat can be a little discourging. So its just ok
2007-06-28 09:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by No Drama for this Queen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋