Marriage & Divorce - 28 June 2007

He can go play poker anytime, go look at cars but he can not spend time with us. Can anyone help???????????????

2007-06-28 17:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by rosepedal_25 1

Don't dget mad at othar peoples answers it is their opinion. What is yours?

2007-06-28 17:32:45 · 19 answers · asked by Confirmed Love? 2

Can anyone explain that?
Is this the work of the Devil?

2007-06-28 17:30:02 · 17 answers · asked by Carlos O. 1

I found my Best Friend husband Cheating on her. When he is with his wife he acts like they are in love and when I saw him at lunch with his love he acted like he is soooooooo in love with her he has no idea that I saw them and they were seated in the next both from where I was sitting so I got to hear the whole conversation he was having with her. I felt like going up to him and saying something but did not. Now this is eating at me I feel like I need to tell her something or give him the choice befoer I go to her with this. there is no doubt what is going on I heard everything. They have been married for 18 years and have 2 kids, What should I do?

2007-06-28 17:29:35 · 30 answers · asked by Rima 1

After our 3rd child, my wife started take anti-depressents / anti-anxiety drugs. This may be why she has absolutely no sex drive. Prior to #3, the sex was good. I do love my wife.

Dear Abbey once said "when there is no passion within the marriage, there will be passion outside the marriage". I haven't been looking for passion outside, but I finally told my wife that if some came my way, I probably would go for it. Well, I did. Now I've got this strong emotional desire for a co-worker. We've been friends for over a year, and the three of us have gone out several times.

My wife left for a 2 month vacation with her family, and my co-worker invited me over, and it happened. And it was GREAT! We sat and talked for about 6 hours one night. I have not had that kind of companionship with a woman since 3 years before I hooked up with my wife. Let me be truthful -- before the sun came up, we knew each other Biblically.

I don't want it to end with my co-worker. What should I do?

2007-06-28 17:12:10 · 23 answers · asked by Steve G 1

2007-06-28 16:36:06 · 20 answers · asked by Alisha 3

He goes into these jealous rages and accuses me of cheating just because our first child isn't his, but I was a victim of date rape before I've even meet him. A while ago he did some crazy stuff. He brought his ex-girlfriend in to help him beat up my family and destroy my whole house. I asked for a divorce but know he will try to come back but what should I do?

2007-06-28 16:33:11 · 48 answers · asked by HoneyBuns 2

Since my father inlaws death almost 2 yrs. ago, my husband has lost a screw or two. Friends and family members voices speak to him all the time all at once, telling him strange info. He thinks i can hear them as well and gets upset when i say i dont. He thinks a few personal items from his father have magical powers or sprits trapped inside them. The house, yard and bushes are filled with sprits and he will be the one to save everyone cuz Jesus will use him as a host. His mood swings are terrifying bcuz i have not done anything but hes sure that i did "the voices said so" Im doing things behind his back, I dont have his back. Its getting worse, he hides my car keys and i cannot leave the house. Does anyone have a car that i can work off (barter system) the price? i had my own cleaning service and managed a title co. for 12 years, when i had a life. I am desprite and dont know what to do, no living family and hes kept away any friends. Please help! Ive suggested counciling, he says no

2007-06-28 16:25:13 · 30 answers · asked by sexiewitch 1

i'm 28 years old and was living with my husband's house together with my sister in law and mother in law. Since i gave birth, they are the one's who kept spending most of the time with my baby and it was more of a routine schedule that everytime my sister in law goes home from work, my mother in law would eventually get the baby from me even though sometimes he is sleeping and just gave the baby in favor of her. At first it was an enjoyable time but how can i bond with my baby when all they got to do was spend most of the time with him?i don't want to hurt their feelings i tried talking to my husband and he ain't got problem with it. I was like having a separation anxiety with my baby. Is this normal?i do have work the whole day and goes off at 5pm. i was thinking of dropping off my baby to my family who lives nearby everyday and just get it after work, will this hurt their feelings?i need advice please.....

2007-06-28 16:09:34 · 15 answers · asked by nicole 1

About 4-5 months ago, My wife told me she lost her sex drive and has not wanted it since. I feel like I am going to explode or go insane. Is there anything I can do to get her sex drive back? She wont take any medicine and wont go to the doctor and I simply dont know what to do anymore. I still love her, but is this grounds for divorce? She has given me permission to get it from someone else, but I dont want that. What should I do?

2007-06-28 15:39:25 · 24 answers · asked by Brian S 1

Why is it that the final decision as to whether to have an abortion lies wholly on the woman? The guy will be just as responsible for the child if she decides to have the child and perhaps disappointed if she aborts. Why does the woman have the final say when it took 2 people to conceive that baby.

I'm looking for something other than "it's her body, she does what she wants."

If I'm wrong in my presumptions, let me know.

2007-06-28 15:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by Jared 4

Can he argue to get out of child support or lower it from the standard 20% of his pay? And would the courts allow that if he says he can't afford it? By the way, he doesn't want custody and he can afford it. Even after he pays all his bills (and the child support) he would have hundreds(almost 1,000) left for the rest of the month. I make about half of what he makes.

2007-06-28 14:47:48 · 30 answers · asked by love my life 2

I have a nice and funny, pretty much a normal nephew that has a newly wed wife into marriage and two little baby boys from the wife. Maybe about 3 or 4 yrs of marriage with his lovely wife. He commit suicide! I cannot believe a normal person like this, would do this, to himself. He was raise with 2 brothers and 2 sisters in a big family environment. He normally drinks beer and not into drugs, that I may know of. I heard rumors, that he was having problems in his life. The last time, I talk to him on the phone, was that he was busy working and supporting his lovely wife and small kids [family]. I never thought that he would do such a thing, especially being a hardworking family man. I am a hardworking family man, I do get into depression on my extremely bad days, but I never, ever think of suiciding myself, before my wife and lovely kiddos. Now the lovely wife is now a widow. How can this be? WHAT WENT WRONG??? WHAT COULD MADE HIM DO THIS-BY HANGING HIMSELF???

2007-06-28 14:41:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not because of not having the ability....but just lose interest?

2007-06-28 14:26:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 14:23:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all. I have a question. I am currently talking to someone with whom I have had a past relationship on the phone. I have not told my husband about it and I have NO plans for it to go any further than phone and email. Is this cheating? It is not like phone S*X or anything, just talking. Do you think this is cheating? What do you males think? Would you be pi$$ed? thanks

2007-06-28 14:14:35 · 47 answers · asked by demongelding1@hotmail.com 3

I am married to a man 16 years older than me... We have four kids. My husband treats me like I am a piece of crap. He says that I am suppose to call him in the daytime, and when I do he picks up the phone and asks me what the f*** do I want. He thinks that it is ok to call me a bi**h. He only cares about his sexual needs, 10 minutes and he is done. He hollars about everything and anything, even when the house is perfectly clean and the kids are in bed, he still finds something to hollar about. He even treats the kids poorly at times. He works by himself, our own family business, Lawn Care. He thinks that because I can work on vehicles, and detail vehicles, and mow lawns, and do paper work, and all kinds of things that I am suppose to do all of the things that he could do on top of caring for a house, kids, animals, and my own business. How can I make him respect me and treat me like an equal and not like his slave? What should I do? What are your outside points of view on this?

2007-06-28 13:46:37 · 15 answers · asked by krissy_lewis 1

okay,We met in 2003. In 2004 i proposed to him, in a silly but serious over the phone way, but then l8ter called it off bcuz i felt we were too young. then in 2005 he kept hinting like he was going to . He knows I'm ready i've been vocal and even asked him agin this past December. Then this year on Valentine's day he finally asked but he 'didnt like the way he did it' (neither did i he handed me a ring in the car and said 'that is your engagement ring' ) which leaves us as boyfriend/girlfriend again. it's almost July. will he ask again??

2007-06-28 13:40:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

It hurts to want everything & nothing at the same time

2007-06-28 13:06:30 · 3 answers · asked by auroa26 3

I'm very frustrated. My husband dont know how to please me during sex. I tried to talk with him, but he dont improve, i think it is because he doesent pay attention to my needs. I guess that he (and many men) only thinks about pleasing themselves, without caring about their partners. i need an opinion bcz i'm getting very frustrated about it. I need sex in my life, and i dont want to cheat him or leave him because of that, but i dont see other option. Plz give me an opinion.

2007-06-28 12:51:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do people think that abortion is right if you have laid down with someone you cared for or even just laid down with someone. If your responsabel enough to drop your paints then you should be responsibel for the consiquence that comes with sex its so wrong to kill a baby because you decided that you didn't want to do the rite thing theres always adobtion and help out there.
If your raped or millested then there is a good reason.

2007-06-28 12:50:34 · 26 answers · asked by James E 2

I have lived with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He has a 4 year old son who is only with us part time, but the son seems to be exhibiting some emotional problems. Huge tantrums for hours, kicking, hitting etc and moody when not throwing tantrums. My boyfriend sometimes tries to put the responsibility on me because he can't deal. Mind you he's a good dad otherwise. Plus, I really like the kid and he likes me. I do love my boyfriend, but someone I know who I trust told me that I'm young and should really reevaluate my situation and move out. I am very frustated, tired and overwhelmed. I am new at this so, forgeive me parents. I'm just being honest and want what's best for all.

2007-06-28 12:27:17 · 13 answers · asked by OurLadyOf Perpetual Indulgence 2

there is the love...yet he cannot rush to a divorce (and you understand that).

1. suffer it, give him hell, and maintain that relationship? how long would you give him?
2. stay away from him, and suffer....really really suffer.
3. move to another place, another planet would be preferable.

2007-06-28 12:26:05 · 25 answers · asked by thuy 3

Mine has been a very loving upbringing with parents who put their children first!

2007-06-28 12:12:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf broke up wit me last monday ,we had so much plans toghter ,we were gonna get married and everything ,we've been fighting alot due to the breakup, i called him like 4 days after but he told me he didnt want anything to do with me anymore and he changed his cell # so i couldnt get in contact with him...anyways the next day i found out im pregnant ,i called his job to tell him but he doesnt want anything to do with me...should i keep the baby knowing he probally wont be there in the future or just have an abortion?? im only 25 and im tired of the rollercoster ride i had with him....

2007-06-28 12:05:16 · 27 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

I have been married to my husband for 5 years, in the begining we were inseprateable, but we both ended up getting strung out on drugs and going to jail. While I was in jail, I had alot of time to think, and I was not happy with myself for the things that I had done, well when I got out, I started living with my husbands sister and brother, and I was depressed...and before I knew it I was using meth with his brother and ended up sleeping with his brother. Well me and my husband broke up and I went to rehab and got clean and started to move on with my life when my husband wrote me from prison, said he had forgiven me and wanted to work our marriage out....welll we did get back together, and for the last five years it hasnt been the same between us...and I do take the blame for most of it...but I thought when you forgave someone, you put it behind you and pushed on...wellleverytime we fight he brings it up, we dont make love but like once every two months and there is zero affection be

2007-06-28 12:04:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont like my stepdad I always look forward to seeing my dad.Iwant to move to my dads house but my bro already did and my mom will not talk to him.what should i do?

2007-06-28 11:47:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 11:41:13 · 13 answers · asked by six7foru 2

I told my husband that I feel like my sex drive is low and it backfired. Now he is mad at me and thinks that I am not in love with him as much anymore and that I don't desire him. I told him that it is not him, but the act that I am not desiring. I don't know what to tell him. I wanted him to help me with this problem but now it seems like we are having a bigger problem. What should I do?

2007-06-28 11:39:10 · 16 answers · asked by Valerie T 1

Some times my husband or things at work make me sad which makes me cry. I am not depressed I don’t know why I cry.

2007-06-28 11:35:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous