okay,We met in 2003. In 2004 i proposed to him, in a silly but serious over the phone way, but then l8ter called it off bcuz i felt we were too young. then in 2005 he kept hinting like he was going to . He knows I'm ready i've been vocal and even asked him agin this past December. Then this year on Valentine's day he finally asked but he 'didnt like the way he did it' (neither did i he handed me a ring in the car and said 'that is your engagement ring' ) which leaves us as boyfriend/girlfriend again. it's almost July. will he ask again??
2007-06-28 13:40:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you're too picky for him (no offense, just stating fact). He's bound to find someone else.
2007-06-28 13:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you're expecting a new proposal on top of a new ring, you're being very high maintenance. I think you're losing site of the big picture here. You broke up for 2 months, and like someone else pointed out, could you really and permanently have resolved the problems that broke you up in only 2 months? I suggest you hold off the engagement for a least 6 months to a year to work on your issues and see if they are really resolved. And if you truly resolve your issues, I would suggest he not spend $$$ on a new ring. Look at it as "resuming what you had." Unless you and he are financially loaded, I don't think that symbolism is worth thousands of dollars that could better be spent elsewhere.
2016-05-22 01:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been going through FOUR years of this nonsense? Even if he does ask you again or you get impatient enough to ask again, he seems not enough into you to make a commitment.
Didn't like the way he did it? Or didn't think the ring was big enough? Who has the ring since you said boyfriend/girlfriend even after you were surprised on Valentine's Day?
It is time to move on or just go back for eternity and forth until one of you gets tired of this game.
2007-06-28 13:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh....are you living in the 1950's and going steady? Where is you discussion about your future goals, religious beliefs, children or no children? Is there abuse or control issues with your relationship? Are there addictions? You make it sound like getting married is some Hallmark card idea of a happening. Getting married isn't some idealistic idea of true love...lt's more like applying for a job. If he or you can't live up to the real issues of being married forget about how you are asking to be married. You already are on the wrong track. And if the two of you haven't been discussing your future together then how you ask or when you ask isn't even important. Grow up. Marriage isn't going steady. It is a commitment of two people who are supposed to be on the same path toward life, not some idealistic idea of "real love".
2007-06-28 14:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad called my mom on the phone. She said yes, and they're still going strong 32 years later. If it's really important to you that he ask again, I'm sure he will. Start planning the wedding.
2007-06-28 13:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by fuzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you 8??? Freakin get over yourself... he gave you a ring didn't he??? Who cares if neither of you "liked" the way he did it. Set a date and plan the dang thing... by the sound of it you'll be divorced by 2008 anyway?!
2007-06-28 13:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Not Me... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he gave you the ring and you accepted. Why would he have to propose again. Just go ahead and plan the wedding already. Good Luck!
2007-06-28 13:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by sugarfish808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. Since you two have a history of asking and backing out though...why not plan a special dinner together and say "so....about that engagement ring...." and see what he says.
2007-06-28 13:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by terasa425 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it. You both have been asking each other for years, I am sure another proposal is in your future. He might be waiting for a special day or something.
2007-06-28 13:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Zero Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly dont know, it seems to confusing. Too many failed attempts. I would be excited.
It could be possible he does not have the money saved up for what he wants to do. You might have pressured him into it. Some guys are just not that romantic. I honestly don't know thou.
2007-06-28 13:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jason P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you ask, the less you're gonna get. if he's already expressed the desire- relax. let a man be a man and ask in his own time and way. whats the hurry? he may or may not ask again, but its better that he does it on his own without any pressure from you.
2007-06-28 13:53:28 · answer #11 · answered by kimm24seven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋