what should I do?

Question

I dont like my stepdad I always look forward to seeing my dad.Iwant to move to my dads house but my bro already did and my mom will not talk to him.what should i do?

Answer 1

well if u wanna move to ur dad just do it,ur mom shouldn't b this way,have a talk with her, she is ur mom u should do as she ask especially if she is the one who took care of u even if she is unfair about this,but that's what u wanna do

Answer 2

Well first of all do you have a legitimate reason for disliking your step dad or do you simply dislike the fact that he isn't your biological father? Is he abusing you physically or mentally or are you just being a brat? Either way I will try to answer your question the best I can. If he is abusing you then you should have a one on one talk with your mother about his behavior and explain to her why you want to leave. However, if you are just being a spiteful little brat then you need to grow up and start acting like the young adult you are. Life doesn't always go the way we would like it to go but we have to deal with it. How we choose to deal with our problems is what determines the kind of person we are to become. If you go through life with a childish mentality then you will find yourself constantly running situations and problems. As a young adult you must accept responsibility and face your problems rather than run from them. I hope this bit of info helps. Peace and God bless.

Answer 3

if there is no real reason for the dislike you really should give the guy a chance to be a part of your life...your mom must see something in him that is good...if you just can't "live" with it then you should move in with your dad and take your chances on your mom not talking to you, she may not at first but after she gets over the initial hurt of your leaving she'll probably "come around" ...been in this situation before and it is really crappy so good luck.

Answer 4

Talk to your mom why exactly you don't like your step dad maybe something can be done. If you have irreconcilable differences making you miserable I'm sure you can negotiate something with your dad to go live there. Remember, running away will not solve the matter. Teenager can be very aggressive against stepfather/mother, maybe it's you who needs to cut him a break.

Answer 5

try to find something about your stepfather that you like. there has to be something, anything that you like about him,, he like the same kind of movies as you do, he tells good jokes, he works hard to help keep a roof over your head, he makes a good hamburger, he drives you to your grandmas house, Once you find something you like , you can find others then pretty soon he won't seem so bad. Give the guy a chance. I am sure it hurt you Mom really bad when your brother moved do you want to see her hurt again and even more?

Answer 6

This is where it should be about "you." If you want to live with your dad then you need to talk to him and see if there is a possibility of it. If your mom doesn't like it, too bad. You shouldn't have to live your childhood in misery, that's why people grow up. You need to do what's right for yourself and to me that sounds like you need a fresh and welcome environment. Talk to him and your mom and see what can be done about the situation.

Good luck.

Answer 7

Phone your dad and talk with him, because it is important that your dad is able to have you there and whether he has the room for you. Does he have a partner?, if so you might find that you may not get along with her, because alot of children don't get along with their step parents. Plus you don't want to put too much pressure on his new relationship either or it may crumble. Cheers and good luck.

Answer 8

Try talking to your dad yourself, work things out with him- then see what your mom says about if it would be possible to move in with him.

Answer 9

Your father has as much right to you and your time and company as your Mom. if you Mother is so immature as not to speak with your brother because he wants to be with his father, then she is also not armature enough to be a good mother. Move in with your Dad and have a good life

Answer 10

You have to do what is best for you. If you feel more comfortable at your dad's house, then go live with him. If you mom does not talk to you because of it, that is her problem.