Who believes that the women do the cooking and cleaning?

Question

Don't dget mad at othar peoples answers it is their opinion. What is yours?

Answer 1

Its depends. its the 20th century a women can do whatever she wants to do. If she chooses to be a house wife, then she should cook and clean. But if she works and so does her significant other then I say whomever gets to it first, whomever cooks, or cleans the best. If one can do it better then the other then there you go. If they both can do it equally then they should take turns.

Answer 2

I know a lot of women who do the cooking and cleaning, and would rather have them do it because if I do it, we'd all starve and have no clean dish.

If you mean is it a woman's role to be the cook and made in the household, then no... it is a shared responsibility, yet because the woman usually has better organization skills where the house and kitchen and such goes, and it usually takes more muscle in the yard and outside (no, not everything) then A woman should take the charge position about how the house is organized, and the man be responsible for organizing the outside. This way they can work together to keep everything straight.

Answer 3

I think every marriage is different. I also believe that women do BY FAR the most work... Men work at their jobs, but women do that and everything else too. A man who actually shares -- EQUALLY shares -- with the housework and child rearing is as rare as platinum or diamonds.

In my situation, I do virtually ALL the housework -- and I love it! My partner works full-time and makes good money, allowing me to be mostly a homemaker. I do have a part-time job but it's VERY part-time -- sometimes as little as 3 hours a week. Most of the time I stay home and take care of the pets (no kids) and house. I'm THRILLED not to have to work full-time and I don't mind doing the housework (cleaning, laundry, ironing, cooking, everything) at all. And he's thrilled not to have to do housework! This partnership works very well for us.

Answer 4

If I didn't do the cooking and cleaning no one else would because I live alone. So do both of my daughters, my g/f, her best friend, and about 50 other women I can think of right of the top of my head. I think people should cook their meals and clean their homes.

I'm sure you were not thinking that something about the female gender makes them suited for cooking and cleaning when they don't live alone.

Answer 5

No i don't believe I should do all the cooking and cleaning - I hate guys that say a womans job is in the house!!
right back at them.
the woman has the baby for the guy, I think that they should be able to clean and cook!!
I would do it for the guy every weekend but I don't think its fair for me to be doing it everyday.

Answer 6

I would be happy to do the cooking and cleaning if my hubby will go out and work 3 jobs to bring home the money I do. As it is, I do both.

Answer 7

It is a shared responsibility in a marriage. However, I tend to do the vast majority of the cooking - though he makes some speciality dishes and baking which we request from time to time! As for the cleaning, that's split - for example, it's effortless for him to wash the kitchen floor, whereas for me, it kills my knees!

Answer 8

In my house we both do. Whoever makes it home first starts dinner, I do laundry and he vacuums and takes out the garbage. The rest of the chores are divided up between our sons and if one of us makes a mess we clean it up right away. Makes for a lot of free time to spend together.

Answer 9

I am found of cooking and cleaning, but honestly my husband does most of it. We have 6 children so I guess he feels the urge to help out more. I am so very lucky.

Answer 10

It depends on who wants to.If men work and women are housewives then then that is a normal situation.Within the relationship flexibility is a good thing setting aside time for discussing issues.Shout a meal out and praise her for housekeeping abilities could be appreciated.