I am a lady 23yrs and married with a 33yrs I was happy with him at the starting but now He doesn't care about me,comes back home late at nite,always use rude words on me, I don't feel happy if I am with him and we are having a 2yr old baby girl and she is with ma mum.
Through this problem I fall in love with another man and he always care for me but he is a married man and I love him so much, What Should I do Now!!!! Pls help me with advice...............
2007-06-28 06:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by angle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Work on your marriage: fix it or end it before becoming involved in someone else's.
2007-06-28 06:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no answer that will give a good short term effect. The only thing I can tell you is to make sure the new guy's feelings are the same as yours otherwise you could end up worse than where you are now. I guess what I am saying is you have to follow your heart and do what is best for you. Unfortunately you have a little one in the mix and you have to make sure what you do is in the best interest of her as well. Marriage should never put anyone down, and if it is than things need to change - you just have to figure out what that change will be.
2007-06-28 13:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by umph_mcgee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in mind if a married man you love will cheat on his wife with you then he is a loser with a capital L why don't you get rid of the man you are married to and get some schooling and learn to care for your self and your baby
2007-06-28 13:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys have really run your marriage in the ditch! He's out at night, disrespecting you, and you're messing around with a married man. What should you do? You both need to stop doing things that are ruining your relationship.
2007-06-28 13:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE JUST JUMPING OUT OF THE FRYING PAN INTO A BIGGER FIRE! GIRL, YOU NEED TO BE ALONE WITH YOUR CHILD AND GET A LIFE. Make yourself happy, so that you have that to offer a ''''single'''' man. Why on earth get involved with someone who is married. THAT IS JUST ASKING FOR MORE COMPLICATIONS IN YOUR LIFE....CUT IT OFF. GET A SEPARATION AND GET A GOAL TO BE SINGLE AND HAPPY. THEN, IF SOMEONE COMES ALONG ''SINGLE'' TOO, YOU TWO WILL BE ON EQUAL FOOTING TO START A PROPER RELATIONSHIP.
YOU ARE JUST VULNERABLE AND THIS GUY IS PROBABLY TOO. LET IT GO. BE STRONG AND MORALLED!
2007-06-28 14:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ain't treatn you right leave the man!!!!!!!!!! if the feelings you have for this new man are the same you had for your husband when you meat him don't date
2007-06-28 13:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋