2007-06-28 05:26:25 · 28 answers · asked by lantosszabi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there's no secret. communication, understanding, security and a fun sexual relationship. women tend to put out less after marriage. you should also marry a woman who doesn't think that porn is "mentally cheating" lol. if the sex is fun, good and often you won't need porn.
2007-06-28 05:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect. Never insult or criticize your spouse to anyone. Settle important issues or ones that come up often, even if they seem small, at home. Let once in a while things go.
Never miss a chance to tell them you love them or to specify the things they do that you like. Focus on the positive. The world is so negative and it's easy to be that way, but a lasting marriage has two people who are each other's biggest fans.
2007-06-28 12:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The God's ordained way to put the man and woman on earth was to represent him. so the Good marriage is to walking in the truth and by the spirit for the fulfillment of God's eternal purpose
2007-06-28 14:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by show me the way 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, trust, patience, forgiveness, understanding, again and again. Unfortunately many people that get married get caught up in in the wine and roses of it all. What they really need to consider is that it is something that the two of you will have to work at every day of your life together. It is a commitment unlike any other and something that should be taken very seriously.
2007-06-28 12:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by yankeegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no secret it has to be something you both want, and you are willing to work at and make it work it's so easy to call it quites when the going gets tuff, you just have to want it to work, been doing it for 36 years now, and there has been plenty of hard times, we have both said I want a divorce but, we have always made up before it could go to far, if you want it it will be
2007-06-28 12:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication.
Always talk about how you feel and do it by talking and not fighting ,fussing, throwing things ,or hitting.
Then you understand each other better and may not be mad for very long.
Working things out and being happy with each other and trying to make your partner happy makes a good marriage.
Marriage is all about giving and taking and not just taking!!
2007-06-28 12:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go to bed angry, always communicate, be spontaneous, date each other, don't get stale, keep it fresh, stay in shape, talk over dinner, hold each other when you sleep, be honest, hold hands, have good sex on a regular basis, give flowers when she doesn't expect it, let her rest when she is tired, remember that showing you care is taking care of her needs and wants and she will do the same for you.
2007-06-28 12:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust, communication, and faithfulness. I have been happily married for 10 years. Just tell the truth, don't cheat and you're good to go. The rest willbe a breeze.
2007-06-28 12:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by planetnoelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say "yes dear" even when you dont mean it. Tell her "I love you" even when you dont mean it. Listen to her or atleast pretend to listen to her even if you dont mean it. When she asks you something dont answer the first thing that comes to mind, take your time and think about what you are going to say that will benefit you in the long run even if you dont mean it. And for the love of God, when you are in bed with her make sure not to scream any other womans name.
2007-06-28 13:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by MEL831 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no secrets ... u have to be open and honest with each other. each give 100% .... and marry the person u can honestly say is ur bestfriend
2007-06-28 12:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋