I asked before about my fiance and I not having sex for quite awhile. He's not the real touchy feely kinda guy either. It has crossed my mind a few times over the 4 years we have been together that maybe he's gay. I caught him looking a couple different xxx tranny girl websites. I confronted him and he said he was just curious. 29 yrs old and just getting curious at that age?? Also during sex he loves when I insert my finger all the way up him. Sorry if that was too graphic but it does all worry me when you put it together. Could he be gay?
2007-06-28 06:42:54 · 9 answers · asked by Dextergirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he could be gay or bi. You can either support him or you can let him go... but if he is either he is going to be curious and explore what is out there. If you can live with that then you are going to be fine... if he is gay he may leave you for a man, maybe talk to him to see where he stands. A great friendship would come of understanding if he is frightened to come out of the closet. Good luck.
2007-06-28 06:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say from the information you gave, but it is very likely that he has some attraction for other men if he is looking at those web sites. I am happily married and have no desire to see what you describe. At the very least that stuff is kinky. Usually by 29, a person knows his/her sexual orientation. Plead with him to be honest with you. He owes you that if you plan to marry later.
2007-06-28 06:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a possibility that he is bi-curious or gay. I don't know what else to say....that I can actually type here at the moment.
2007-06-28 07:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by clovenstar_9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest,coz you don't want 2 get involve wiz him if he is a gay..go & ask him,,,if he is a gay then break_up.if not then explain why did you think that!!he should change his way & this "opening websites issue!!"
go on girl & be honest!!the best thing in good relationship is HONESTY....good luck!!
2007-06-28 06:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit him down and ask him point blank.Hopefully you won't marry him if you're unsure of his sexuality.Maybe he's afraid to tell you the truth because he's afraid he will hurt you.Good luck to you.
2007-06-28 06:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by lillulu460 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i hope you are wearing gloves?? e coli gross. Okay well maybe you should ask him but something must be going on.
2007-06-28 06:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just say 'are you gay?'
2007-06-28 07:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by Roberto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay or bi, you can either (a) embrace it or (b)leave him, but if he is gay or bi hes going to explore
2007-06-28 06:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you pull your finger out do you sniff ?
2007-06-28 06:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋