Marriage & Divorce - 19 June 2007

My husband and I had a ver good marriage. But over the years we gew apart. I care for him but not in love. It is time for both of us to move on. I don't know if this is a right decision. Divorce is a no no in my culture. Help!

2007-06-19 11:29:33 · 21 answers · asked by East & West 1

I want to get married in texas. I know I have to get a marriege license and I know the requirements, but after I have my license were can I go to get married? I mean; I will not be getting married at a church, so is there a judge that can marri us? If so were should I go, does any body has a link for this? I live in Dallas.
well Thanks for any help.

2007-06-19 11:17:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anais.Rym 2

just had a masive argument with the so called wife , we have split up but still living together, i refuse to sleep on the sofa she has bought the cover down and a pillow saying you are not sleeping in my bed, i can see this getting really messy when i go up to bed , our bed , ps no matter what i am not sleeping on the sofa , were do i stand?

2007-06-19 10:45:56 · 14 answers · asked by doggy dog 3

i like to spoil my man.. in the bedroom.. kitchen..( meaing food) in all areas.. am i being a door mat..is your gf like that.. if not what you would think or due if she was

2007-06-19 10:41:51 · 13 answers · asked by vis 7

My husband's friend has been after me for 6 months now..I have said No over and over..he keeps sending me flowers when they husband is at work(of course i throw them away)..My husband and I are newly weds(married for 1 year)..He (my husband friend) attended the same college with my husband and they play golf and hung out together a lot.

He has even sent me a diamond bracelet that i returned to him...Last night at a business function..while my husband was chatting with other people..His friend came behind and pressed against me so hard I could feel his pensis..I walked away..

Later he asked my husband and then me if he could dance with me..I said No but my husband insisted I dance with him..so i did..He was talking dirty and pressing against my breasts, he then squeezed my butt..I'm sick of this..

Should i tell my husband? and if so how do i approach my husband without making him feel like i'm trying to break their friendship..I know his friend will deny it?

2007-06-19 10:20:53 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am specifically interested in bank and phone records.

2007-06-19 10:19:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we're not divorcing right now, but just separating, and i plan on filing a few months after i move over. i'm just wondering if this choice can come back on me.

2007-06-19 10:17:15 · 11 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4

ex wife must be thinking.. in general, how do they ex-wives feel about their ex-man dating a younger and pretty female???

2007-06-19 10:00:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

We just got married almost a year ago. He works alot and gets tired which I can understand. Is it too much to ask to have sex with the person i love more than 1-2 a month? He doesn't want to go to the doctor or get counseling again. What else do I need to do? I want to have a family with him.

2007-06-19 10:00:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

so that our un-born child now will have her hyphenated name and not mine

2007-06-19 09:58:24 · 22 answers · asked by trademotion 1

This is something that happened recently in our house and is a good example of what happens probably once a week....

We recently changed our TV service from cable to satellite. I made the arrangements and set everything up. I got a copy of the list of channels DISH Network offers and e-mailed it to my wife, per her request. I asked her to review and make sure everything meets her standards.

Two weeks go by, I don't hear a word from her on the service, so we get it installed. Sure enough, the next day she starts complaining because we don't get ONE channel that we were getting on cable, and she doesn't like the new service and wishes we didn't change.

I gave her everything to review two weeks before installation. She clearly said "f" it, didn't read it (which I asked her to do), gave her a chance to reject it, and now she gripes.

Why do women do this?

2007-06-19 09:42:49 · 50 answers · asked by Gallo 3

We have lived together for over a year, so living issues shouldn't be a problem, we both want kids someday and are very much in love. We have discussed finaces and religion, still not 100% in agreement, but have resolved to respect the other's position. But are there any other things that are important to ask before getting married to avoid problems later on? Thanks

2007-06-19 09:42:48 · 24 answers · asked by Snarf 3

Is it unmanly if when I get home from work, I cook dinner and do house chores like laundry?? My wife can't cook very well, and she gets tired after coming home from working late hours at home depot. My co worker keeps riding my *** for doing so, saying things like I'm whup and I'm sick and tired of it!.

2007-06-19 09:42:38 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Southern California.
And yes, I cheated on her so I guess it's my fault if that matters.
Thanks

2007-06-19 09:41:01 · 28 answers · asked by artlover_65 1

We have been married for the past three years and things have been up and down as of late. I recenly over heard her on the phone complaining about not getting the same treatment as when we first got together. I have done the flowers and the chocolate. The money is tight and we have a problem with finding a sitter a lot. I'm looking for some help from someone to help my marriage. Please help

2007-06-19 09:36:36 · 11 answers · asked by Ryan m 1

I work for a construction company as a secretary and I am around men all day long. I am happily married to a man and we have been together for 7 years. He knows I love him and adore him. He always gets so mad when another guys tries to hit on me. Shouldn't that serve as a compliment to him... someone else likes something that you have? It is kinda like "Hey Man, Your wife is HOT!" I don't want him to dislike the guys that I work with. I want everyone to be cool with one another. I am faithful to my husband so he has no worries of me cheating. HELP ME!!!

2007-06-19 09:35:43 · 17 answers · asked by crystal g 3

and your husband just left you when he found out?I mean i need help cuz this stupid husband that i thought was thinking about having a child some day cuz we always talked about it left me when i had her i mean this baby girl is the best thing thats ever happened 2 me but how can i raise her by myself some1 please help me?????????

2007-06-19 09:34:32 · 11 answers · asked by Mellisa 1

I'm fresh out of ideas help!

2007-06-19 09:31:43 · 17 answers · asked by TMT 1

I have been in an affair with someone for three years (i'm the married one) and all the times I've tried to end it, we end up making up and still carrying on. I just feel like it's going no where, but at the same time, I can't stop seeing him. What should I do?

2007-06-19 09:26:24 · 31 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

2007-06-19 09:21:29 · 22 answers · asked by CHRIS D 1

At least once or twice a day I read questions from angry wives complaining about their husbands looking at porn on the computer. Ironically, these are the SAME wives that think that sex once every 6 weeks for 10 minutes while their hair is in a ponytail, no make up, flannel pajamas, and with horrible morning breath should be enough to keep their husbands happy and satisfied! If that's the case then what do YOU care if your husband whacks it off to internet porn? Clearly YOU'RE not up for it, so what do YOU care if he takes matters into his own hands?

2007-06-19 09:20:47 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3

how much space do i give to the boy i love that broke up with he broke with me on fathers day i need him any my life and if yall cant help me that who can ?

2007-06-19 09:19:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why?

2007-06-19 09:09:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husaband and I have been married only a year and have gone through drug, alchohol and now porn addiction. he has been getting on the computer and looking up porn. i told him right from the beginning how bad it makes feel and he promised he wouldnt do it anymore but of course did. then i put a lock on the computer and that didnt work either because he still looked at it somehow. im all out of ideas and am fed up with getting my heart broken with every addiction especially since he dosnt even beleive he has a problem. yesterday i packed his stuff and simply said it was over and of course he begged his way back into my life and i let him, only if he looked up how to fix his problem with me on the internet. i left room for one minute to go pick up our crying baby and he somehow managed to look up two porn sites in that time. now guys say its not a problem but when it becomes a need rather than a desire, well i think there is something wrong with that.

2007-06-19 09:03:53 · 30 answers · asked by nikkip559 1

What do you think about this?

This American woman isn't conventionally pretty but is wealthy. Man doesn't have a job (in school studying business) and is not a US citizen. She has 2 middle-school-aged kids. They've known each for less than a year. He's moving in in July and they're getting married in December.

What's your impression?

2007-06-19 09:01:07 · 36 answers · asked by Claire 3

I've been with this man for 7yrs and we have two children together but we break up for about 4 months and while we we're break up he got another girl pregnant and now the baby will be 2 years old in Sept. but since then we've done really good and we just got a new home together but today he had his son's mother come by while I was at work to get diapers for the baby....it made me mad b/c I wasn't there Should I have got mad?

2007-06-19 08:58:27 · 40 answers · asked by ~LoveSpell~ 3

I was at a fair and saw a booth and wondered whether anyone would buy them.

2007-06-19 08:56:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He called frm India.. I am in Singapore. Looks gud n all.. He spoke for 40mins on da phn!!.. He sounds serious... bt im ashamed i ws juz kiddin wen i chattd..

2007-06-19 08:54:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

because I dripped the motor oil on her new rug as I was cleaning the engine rod. She told me to never do this in house. Now she says she is very sad. Should I buy her new apron to make her satisfy.

2007-06-19 08:53:40 · 17 answers · asked by alfred pimples 1

2007-06-19 08:26:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous