how much space do i give to the boy i love that broke up with he broke with me on fathers day i need him any my life and if yall cant help me that who can ?
2007-06-19 09:19:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You must be young, you will not die from a broken heart, it just feels that way for awhile.
Stay active with your family and girlfriends and leave him alone, trust me it will drive him crazy.
The best piece of boy advice I give my daughter is you will never be happy with a boy, if you aren't happy with yourself first.
Good luck.
2007-06-19 09:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by IcanoutfishU 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no one can really help you but yourself. I know how this hurts, because most of us have gone through a traumatic break up at one stage or another. The only thing you can do now, is to try and get on with your life. See your friends, go places, and do the things you always used to do. Of course there is a chance that he will come back, but there is also a chance that he won't, so you have to realize this, and try to live your life as normally as possible. I know this sounds trite, but time WILL make you feel better. It has only been a few days, and you are still terribly hurt. Perhaps if your ex sees you going about your life, and not sitting moping about him, he will change his mind. If he doesn't come back, there WILL be someone else you will meet, and be happy with. Good luck, you sound young, so remember that yo will fall in love again.
2007-06-19 16:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by sparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely need to work on your grammar and spelling exercises before you ever attempt a serious relationship, you will make him ashamed to be with you. Is there an empty bong or whiskey bottle in front of you anywhere, or maybe an empty bottle of pills.
Seriously, back off for about 4 to 6 days, the more the better. Try to make contact with him and talk sweetly and nicely to him and try not to piss him off. Tell him EXACTLY what it is that you are feeling towards him and pray that if this is what you really want, that he will give you some type of POSITIVE response that you are looking for.
2007-06-19 16:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by psycho magnet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him as much as you think. Why did he break up with you? Think about it. There had to be a reason. Maybe the reason was just HIM, but regardless, this happened for a reason. You need to move on. Take some time off. Keep yourself busy. Have some fun. Hang out with your friends. Volunteer or take up a hobby. Get out there and do some things. Get some exercise. And whatever you do, don't talk to your ex. You'll get over him, and then you'll be ready to find someone who is BETTER. You can do it!
2007-06-19 16:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little bit of space for now. Sounds like you're not feeling so great. Relax. Take a bubblebath and some time to think things over. Then in about a week or so, give him a call and see if the two of you can meet for dinner and talk some things over. Take it slow. Being all emotional will just freak him out. Get yourself together and take care of yourself-then deal with it.
2007-06-19 16:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by brass in pocket 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but he's made it clear he doesn't want you in his life. The more you 'need him'..the more upset he's going to become and make you even more miserable. You're obviously very young, you have lots of boys and years ahead of you. Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. It hurts, sure..but it was lust/puppy love and it will happen again and again, until you're mature enough to handle the real thing. No 'woman' NEEDS (but most want) a man...that's a first sign of maturity.
2007-06-19 16:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. You're not really dying. The boy broke up with you, which tells me you're just a girl, i.e., not an adult. Don't give someone else that much power. Be strong. Move on. Don't lose your childhood.
2007-06-19 16:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so he broke up with you...and you feel like it is the end of the world...but hey it is not...nooooo..... he is just one of the many fish in the sea that you just happened to catch. Look on the bright side...now you can go out and do whatever it is you do and be yourself....you dont have to share any part of you with him anymore. That right there is a celebration in itself..you dont need him....noooo... no ...no...no..your dont..anyways hope that helps.
2007-06-19 16:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here is what my grandmother told me and it ALWAYS works. "He who cares the least, wins." What that means it, don't sweat the small stuff. Don't let him know that you are hear broke. Men almost always want what they can't have. Let him come to you. Be nice, but play it VERY cool. Good luck!
2007-06-19 16:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i have figured out what u say is right ..then give him all the space he needs ..he obviously needs it of he wudnt of left..
just get on with ya life as much as poss..time heals ...u will get over him in time
2007-06-19 16:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by LISA G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋