Marriage & Divorce - 24 May 2007

2007-05-24 06:54:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

After talking to my husband about the pictures on the website
he lied about Every thing ...I got him to tell some truth but he still lying about where the pictures was taken it bad enough that he took them but in out bedroom,and he will not tell about it. I can't take the hurt no more please help.
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2007-05-24 06:41:27 · 4 answers · asked by Rose 1

He actually rides to work w/ a female co-worker. As far as I know he has never cheated on me, but I'm just getting a little worried. We only live a street aw ay from each other and she came over one night and he ended up taking her home cause it was late and it took him almost 20 min. when it shoudl have been 2 min. Am I just worrying for nothing. I have asked in a round about way but he seems to get so mad and thinks I'm crazy for thinking something like that.

2007-05-24 06:33:56 · 22 answers · asked by SnAzZy 2

That is the question...

2007-05-24 06:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we dated for 1 year and had a baby together and then got married and stayed married for a year. 2 months later we split up he has a girl friend and i have a boy friend but we are both still in love with each other what should i do ??

2007-05-24 06:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by iloveorlandobloom 1

Several weeks ago, my girlfriend and I broke up after almost two years together. Since I've moved back, she's called to stay in contact with me, but the calls were always about her and what she was doing. Then, a week ago, she went into the hospital (she's had prior health issues). At first, I was concerned and wanted to fly out there, but she said it'd be weird me being out there just to take care of her. I started distancing myself from her and guess what? Her attitude changed. I backed away and she called me several times to ensure I wasn't mad. Suddenly, she wanted to know what was going on in my life, how i was, etc.. We've talked alot since then, just like old times. And she even told me that she realized she can't live without me. I still love her and think maybe we can get back together, but I know she doesn't want that - she wants me in her life as her friend. But, I can't just be her friend. What do I do? What do I tell her? It's too hard for me just be friends with her.

2007-05-24 06:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by Trust Me 2

My husband received a letter about having to pay child support for a daughter he has never met. She is 14 yrs old. we have 2 kids together and I have 1. I am so confusse I don't know if the kids should find out about her. I don't even want my husband to have a relationship with her. Please if anybody had been in my situation give me some words of encoragement. I dont know what to do

2007-05-24 06:20:34 · 53 answers · asked by tambora33 1

You don't have to read all of this to answer
I have to admit lately I have become pretty rude, but he hit me before. When I say nothing anyone could ever do deserves violence or intimidation, he just gets madder. I have hit him back, but not every time.
Honestly, what kind of things deserve a violent reaction?
Asking the same question 3 times because "I don't care" isn't an answer to me, so I get screamed at for asking the same question? Then it escalates from there, and I get intimidated, screamed and cussed at then pushed, to fall and hit my head on the dresser before the ground. and my stuff thrown around, and threatened?
Couples know how to push eachother's buttons, but does button pushing or being a *#@!% warrant violence, threats or intimidation?
I know I should leave, long story, I owe $6000 that is partly his debt too, and not only will he not pay a cent of it if I leave, he keeps EVERYTHING the 'debt' paid for and I have to pay half rent until lease is up.

2007-05-24 06:20:14 · 13 answers · asked by roxy 4

I am posting this again because some of you raised issues that I need to address.

He got involved with a woman I know in the neighborhoood and moved two blocks from me. We have two very young kids together. He takes the same train that I take and he passes my house when going to her house. My kids talk about her daughter.

They are both very active in the community. I have to see both of their photos in the newspapers. Friends ( no longer) and in-laws have accepted them as a couple even though he is still married AND SO IS SHE.

Just move on?

He left 10 months ago but I still hate him to the core of my being. I am in therapy. My therapist says that it is normal when you have invested 14 years in a relationship and that I will eventually move on. I would like some sign that there is hope of doing that. Thanks.

2007-05-24 06:19:37 · 20 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1

Hi, does anyone know details of how a divorce works in the State of Ohio, in Butler County? I'm not necessarily getting one, but I wanted to obtain all the info. I could "just in case." Basic overview, married 6 years, second for both, no children and he makes over 3 times what I do. Thanks much!

2007-05-24 06:03:47 · 7 answers · asked by DCD 2

I was married when I was 18 and I have not seen him since I was 20. Im not 44 and would like to find out if he is even alive, and how to go about getting a divorce.

2007-05-24 05:51:25 · 7 answers · asked by leez692003 1

2007-05-24 05:49:05 · 33 answers · asked by girl confussed 1

She says he doesn't deserve her because he loves her way more than she could ever love him. She loves him, but is not in love with him. They have 1 child together and have been together for 9 years they are in their mid 30's. She is not a depressed person. He is not bad to her in any way.....he doesn't beat her or cuss her etc.. He just loves her so much he is always on her huggy kissy just always there..and that bugs her. What do I tell this woman? She is ready to go. She says once she is done she is done.This has come about in the last 5 months. There is noone else that she is seeing she just wants to be herself! We have been friends for 30 long years and I just don't know what else to tell her.

2007-05-24 05:46:51 · 21 answers · asked by Liz 2

2007-05-24 05:09:01 · 13 answers · asked by akk345 1

2007-05-24 04:56:41 · 15 answers · asked by Marino 3

2007-05-24 04:48:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I tell my husband something is hurting my feelings, he acts like I am ridiculous and says "wow, your in a bad mood today or where did that come from out of the blue..." and walks away as if he is dismissing my feelings - that makes it worse.

Am I being a big baby to think that it is normal for him to respond like - "oh, i'm sorry, I didn't know that was hurting your feelings", or since he didn't realize, make me feel like it is important to him that I don't have hurt feelings?

2007-05-24 04:41:30 · 21 answers · asked by sugar 2

my wife left me 2 weeks ago. Some really bad stuff
happened (unplanned pregnancy, abortion, emotions,
yelling, then she left). Since then I've seen her stopping
places at times when she knows I'll be there because
it's my normal routine. She is playing hard to get.
Being there but not communicating with me at all by
phone, email or anything but she's at places where she'll
run into me a lot. I myself have tried to avoid those places.
She's serious about divorce but so am I because she
left. She is stubborn and so am I. We'd both go through
this to just prove to the other we're not going to be
pushed around. I'm wondering if I should contact her like
send her a text saying "miss your husband het?". Only thing
is if she doesn’t care she just won't respond and get satisfaction
and power from it and it will make me feel worse to not get
a response. I do think she's trying to connect with me
by being somewhere. What should I do? Lots of people say
don't contact her but it's not like I'm dating her, she's my wife.
and we have a blended family with 3 kids to consider going throug
a divorce. If I send her something and she doesn't respond I'll feel
really foolish and my self esteem will take a hit. I want her to contact
me.

2007-05-24 04:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1

I am a deployed soldier in Iraq and I have been here for 8 months now. I keep getting into these huge arguements with my wife over stupid stuff. She has on numerous occations said she wanted a divorce, and then like a month later she would act like it never happened. I'm so confused and I feel like I'm gonna lose this war at home. Can someone tell me why she is doing this? I thought it could be the time apart or maybe someone else, or maybe she really is falling out of love for me. I try my best to be a great father and husband but it seems like I'm always doing something wrong with her. Please help me! I love her more than there are grains of salt in the ocean. I really want my marriage to work. ~ A Soldier In Need Of His Country ~.

2007-05-24 04:28:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-24 04:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a couple divorces for irreconcilable differences, and no prenuptual agreement has been made, how are assets split between the two parties? Does each keep what they came in with and split the rest based on monetary value or is there another way to go about it?

2007-05-24 04:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He had an affair and ended our relationship over 2 years ago. We shared the house for a year because neither of us could afford to move out. I finally was able to move out on my own. Even though my name is still on the house, I have been banished for the entire last year. Now that our divorce is finalized (finally!), he has been ordered to sell the house. He has done nothing to get it ready to sell and keeps telling me that I have to come clean it because it wasn't spotless when I moved out. I sincerely do not feel this is fair. He is refusing to pay to have it cleaned and refusing to participate in getting it ready. What should I do?

2007-05-24 04:15:31 · 22 answers · asked by ZuffieC 1

my boyfriend of half year, have made such a decision that we are going on dates for few times stop having sex with each other for few days before jump back to the old routine (four nights together), the reason he wants to do this is that we had lots of fights over the last few months, and we almost break up. but we still love each other, but he doesnt like me dont trust him sometimes, a bit obsessive, insecure,jealous?? i never thought i have these issues with guys..(excuse me the english sense of humour--if a guy tells you he loves you sometimes, how that helps you secure?) we got together pretty quickly. and having great sex. maybe due to the fights, we seems have less fun together apart from bedroom from his view... i feel his decision making me feeling emotional distanced... i dont understand why he makes such decision, he says he wants to find the old happy me and old happy him together, grow closer...but i feel this makes me sad and hurt..is it a good idea to do this?

2007-05-24 04:09:03 · 9 answers · asked by sabella 1

You know how they say women are attracted to married men, Are men attracted to married women? Just curious.

2007-05-24 04:08:35 · 7 answers · asked by Texas Rose 3

if not then how will the law differentiate betweet it and prostitution?


i know pre marital sex and prostitution are different.. i want to know how does the law judge it when a couple are cought... and im NOT ganna ve sex with anyone okay.... i wanna know it as a general information

2007-05-24 04:06:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to file for divorce - I think! I have been maried for 15 years (together for 20). I have tried absolutely everything I know to try to work it out. We have gone to counceling several times throughout the relationship. It seems to work temporarily, but things always go back to the way they were. Our communication is terrible, if not non-existent. We have no intamacy at all! We haven't had sex since February and before that it was over a year. He is addicted to television. He never goes to bed with me because he has to stay up to watch TV. On the rare occasion that he does go to bed at the same time, he turnes on the TV and ignores me completely. I know I could probably beg him for sex and get it more often, but that is so degrading. I want him to at least pretend like I am important to him. I want to be happy! Religiously, I am struggling with the idea of divorce! Any advice would help! Thanks!

2007-05-24 03:55:48 · 15 answers · asked by Kailey 5

i am 28 and when i was in college i would dance for girls at parties and stuff. i was told i can do it for a living. i work out a lot and am big into physical fitness. i have a great career, but my life is bring, professional,etc. i am going to keep my career, but i would like to strip for girls at night part-time. the thing is that it would have to be a secret or i will lose my career. how can i advertise myself and where to get the work? in college girls would just ask me , word of mouth type of thing. but now i am in dallas, texas and dont know how or where to advertise myself--help anyone???

2007-05-24 03:55:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was a jerk...Gotta make it up to my lovely wife. I've appologized but I can see she hasn't forgiven me. We are going on a 10 day vacation in a week and I want the air clear. Any Ideas...I'm looking for something unique.

2007-05-24 03:53:31 · 11 answers · asked by db14 5

"It's just too hot to wear clothes today," Jack says as he stepped out of the shower, "honey, what do you think the neighbors would think if I mowed the lawn like this?"
*"Probably that I married you for your money," she replied.


One day my housework-challenged husband decided to wash his Sweat - shirt. Seconds after he stepped into the laundry room, he shouted to me, "What setting do I use on the washing machine?"
"It depends," I replied. "What does it say on your shirt?"
He yelled back, "University of Oklahoma."
And they say blondes are dumb...

*He said -"Shall we try swapping positions tonight?"
She said -"That's a good idea... you stand by the ironing board while I sit on the sofa and fart."

Q: What does it mean when a man is in your bed gasping for breath and calling your name?
A: You did not hold the pillow down long enough.

Q: Why do men whistle when they are sitting on the toilet?

A: It helps them remember which end they need to wipe.

2007-05-24 03:52:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly*Belly 4

Why is it you always see questions about bad marriages on here?Why can't you hardly find someone who is actually happy with their marriage like me and the other few people on here.Why does peoples marriages always have to be so bad?

2007-05-24 03:43:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous