Why is it you always see questions about bad marriages on here?Why can't you hardly find someone who is actually happy with their marriage like me and the other few people on here.Why does peoples marriages always have to be so bad?
2007-05-24 03:43:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mine is great!
2007-05-24 03:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people get married for the wrong reasons, don't ask enough questions, don't question the answers and when the normal problems of life come up, are too lazy to do the hard work.
I had a bad marriage, but that was my fault for marrying him in the first place. However we are friends and we got two wonderful twin daughters out of it. Happiness is relative and its always up to you.
2007-05-24 10:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you about someone who is happy in their marriage.
It is me.
First let me tell you about my first marriage. I was 20 and she was 17. We had some tough times as I was in the navy and made almost no money. We struggled and grew together in the navy and had two children. We learned how to make our commitment work and how to work together as a team to raise a family. I truly believe that the separation that occurred in the Navy made my marriage stronger. I also witnessed how marriages broke up because they werent committed to each other enough to put their petty needs aside and raise their spouses needs above them. Eventually I found out my wife was ill and would eventually die from her disease and I took care of her throughout her illness and for love and life that we share 27 years of marriage I loved her only. She passed in 2003. I have since found and married another wonderful woman who makes my life whole again. I am happy to say that marriage is the only thing that would have worked for me as we need to be committed and any lesser relationship would not be a full commitment. She fills my needs and I try to fill hers.
Marriage is a full time commitment for your life. If you are not willing to do this then you are not trying to be a real spouse.
I am here to tell you that real Marriage is the best thing that Life can yield to you.
2007-05-24 10:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's lots of people on here talking about their good marriages. You may not realize it because they are usually the ones answering those questions for the people asking about their bad marriages. My marriage is a good one and I am perfectly happy with my life, in reflection of that, I've never asked a question regarding my personal life. Not everyone is miserable, but it's the miserable that need the help, so they are the ones posting the questions.
2007-05-24 10:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The happy marriages just dont have any questions or nonsense to post about. Its all the bad marriages that have all the questions about how to fix it. No need to ask about changing a happy marriage.
2007-05-24 10:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think the marriages are bad, there are just bad problems that arise within a marriage and people are just trying to find ways to take care of them and improve that situation. Doesn't mean the whole marriage is bad, just a rough spot in the road.
2007-05-24 10:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they like to complain about all the bad things that they think are going on. I have a normal marriage, some days are good, some are bad and others are great. A lot of people if they arent complaining they arent talking.
2007-05-24 11:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What questions would someone have if they were in a happy marriage? This is a place for us to get advice on the problems we have.
2007-05-24 10:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person had a great marriage they wouldn't need to ask other people's advice on the craziness that they are going through and the bad choices that they made.
2007-05-24 10:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Ed 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is there to question when your marriage is happy? Most people are looking for a happy marriage and have questions only when there are problems. That's perfectly normal.
2007-05-24 10:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by retropink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people come here for inputs on their problems. Kind of hard to ask a question about a good marriage.
2007-05-24 10:47:44 · answer #11 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋