Marriage & Divorce - 24 May 2007

if u said yes...look at divorce rates in all over the world
if u said no ...why in some religions forbid to marry one woman plz reply?

2007-05-24 10:56:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my fiance for 5 years total, living together and engaged for 3. I have spoken to him about his issues, i've yelled, i've cried, and he won't change. I miss being alone, and independent. I don't want to see other people. He is not the same man I fell in love with, how can I break it off? I'm scared!

2007-05-24 10:55:05 · 25 answers · asked by Gracellyn G 1

In Oregon when a spouse takes all the money out of a joint savings account, is there anything the other spouse can do about it such as some way of forcing the other spouse to return half the money?

2007-05-24 10:54:22 · 6 answers · asked by Kevin A 1

We are good friends to each other and he even agreed that our sex life wasn't good throughout our marriage. Said he should have left after one year but wanted kids. Keeps telling me he loves me but needs sex. He knew before we got married that I didn't really enjoy it but thought I would change. We have been to counseling but he doesn't like to go so no more. He told me the other day he is unhappy and needs to feel like a man. When I do have sex he says I am not into it and he can tell so I feel like damn if I do or don't. He said maybe we need to separate then the next day says he loves me and I should try harder. I love him as a friend also. He doesn't want a roomate. We have 2 kids - 16 and almost 18. He is 43 and I am 40. He brings this up it seems like every year around his birthday. This time he says its for real but he doesn't want to leave cuz he loves me. Any suggestions or advice would be appreciated.

2007-05-24 10:44:24 · 13 answers · asked by travelgirl 2

2007-05-24 10:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by suederay 1

2007-05-24 10:34:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

How far and with what kind of aspects do you fluxuate with? I was raised told that no one is perfect, and that all relationships need work to survive. So is there "the one"? I will, and have, gone out with anybody I'm attracted to. The rest I deal with through patience and understanding. One thing I'm let down on is that my current gf doesn't really stimulate me intellectually. Where is the line when coping with this? It can't be changed basically bc it is her personality; but on which things do you decide to work with and to not work with? I love her to death, but in this aspect it is killing me bc we are talking (she) marriage. I feel too bad hurting anyone. I love her so much. She is so sweet and good-hearted.

2007-05-24 10:27:57 · 12 answers · asked by 46&2 2

2007-05-24 10:27:11 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Boozshieee 1

I have heard that there is, such as, in California, a spouse if one is working and the other isn't, is responsible BY LAW, to provide medical help, shelter, food, etc. My friends husband, argues with us that this is wrong, does anyone know where we can find this out once and for all? We live in California, and any and all info would be appreciated. Thankx

2007-05-24 10:12:31 · 2 answers · asked by MotherKittyKat 7

Ok, here's the synopsis:

Jane and John are married. Jane sleeps with another man and ends up pregnant. Jane and John decide to put the mistake behind them and stay together. When the baby's born, Jane and John both know the child is most likely _not_ John's, but they list John's name on the Birth Certificate anyway.

Several years later, Jane and John are divorced and a paternity case is filed and the results show John is not the biological father. The biological father is ordered to provide healthcare and pay child support for the child.

My question is this: Is the Birth Certificate updated at this point to reflect the child's correct biological father?

2007-05-24 10:10:53 · 11 answers · asked by Becca 4

My problem is?
iam 22 male ,of course that is not problem...the problem is i hesitat alot in marriage because i want a girl have everything beaut,white sexy big tists,good ***,smart,in a good family,doct,or any realated job like me,funny kind,sociable,love me alot,have never previous relationship with a guy,religious..iam tired seeking for it ..because i want her satisfy me in all my needs and make me just concentrate on my job and my family(wife-kids-mam)......can u help me plz??????

2007-05-24 10:10:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your child in one glass box, your husband in another. You have a control panel in front of you with one button. There is a countdown clock for one minute. If you press the button your husband dies from poisonus gas piped in and your child lives. If you do nothing, after the minute your child dies from poison gas. What do you do?

2007-05-24 10:09:19 · 32 answers · asked by ? 4

My husband and I have been talking about having a 3some with another woman involved. I also told him that if one day he wanted to have one with a male friend of his, it would be ok. I may not like it all, but I would be willing to do what he wants to fulfill his fantasies. Is that completely wrong and degrading?? He says that I shouldnt be willing to be shared. But to me...married couples having 3somes together with each other participating isnt wrong. I need some help because I am so lost on this one and dont know what to tell him. He just thinks Im low and wrong for thinking like that.

2007-05-24 10:06:36 · 32 answers · asked by kim w 1

im indian myself and i think it is ridiculous to have an arranged marriage- how can you deal with having to spend the rest of your life with a complete unknown stranger- is it to benefit your family cuz thats jus stupid

2007-05-24 09:52:04 · 26 answers · asked by apple 5

My step son's mother is something else to deal with. He lives 3.5 hrs away. My husband has everyother weekend visitation and every other week in the summer months. They meet half way to pick up and drop off. However, my husband or the rest of our family have had no time with him in almost 3 months, due to sports activities. She expects us to go 3.5 hours away everyother weekend with 4 other kids to see him play lacrosse. (very proud of him by the way). and stay in a hotel....or we don't get to see him. another problem My husband works on weekends(sometimes)also helps coach our 5 yr olds soccer team. He tries to make sure he is fair and gets to a couple games for everyone. Even though he tries super hard and has a good heart about it the ex is horrible to him. Calls him a loser in front of his son etc......always blames him....did I mention she's been married 3 times in the past 2 years and moved 7 times? We pay for all extra activities plus pays 125.00/week support HELP!!!!!

2007-05-24 09:41:12 · 11 answers · asked by Mik mom 1

I'm a 28 mother of three who has been married to a 23 year old asshole for 1 year. He enlisted to provide a better life for me and my three children none of which are his. He is a good father to them and they love him. He even wants to adopt my oldest since her dad isn't around. But he put the D in dog. He has cheated from the start and lied about all of it. He had sex with his ex the day before our wedding and a week after 'I do'. Continued to sex her every chance he got. He got STD's from her and try to accuse me of cheating and giving it to him. Has two children out of wedlock that he failed to mention until 6 months after we were married.He even tried to take an allotment out of his check while he's in a Iraq and put it into her account.This man has put me through hell and I have never cheated not even once. Even though I'm a 9 and he is a 5 and I get hit on all the time. I want a divorce, but I do love the military benefits. I don't have to work, he pays the bills? Stay or go?

2007-05-24 09:18:57 · 25 answers · asked by Christina S 2

My husband had a previous wife who cheated on him. He was in the military and went on a CAX (?spell?) deployment/class. Well, while he was there his wife at the time told him that she was pregnant. Well, she ended up sending an ultrasound picture and it showed the date of conception on the picture. Well, the date was brought to his attention and come to find out she had been cheating on him. They were gonna "work it out" and he assumed the role of father and gave the little girl his last name. When the baby was about six months old, he went on deployment to Japan for 6mos. and came back and she left him without anything but a big debt. Well, she filed for divorce and the only way that my husband would sign was if it stated that he was not to pay child support. So with that I guess he signed away his rights. Both my husband and I want PROOF of the paternity and the ex will not agree for us to even pay for one. ANY SUGGESTIONS PLEASE!!!

2007-05-24 09:10:02 · 33 answers · asked by Miranda D 1

Why is it that some men....I won't say all because I know not all men do this.......but why do they do things behind the're wives back and then deny it to their face.....my husband does this to me all the time and then jumps down my throat and yells at me and says that I AM crazy and insecure and that what I say is crap and a lot of bull and that I am accusing him of alterior motives......even when I don't......like the other day I asked him if he had anything he wanted to tell me because he has been distant and he jumped down my throat accusing me of accusing him of having alterior motives for things he's doing instead of answering my questions and putting my mind at ease....he called me insecure and made me feel like the bad guy...but I am not crazy....he is doing things behind my back like calling a female friend that I don't know and suspect he is cheating on me with (see my other questions)......why would he do that if there wasn't anything going on and he had nothing to hide??

2007-05-24 08:35:00 · 17 answers · asked by Sinking Slowly 1

2007-05-24 08:03:53 · 11 answers · asked by hottiehayes1 1

My husband took a "blood" paternity test 17 years ago which proved that 99.9% he was 'NOT' the father of the said child. Since the mother of the child, who used the welfare system to raise this child, doesn't know who the "real" father is and has to list a name in order to qualify for support from LA's welfare system, she moved to a different county and gave my husband's name as the father of her child (all the while knowing the tests proved he wasn't the father !) Now, with the child turning 18 years old this year, the courts want my husband to take a "DNA" test which is said to be much better than the simple blood test from 17 years ago! We've retained a lawyer to contest but the judge might forced him to take it anyway. Should we be concerned? Any advice?

2007-05-24 07:58:31 · 10 answers · asked by Singerofsongs 2

2007-05-24 07:47:57 · 5 answers · asked by candy_standley 1

I had sex with over 40+ women (not prostitutes, friends that I met) already. I am 32. Is that wrong? I am going to plan on having sex with more women. How many women did you had sex with (straight males and lesbian girls answer please)? I don't plan to get a girlfriend nor get married. I just want to have sex, without no string attached.

2007-05-24 07:34:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well we were dating about 10 months, 4of which he was abroad.... we broke up cause he was in love with some woman who he knows for apparently 4 years - so we split, and also for a reason related to me, where he could not understand me ....
4 months later we spoke via msn, he was nice to me - a little in the beginning after he started blaming me for stuff, told me he hates me n loves someone new and never wants to talk 2 me again, and called me a bunch of names as did I..

Today, I saw him friend as the local hangout - his friend was passing me by - he said hey, long time - whats up? N i waved and said hey... Behind him was my ex - I noticted him looked at him and said nothing, he did the same for a few secs, after that he said 'hi' so I did as well....
Well , when I was leaving they were on the table infront of me, and I just picked up my bag and left without saying bye

However I dont understand how he can say hi, or why he would say hi? What was i to do? did I do right

2007-05-24 07:24:16 · 22 answers · asked by Sasha J 1

He swore she forced herself on him. She asked to use the bathroom and on her way back went in the room and pushed him on the bed and began to caress him just as you walked in. Mind you the front door was locked double (that's not the norm)

2007-05-24 07:18:40 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife left 2 weeks ago and I have barely talked
with her except regarding stuff she wants out of the
house. Problem is I see her all the time. She's staying
about 20 minutes away and every morning she's stopping
at the same darn convenient store I'm stopping at the exact
same time. I'm trying to avoid her. divorce is painful enough.
I've been avoiding that store because she's there every
morning. Seems like she wants to see me or maybe
she just doesn't want to break her routine. I have in order
not to see her. Think she wants to see me? It's like a game.
I finally broke down and emailed her to open up communication
but haven't heard anything. If she's not coming back, I wish she'd
stay away from my place. I don't know why she wants to even
get a glimpse of me. I'm going to be her soon to be ex. Husband
What do you think I should do? O one other thing she's dropping
her daughter off right next door in the morning so I see her when I
leave. It's a dumb game and divorce isn't a game. Now what?
I feel like a fool contacting her and then getting no response.
Maybe she's just trying to screw with me but I do know that she
did really love me a lot. She's real stubborn.

2007-05-24 07:11:55 · 33 answers · asked by survivor 1

I am trying to quit gossiping, it is destructive and often wrong. But yesterday I was among a group of coworkers who were talking about my friend’s husband. They have seen him in the mall and out at restaurants with another woman, and they speculate he is cheating on her.
My friend will not be shocked to hear that her husband is cheating, she has suspected as much for a long time. It may spurn her to initiate her divorce, something she has talked about for months. I think she would be hurt to hear people are talking about her marriage when she is not there. She may understand that they were not talking about her and it was not meant to hurt her, they are concerned for her.
If it was you, would you want to know?

2007-05-24 07:06:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-24 06:58:20 · 14 answers · asked by ayan m 1

I have a daughter, and my soon to be x-spouse agree on everything so it would be a non-contested divorce.

2007-05-24 06:57:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going through a divorce and so is this man that I am seeing. Neither one of ours is final yet. He has three beatiful boys. I am not ready to meet them yet, however he asked me to go to a family party with them on Saturday. I told him that I would think about it. If I tell him No, I am afraid that it may hurt his feelings. I do love children, but I do not have any of my own. I am sure that I will love his, but I just dont feel like we are at the point where we should meet. He has met my entire faimly, because he knew them already before we got together so it was easier to introduce that we are seeing each other. Any advice? I think I would feel uncomfortable if I go, and I think the children would too. However, I dont want him to think I have a problem with him having children.

2007-05-24 06:57:02 · 11 answers · asked by Wen 2

2007-05-24 06:55:35 · 29 answers · asked by Ki 2