Divorce rates are contingent more on a misapplication of what one person can or is willing to do for another.
SOme men also separate their sex needs, and if they seek out the intimacy of another woman, it doesn't mean they are being unfaithful, as much as they feel their sex needs are not properly attended to
2007-05-24 11:02:09
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answered by Experto Credo 7
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Divorce rates are high because most people inore the following facts.
Years of research by psychologist have shown that most long-term marriages have some very common factors. Lack of any two or more of these factors indicates there is high probability the marriage will not last. (Long term –is defined as a marriage of more than 20 years)
1. Both parties married at age 25 or older.
2. Religious compatible (example: Jews + Hindu just do not work)
3. Common goals (someone likes a simple life, not chasing material wealth or career and some that is very goal minded for gaining as much material wealth as possible, together they do not make a lasting marriage. Another example, a conflict over having children).
4. Social economical compatible (poor + rich only works in the movies)
5. Financial responsible (debt is the number one cause of divorce)
6. Open Communications (agree that it is ok not to agree, tell each other your most hidden secrets, keeping the secrets from everyone, no name calling, and etc)
7. Both parties are very much alike (opposite may attract, but they do not make for a lasting marriage)
8. Sexual compatible (variety in sexual act + partner that finds some acts repulsive, does not make a lasting marriage.
9. Both individuals are not egoist. (a egoist believes that everyone would be happy by making them happy)
Life is not a place that all your needs will be provided, and it is wrong to expect the government, an individual or a group of people to supply all your needs.
Your questions appears to hint at sexual needs. You must be true to yourself and consider that marriage may not be a constuctive relationship for you.
why in some religions forbid to marry one woman plz reply?
I can only spectulate why some relgions forbid marriage to more than one woman at a time.
1. Few men can support the emotional needs of more than one woman at time.
2. Few men can financially support more than one woman.
3. It creates inhertiance problems when there are more than one woman.
4. Few men can defend(protect) more than one woman.
5. If the right was given to men to have more than one wife, a wife should be given the same right, creating problems with inhertiance, conflict with children, and etc.
2007-05-24 11:23:44
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answered by oldcorps1947 6
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I feel that one women is enough to satisfy a man if you have that right women that just peeks your interest on all levels what would you need with another as far as divorce rates in my book everyone is not always satisfied i mean you can have a spouse that you do everything in the world for and they still are no happy so i think yes one women can satisfy not just any man but the right man
2007-05-24 11:04:53
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answered by suederay 1
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If you find the right woman as I have then she's all you need. The problem with so much divorce is lack of commitment. People seem to run when times get tough and some always think the grass is greener on the other side. If you wait until you are sure of the person you are with and spend time getting to know each other and have good, open communication, then that one woman should be all you need to make you happy. I've found it. It is possible to be happily married and really enjoy being with your spouse!
2007-05-24 11:08:01
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answered by vanhammer 7
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.....Or, is one man man enough for her???
As far as the one woman thing, most of you guys can't get One straight.....look at the divorce rates. What are you going to do with two????
I know a young man with a 4 year old daughter. Didn't marry the mommy.
He has an 8 month old son with another woman. Didn't marry the mommy.
He has a 3 week old with another girl. (Guess what....Not married, either.....) She's hounding him for money, and diapers, and baby needs....he can't make a living wage. All he brings home is minimum wage minus child support.
Is this what you mean by one woman not being enough?
God only knows what STD's he's got.....
2007-05-24 12:07:18
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answered by Puresnow 6
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One woman is enough. Sometimes people get divorced because they married the wrong person. There is such a thing. Religion is a whole other beast. One wife with one husband is enough for any sane person. Other wise someone goes lacking.
2007-05-24 11:09:11
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answered by kyle g 4
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I say yes, one woman can and just like any relationship, you've got to work at it. Even then you're going to piss each other off from time to time but this isn't the Sims, this is real life and in real life you've gotta deal. If you're not willing to put in the time for a relationship, what makes you think that two women or three women are are to work any better?
2007-05-24 11:02:20
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answered by Deep Thought 5
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Is one man enough to satisfy a woman's needs?
2007-05-24 11:05:07
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answered by Nena S 6
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Are you looking for justification for fooling around? Yes, one woman can satisfy a man. Ask my man, we've been together for 24 years and he's happy.
2007-05-24 11:10:59
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answered by meteor 4
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Is one man enough for a woman? Sometimes your spouse/significant other doesn't have to satisfy all of your needs. That's what friends are for.. there's usually someone in your life that will fill that hole. Whew.. I tickled myself with that one. But you know what I mean...lol
2007-05-24 11:09:15
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answered by Sami 2
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