Well we were dating about 10 months, 4of which he was abroad.... we broke up cause he was in love with some woman who he knows for apparently 4 years - so we split, and also for a reason related to me, where he could not understand me ....
4 months later we spoke via msn, he was nice to me - a little in the beginning after he started blaming me for stuff, told me he hates me n loves someone new and never wants to talk 2 me again, and called me a bunch of names as did I..
Today, I saw him friend as the local hangout - his friend was passing me by - he said hey, long time - whats up? N i waved and said hey... Behind him was my ex - I noticted him looked at him and said nothing, he did the same for a few secs, after that he said 'hi' so I did as well....
Well , when I was leaving they were on the table infront of me, and I just picked up my bag and left without saying bye
However I dont understand how he can say hi, or why he would say hi? What was i to do? did I do right
2007-05-24 07:24:16 · 22 answers · asked by Sasha J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you did just fine.
however, don't put up with his crap any more.
it's polite to say hi in a social situation, but you can do better than this one when it comes to a boyfriend... he wasn't very nice it seems.
take care
2007-05-24 07:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just showing u some respect. If he wouldnt have spoken to u or said something ignorant, then his friend would have wanted to know the deal, so to keep his friend but being in his business, it was best by making it appear that everything was alright. Dont sweat it, just move on and find u a nice, and better man.
2007-05-24 07:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing. I wouldn't give him any satisfaction that you were hurt or that you're unhappy. He's chosen to be with someone else, it would make him crazy (or crazier) if he saw that you were happy. If he contacts you, don't answer or call him back. He's made his decision, i think it was a circumstance where the two of you were there at the same time and it was just that; you know?
2007-05-24 09:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is polite to say hello when you meet a person you know. Both of you were right to say hi. It's not a big deal, and it's not strange. The only thing that is wrong with the situation is that you obssess over it. Forget him and move on. It's not worth your time thinking about him.
2007-05-24 07:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he said "hi" just to be curteous. since his friend gave him the eye. Then again it could have been planned when they saw you to see if you would make a fool out of yourself...And girl big kudus to you because you didn't...you were very mature and didn't show him that you were thinking about him. Don't be surprised if he IM's you later trying to chat up with you again. He's thinking your just trying to be tough...so he'll probably try you again just to see if you still have feelings for him....what ever you do...don't be a rebound chick for him. But all in all...you did real good.
2007-05-24 07:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he was feeling awkward, didn't know what to do, and just followed along with his friend. Since his friend said Hi then he said Hi too. And so did you. So nobody made a big scene in a public place, which was very grown up of you IMO.
: )
2007-05-24 07:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by melissakd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to be polite and acknowledge someone. It's a sign of maturity that you can speak to each other without digressing into foolish games (name calling, etc.). However, I don't recommend you move beyond being merely polite since he has shown signs of emotional abuse in the past.
2007-05-24 07:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by AngelBleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is over you. But, this is strange the way he treats you since he broke up with you for this other girl.
Maybe, he wants you to be more devastated that you aren't together. My gut tells me he still really likes you and is trying not to.
2007-05-24 07:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by 354gr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you did right, but leave it at that. Try not to even give it another thought. It doesn't sound like a healthy situation.
2007-05-24 07:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. you just have to let go of those things and the anger because it is never worth the stress it puts on your mind, body and spirit.
P.S. a lot of people have more balls on msn messenger than they do in real life..
2007-05-24 07:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋