My problem is?
iam 22 male ,of course that is not problem...the problem is i hesitat alot in marriage because i want a girl have everything beaut,white sexy big tists,good ***,smart,in a good family,doct,or any realated job like me,funny kind,sociable,love me alot,have never previous relationship with a guy,religious..iam tired seeking for it ..because i want her satisfy me in all my needs and make me just concentrate on my job and my family(wife-kids-mam)......can u help me plz??????
2007-05-24 10:10:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move to Stepford.
2007-05-24 10:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by linda m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to offer something as well. If you're looking for the perfect person, you're always bound to be disappointed in life. I didn't understand certain parts of your question, but I wouldn't entertain the idea of marriage just yet anyway. You're 22. I'm 26 myself, and think that you should just enjoy being a kid right now. I also think you must have some confidence issues if you want her only interest to be you, your job and your kids. That's not a well-rounded person, and someone I think you would not respect. I'm gay and will never have to worry about being trapped in such a conventional dilemma thank God, but really I just think you have to grow up a bit. I'm not trying to criticize you; I just want you to get to the point where maybe you won't have such a close minded mentality as to what a marriage could be. You don't want to be that stupid cliche' where the woman is barefoot and pregnant and you're treating her like sh*t, while screaming at her to get you a beer do you? I grew up with that s*it and wouldn't want to see kids go through that. Life is supposed to be worth more than that. 26/m here - Joel
2007-05-24 17:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you were in serious trouble, but now that I read it, you are just selfish and spoilt. You want the perfect person, there is no such thing; are you perfect? Are you handsom, have a big ****?, good ***? Are you extremely smart, are you wealthy, are you kind, compassionate, sensitive, have a good sense of humour? Are you the best lover ? Are you a good driver? Do you respect your family? Are you a go-getter? Do you strive for success? etc...etc...etc...Because unless you have all these qualities, sorry but your not perfect. My point is, no one is perfect. And if you are going to be shallow and ask for things like big boobs, you will never be happy.
2007-05-24 17:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by snezana9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you want a good girl well I hope you are a good guy...but there is nothing wrong with wanting what you want but when you start searching for wrong things such as big breast not (tists)it becomes kinda hard...you should look for christian girls or just girls that look to be nice and met you standards...but don't be too picky...and could you drop by to answer my question...SMILE...that girl will come along but nothings wrong with getting up and looking
2007-05-24 17:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro I dont really understand the question however I feel your expectations might be kind of high. remember people are humans and we cant be perfect sometimes you got to take the good with the bad. most of all you want a girlo who loves you for you not nothing you have or look like true love doesnt come very often make sure you dont pass it up when you got it in front of you just because she cant meet ALL of your standards. LOVE IS MORE THAN ALL THAT STUFF
2007-05-24 17:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by joseph g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have created a fantasy woman. No on can fill those shoes. You are still too young to marry. You can't make someone into the Barbie, June Cleaver, and Mom Walton. At this time you would fail, because of the preconceptions of a wife.
2007-05-24 17:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by hcw_07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have that fantasy that our perfect mate is out in the world just waiting for us. That they were made just for you. Maybe there is that person that is just like that, but most likely not. There will be somethings in a person that you won't like. But you need to give women a chance. See what's out there and you might like something you never thought you would like. You can't be too picky because you'll never find her. People aren't perfect, that's including you too, mister. But bottom line, don't try to look for that person so hard..they will come to you when you least expect it....and don't be so picky! Good Luck though!
2007-05-24 17:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by jaynell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the people can't help you on this one as
women are not robots that you can program them
to be what you want them to be. Get down to re-
ality and the reality is one day you will might find a
woman that is compatible with you.
2007-05-24 23:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want everything but you don't have anything. You are looking outside of yourself to make you whole.
Grow up and stay single so you can figure things out and then you will find out that there is no such thing as perfection.
2007-05-24 17:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Ed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an ego-maniac that wants a virgin, trophy wife that brings in the dough, a sex goddess, a good family, perfect personality, and willing to satisfy your every whim....
GET REAL
You are very S~H~A~L~L~O~W
2007-05-24 21:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put these requirements in order of importance to you. If you are lucky enough to meet a woman who meets the first 3 requirements, and also feels that you meet her most important requirements in a husband, you may want to pursue that relationship further...........Best of Luck!
2007-05-24 17:19:20 · answer #11 · answered by midisandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋