Marriage & Divorce - 24 May 2007

2007-05-24 15:21:24 · 6 answers · asked by Yeah_whatever! 1

I am truly lucky man because I married to my best friend. My wife and I have been married for just under two years and I love her so much. Unfortunately our sex life is just not there, it never has been. I did marry a virgin. So I am her only experience. Me, I well I have been around the block a couple of times. Sex used to be so great. Now it seems like a chore. I get little pleasure out of it. I miss the fire, the passion, the explosiveness, and the sound of climatic screams. There are days I shamefully lust for other women. I wish I had never experienced the joys of sex. I need suggestions. Please!

2007-05-24 15:09:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has been out and talked to this guy and I think i saw them kiss!
I don't have much to say
Dump or No dump

2007-05-24 15:06:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I got home from work last night I got the shock of my life. When I walked into my bedroom I found my husband and his ex wife laying butt booty naked in our bed together. They were giving each other a massage with hot oil and had soft music playing. I was outraged at what I was seeing and demanded that they both get out of my house. They each looked at me like I was crazy.
They said that they do this all the time. My husband and his ex have a child together that lives with us. They said that by laying in the bed together, it helps calm their child down and helps her fall asleep. They both claim that nothing was happeneing and that they just give each other massages when they are both really stressed out. Is this right? Should my husband and his ex wife really be laying in my bed together? Help please!

2007-05-24 15:03:10 · 36 answers · asked by Flushing06 1

2007-05-24 14:46:05 · 37 answers · asked by happy 1

My ex is $5000 behind in child support and has not paid one cent. He recently won a wrongful death suit for his father for around 5 to 10 million dollars. Am I supposed to recieve any of that? How will they calculate the support if he is no longer working b/c of that? He left the state before the divorce was even finalized, so that he could be with his new baby's momma (which he has already left her a single parent too). Is there any thing I can do? I can't find his address or phone number. I just found his myspace yesterday(which is how I found out he won the settlement). I don't want to contact him b/c he was very abusive and manipulative. He also molested our 2 year old, while I was in basic for the army so he doesn't have vistiation, but I am afraid if I try to enforce the child support he will fight for custody again or visitation. I would rather die. I would rather not try, but I really need the money. Does any one have an answer or a suggestion?

2007-05-24 14:31:50 · 7 answers · asked by birthdaymassacrerox 1

2007-05-24 14:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by amber 2

dating marrage

2007-05-24 14:25:03 · 10 answers · asked by bubbles 1

Proceeded to rip up the carpet or rewire a room, etc? I am forever doing that kind of thing and usually my husband has a cow but this evening I decided to redesign the closet and ripped up the carpet to expose the hardwood floors in the bedroom and all he said was "Let me know if you need any help"! Would you be insulted or offer to keep the coffee going and clean up after her?

2007-05-24 14:17:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my dad is already married and i dont really like her that much

and my mom is getting married and im kinda ok

how would you feel

2007-05-24 14:11:09 · 9 answers · asked by T 2

someone who you don't know very well but but seems friendly by nature.

2007-05-24 14:01:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I rarely masturbate cause
1..I found it boring
2..I would rather wait for my husband to come home and make love
3..It takes forever to orgasm that way like half hr or more and sometimes it doesnt even happen but when making love with hubby i have 1 in 15 to 20 minutes and also i have never used a sex toy cause i would rather get satisfied by my husband then some toy...

2007-05-24 13:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had sex with another man and now i think i might be pregnant!!! when and how do i tell my spouse? this is not a joke so please dont answer with any thing that would hurt me. thank you.

2007-05-24 13:14:17 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

was it best to let them do all the talking. how did it turn out for you? my plan is to say nothing to my soon to be ex husband and just let my lawyer eat him alive, is that the smart way to approach it since he cheated and abandoned me and my 3 month old for a 17yr old girl in high school who he is still dating.

2007-05-24 13:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

what is your fantasy?

2007-05-24 13:10:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife had a fling with my best 3 years ago, it HURT SO BAD, and still does everyday.

How does one forgive this, how do i get over it, how?

2007-05-24 12:57:13 · 18 answers · asked by remas s 1

Ok my ex husband threw a two liter bottle of water at my daughter who was 3 years old at the time and then continued to throw things at me until I started throwing things back. Then I kicked him out I was preganat with our third child at the time. Was I in the wrong for doing this or was for the best he is gone and out of our lives? I am afraid that one day he will show up and start up again. SHould I get a restraining order and dissappear or just stay and tough it out?

2007-05-24 12:35:31 · 32 answers · asked by critterbeachhome 2

Okay, thats not the real question. But, I am visual,too and I know Im not the only woman who is. I love porn of all types, I like looking at what my husband is doing to me while he does it. I love "looking" and when I self-please I often use magazines.

2007-05-24 12:30:26 · 15 answers · asked by TrophyWife 3

2007-05-24 12:24:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

with the high percentage of divorces in the last 30 years , don't you think is time to change how marriages work. is unrealistic to expect both men /women to have sex with only one person the rest of your life. So I would like to propose that every 2 years you renew your wedding license. that would make more sense and maybe wedding would last longer.

2007-05-24 12:23:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not talking about the way I present myself, but for sex. We were talking about things that could make our sex better and he said to do sexy things, I'm not really sure what that is or how to do it! I ask him whats sexy to him and he says I dunno try stuff haha, any ideas?

2007-05-24 12:20:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-24 12:17:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do people get married if they don't honor the wedding vows? maybe we should change them to more realistic ones like:

if you gain weight (over 10 pounds, I'm out)
If you stop giving me sex ...I"m out
If you stop taking care of me..I'm out
If you stop cleaning, cooking etc...I'm out
If stop looking attractive..i'm out
etc...what others realistic vows should we use?

2007-05-24 12:11:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband, who cheated on me by having an almost one year affair, absolutely refuses to go to counseling to deal with it. He says that he is trying to get it together by going to church every week, which is great, but i still feel the need to discuss our problems with a counselor. He refuses to go, and refuses to talk about the affair any more. Everytime I bring up the affair and suggest we go to counseling, he walks out of the room or leaves the house, or hangs up on me. I have brought up the fact that we need to go to counseling every month for the past year, and everytime, he cuts me off. Should i just get a divorce? I've even explained to him how he makes me feel when he cuts me off, and yet he keeps doing it. I've brought up divorce and that still doesnt make him want to go to counseling. I feel worse after i try to talk to him, because i just feel like he will not budge. We havent talked for the past 4 days because of me bringing up the counseling again. I feel like im begging.

2007-05-24 12:07:46 · 38 answers · asked by eliza l 3

How come a man tells you they want to marry you than they take it back? What kind of man is that of does that to someone they say they love?

2007-05-24 11:54:17 · 12 answers · asked by All about me and you 2

marriage to me is just a piece of paper to say that your now husband and wife, its totally pointless to me. Whats your point of view?

2007-05-24 11:47:32 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-24 11:21:06 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married 6 months bck.Things were beautiful before and then as usual, he changed.Things became bad in our relationship.He is dominating and short temper guy.Blames me for everything.Take his work frustartion on me.Shouts at me everytime.tells me he will leave me.It is our long distance relationship as he has to travel alot.i am trying to save our marriage, doing everythin as he want but everything is just goin wrong..dunno wht to do........i love him but i want him to respect me n love me..i dunno whts doin in his heart..i cant communicate as i know he will start shouting again..and says tht he will involve my parents....i feel lik **** n in hell....

2007-05-24 11:07:46 · 20 answers · asked by abc 2

2007-05-24 11:06:53 · 10 answers · asked by brat 2

Like as if...someone wants to cheat with you?

2007-05-24 11:02:33 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3