2007-05-24 12:24:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it just means that he is a man and men like porn. Although I am surprised that our world economy hasn't crashed since the advent of Internet porn....most guys seem addicted.
It's like shoe shopping to us - endlessly appealing, always something different. Messy though. At least we can show the shoes to other people!
Which is why women will rule the earth soon.
2007-05-24 12:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. There could be any number of things working behind the scenes here.... For one, men are more "visual"...they are stimulated by visual more than most females. Females place emotion and caring and sensitivity behind their tendencies for arousal. If your husband is viewing "porn"... I am not saying that this is the case, however he could be having difficulty broaching the subject of the sexual subject matter with you that he is viewing online... be it a sexual position, or a fantasy, he could be researching something to bring to the bedroom with you...any number of things. What frequency is he looking into these online sites and does he attempt to do so without your knowledge or is he informing you of his searches? I don't want to "assume" anything from the brevity of your question. The main point to remember here is that YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THE REASON IS FOR HIM LOOKING AT INTERNET PORN until you ask him. Don't "assume" anything.... approach him about this and ask. Do it nicely, do not back him into a corner with a gruff approach.... ask him what he desires from his online sexual searches. What is his intent. What is the goal. And... how does he expect his porn searches to benefit your marriage? Not trying to do anything but alert you.... Your comment is way too brief to obtain all of the facts and be able to render some better comments and suggestions. I have submitted my answers giving your husband the benefit of the doubt in "thinking"....and yes "assuming" that his research has been innocent and curious. Tell me more about what is happening and I can give your further commentary.
2007-05-24 20:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how much he looks at porn. If he is looking at it all the time then he has a problem. If it's not that often then it's normal. Most men do look at porn because it's normal. My husband likes to look up porn. It can be quite healthy. As long as he doesn't get obsessed.
2007-05-24 12:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Steven's Love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. It's just a guy thing. We are very visual and looking at internet porn has nothing to do with if you are sexy or not. If it's only occassionally, I wouldn't worry about it unless it becomes a daily thing where he's spending more time with the computer than he is with you. Then he's got a problem...and it isn't you!
2007-05-24 12:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but he does think you don't put out enough, or he is just into that sort of thing. Generally I wouldn't worry about it unless that is all he does during the day, at the expense of all else. See if you don't find an interest in porn yourself. You might discover that you can enjoy a porno-flick together, could also give you ideas too.
2007-05-24 13:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by George B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance loves porn... I'm not a fan. Especially when it messes up the computer.
Make sure you're protected against internet STDs. (Like spyware and stuff... that will really screw with your system)
But here's the thing. Lots of guys are "visual" guys. They get turned on by things that they see. Personally, I'm a person that gets excited by things that I feel.
Anyway, as long as your guy isn't trying to hook up with the internet sluts, it's pretty much harmless. Ask him if there's things that he sees online that he wants you to try. You could take a few dirty polaroids, or digital pictures for him, so that if you're not okay with him looking at other chicks, then he'll still have something to rev his engine.
Don't be threatened by internet porn. Granted its not fun, but he's probably constantly "taking care of business" and at least it allows you some recovery time between sack sessions.
2007-05-24 12:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by katie m 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No! It has nothing to do with you at all.....it is all about him!! Some men just get caught up in it even if they have the best looking wives in the world. I would tell my husband that this makes me feel uncomfortable and you would prefer that he not do it because it is disrepecfull for him to objectify women like that. Tell him that he can look at you when he wants to stare at a naked woman and that he just needs to quit sweetie.
2007-05-24 12:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definately not good and means that HE has some problems. And, yes, it could mean that he doesn't feel enough for you or feel that you're sexy. When he's looking at porn, he's LUSTING after other women, desiring after other women, wishing he were with other women. Are you comfortable being with a man who is lusting and desiring other women. I wouldn't be.
2007-05-24 12:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sondra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most men do this anyway. You could be a porn star and they would still watch porn. Some men like the variety and the "dirtyness" of it. I wouldnt' worry.
2007-05-24 12:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by cows4me79 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is something that if it bothers you, you should talk to him. Did you know that that internet porn is very addicting and you should talk to him about it! It is like a drug, kind of like seeing e-bay and just browsing the internet. Talk to him about it
2007-05-24 12:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by choicetx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋