Ok my ex husband threw a two liter bottle of water at my daughter who was 3 years old at the time and then continued to throw things at me until I started throwing things back. Then I kicked him out I was preganat with our third child at the time. Was I in the wrong for doing this or was for the best he is gone and out of our lives? I am afraid that one day he will show up and start up again. SHould I get a restraining order and dissappear or just stay and tough it out?
2007-05-24 12:35:31 · 32 answers · asked by critterbeachhome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well... you are in a tough situation. If your ex husband threw a 2 liter bottle at your 3 year old daughter I would punch his balls out. He probably has an aggressive disorder or something. This is way out of norm. For your baby's health and yours I would recommend you get a restraining order on him.. or move. You don't know what's in his mind. Someday he might come and kill somebody. He is a danger to your kids and you. You have the right to enjoy a happy life with your kids and let it be that way. You were not wrong in throwing him out. And you should have no regrets in doing that. Remember, psychos always find something and then push themselves to the limits. If I were you, I would take the kids, and plan a get away for good without contacting the husband at all. Good riddens you got rid of him!
2007-05-24 13:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You where not wrong at ALL!!! You have the right to protect you and your family, and he is being abusive. Get a restraining order also! You don't need some evil man coming and harming you OR your children. You shouldn't have put up with this stuff. Get a restraining order, and try to make sure he doesn't EVER get near you again. He has no right to do that whatsoever!!!!!
2007-05-24 12:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by .:Feliciano:. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1) Get a restraining order.
2) Never be alone, don't give an abusive person an opportunity to be aggressive.
You really don't say whether he's still around, did this happen recently or a long time ago? If it's long past, a restraining order now might just stir the hornet's nest un-necessarily.
2007-05-24 12:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jarien 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I see a number of things that need to done to protect yourself and the children.
1. See an lawyer.
2. Get a restraining order for yourself and the kids.
3. Demand supervised visitation in the divorce.
4. Don't forget to get the locks changed.
I wish you and the children the best.
2007-05-24 12:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you should have thrown him out the second that bottle went at your little girl yes it's best to get him out of your life sounds dangerours a restraining order seems like a good thing to do tough it out for what the child your pregnate with? That's not a good reason espically when it's a dangerous situation that baby is better off as are you and your other daughter
2007-05-24 12:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by sassysandyinmi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope you were throwing iron skillets at his head!
If anyone were to pose a threat to my kids, even their own father, they would be leaving in a body bag!
Get the restraining order. If you or your daughter have bruises, go down to the cop shop and let them take some pictures.
Then the next picture they'll be taking is his mug shot!
2007-05-24 13:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he is a threat to you & your children then I would say get the restraining order. You know better than anyone what he's capable of doing, so go with your gut instinct. Not only for you but your children as well. If you are going to have a male role model in their life you want it to be a good one or else there is no pont in having one at all. It seems as though he has no respect for you or your children, let alone, himself. Remember you can do bad all by yourself!
2007-05-24 12:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Pretty Young Thing 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you weren't, of course you were right.
He hasn't done anything else and has not posed a threat since then I would let things be. Putting more attention on this may start things up again. If he does ANYTHING else I would then fine for a restraining order.
2007-05-24 12:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a restraining order. If you have the financial means to move from the area do so. Don't take him back.
2007-05-24 12:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sunset 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should get a restraining order and tough it out . You need to call the police everytime he shows up or he even comes near you . It is good that you got him out of your lives . good luck .
2007-05-24 12:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋