My wife has been out and talked to this guy and I think i saw them kiss!
I don't have much to say
Dump or No dump
2007-05-24 15:06:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't dump, but have a very serious talk with her about it. (DON'T YELL!) tell her that this is not acceptable and that this is her first warning. Don't overreact though unless u are sure of wats going on. Good luck!!!!!!!!!♥
2007-05-24 15:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very serious. How can you be thinking of leaving your wife when you "think" you saw her kiss someone. If you want to know for sure, ask her. If you truly want the conversation to be productive, you will need to ensure you do not approach her in a way that immediately puts her on the defensive. Stay calm, be sincere.
What if she did kiss someone else? What kind of kiss was it? A peck on the cheek is a hell of a lot different from a make-out session. She may have been tempted, and may have given into the temptation to kiss someone. That hardly means she's spending her lunch hour at the No-Tell Motel.
It really sounds like you are looking for an excuse to leave her. If you want to work it out with her, you will. If you don't, you won't. The choice is yours. Good luck.
2007-05-24 22:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Charlotte B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not always black and white. This is certainly not good but are you willing to give up your commitment to this person based on what you know at this point? You need to sit down and let her know, not what you saw, but how you feel about her and how you feel based on what you think you saw. Accusing and condemnation will not get you anything but a defensive answer which will not result in a final mutual resolution. Sorry you are in this situation but dump or no dump is not the answer you are seeking.
2007-05-24 22:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ken K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a woman will not go after something else if she has something good at home.
If you want to keep your woman you need to treat her with respect and love.
Women love attention, and passion; they both work together.
Personally, I think you should let her know you saw her kissing the other person, and question her motive. Let her know how you felt about it and it there something more than what you have seen going on?
2007-05-24 22:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure to confirm the infidelity before you get rid of her, maybe some kind of proof you can use in court so she doesn't take away half of everything you have.
Hire a private detective...or wear a hat, fake moustache & sunglasses & follow her. You should rent one of those old cheesy convertibles to drive in while you're tailing her. Call up that "Cheaters" show if you want, make sure you get a sucker punch in on the other guy on TV...
2007-05-24 22:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Shifty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to make sure you really saw what you think you saw. But I'm guessing that if you're following your wife around and snooping there's already some other issues involved and you probably already know what you should do, but don't want to.
2007-05-24 22:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through kinda of the same thing right now. I think that my husband might be cheating on me as well. I think that I want to get some pics of them together. That way when I go to court things will be easier. Good Luck. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-05-24 22:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by angie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your wife before you dump her. Ask her whats going on. Give her a chance to explain herself before you jump to conclusions. But you also need to let her know that is unacceptable behavior.
2007-05-24 22:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you saw them kiss,not a whole too base your decision on whether too divorce your wife.don't jump to a decision ,and give her the benefit of the doubt.If she is cheating it will come out.Talk too her, find out if she is happy,and how you can make her feel good about herself.Good luck
2007-05-24 22:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by lavell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definate dump!! been there, stayed and was there again. got my paybacks and hit the door. never looked back and now I realize that his immature **** was holding me back. no he is a methadone addict with no place to live, no respect from his daughter and no job. me on the other hand own my own house, car and have a pretty successful career. on the other hand, if you don't mind then stay.
2007-05-24 22:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋