Marriage & Divorce - 24 May 2007

2007-05-24 03:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by skye b 1

She has said this before but this time she is really serious. She feels that I don't realize what I am missing by being with someone else being that things are not so good for us in the bedroom at the moment. I don't want to do this, I love her. I even jokingly said the only way I can see myself with another woman would to be in the same bed with you. She said okay. Does this sound like something that could lead to trouble?

2007-05-24 03:40:53 · 24 answers · asked by dragon 2

I need some really unique romantic ideas for this. I want something that is different then all the rest

2007-05-24 03:40:08 · 5 answers · asked by tysonberry8669 3

I have been married for one year and it has been the most devastating year of my life. When I first met my husband it was like I was in a dream but as soon as I got married he turned into a monster. He started to abuse me emotionally and physically. He would belittle me with words and and do things that a married man shouldnt do. He would call other girls when he wasnt around me or when he would pull off and say the reason he doesnt want to talk to them around me is because it would be " uncomfortable". I have no words to describe the disrespect I had to go through. He blames his actions on me, all of them. People say I should leave and wait it out for while and to see he if he changes. What should I do?

2007-05-24 03:39:15 · 23 answers · asked by Bklyn718 1

Divorce decree states he must pay 50%.

2007-05-24 03:38:21 · 6 answers · asked by selander8755@sbcglobal.net 1

I thought I was in love at the age of 14. We were never official but when we were together, he was all I wanted. There were some experiences we shared that were new to me, maybe not him, but that transformed me into the person I became. I never saw him in a bad light, even when he was unfaithful to his girlfriend with me. I ran into him a few years later and one time, just once, we slept together. I had a son after he had left to go do whatever he needed to do and didn't find out if it was his son until he was 3. So now, we rekindled a friendship at the beginning of a new relationship I was in. I didn't like the girls he was seeing and stayed through some visits to just be near. I stayed in the faithful relationship I had and had a little girl and got married. Now he has a wondeful girl and they are expecting. I think about it every now and then, were we both too chickensh*t to try? He and I will forever be a part of the other's life. Is the first love that's so hard to get over????

2007-05-24 03:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Alle Leigh 1

I hate my Sil. She told my husband i am immature and not to listen to me. we dont live with in laws.We are abroad. I have supported my husband in his job losses ,money problems and his severe anger problem . Now i am exhausted after 5 yrs of these downs.I need to give her back. How do i do it subtly. She lives in India.Any advice.

2007-05-24 03:32:16 · 19 answers · asked by chocolate 3

Every time my father in law comes to my house he is always winking at me giving me little sly smiles. At first I thought that I was just being paranoid but now i'm sure i'm not. Just the other day as I was dusting my house in the nude, he walked over to me and started massaging my breasts. I don't know where he came from or how he got into my house, I was stunned. When I asked him what he was doing, he said that he just wanted to make sure that I didn't have any lumps that would lead to cancer. My father in law is not a doctor. When I told my husband about this incident he just laughed and said that it was normal behavior for him. He even told me that his father has slep with many of his ex girlfriends and don't be surprised if tries to sleep with me as well. Is this right? Should my father in law be able to feel me up and sleep with me anytime he chooses? Help please!

2007-05-24 03:27:46 · 76 answers · asked by Flushing06 1

if not then how will the law differentiate betweet it and prostitution?

2007-05-24 03:23:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been going out with this guy for a little over a yr now. We have a 5month old son. We tell each other I love you everyday, we still joke around and play around with each other and all that good stuff, however theyre has been 3/4 instances where he and i got into an argument and he has packed his stuff up and said he was leaving, only to shortly come back after he cooled off. within that heated moment he has said some not nice things which he says are out of anger. Well the last time he has done this on the way out the door he threatened that he would see me in court for custody of our son. However, just like all the other times he'd pack, etc he wouldnt make it very far before he would come back. Things are definitely not the same and as a result of it im constantly making remarks that could inadvertenly sabotage the relationship because of whats happened. This is not something i want and he admits to the way its making me feel, things dont feel the same. HELP.. Advice Pls

2007-05-24 03:21:03 · 12 answers · asked by rlynn 1

I have been living here in London for five years and were meant to be both leaving in Feb of next yr but last night he said he won't move back until he gets a good job. He's been here 12 yrs, fair enough but I don't see him getting the same kind of money as he is on here in Dublin. So do u get the impression that he doesn't want to move back?

2007-05-24 03:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by sunflower 2

know why ppl try to unload their bs on you so that they can feel better about themselves? I feel like no matter how much I try to unload bs off my shoulders there is always someone there to load more bs on. Doesnt anyone want me to be happy? Is there anyone out there that wants me to be happy LOL? Jokes ... encourging words ... or just funny comments are welcome. Wanna really make my day star my question :)

2007-05-24 03:16:02 · 2 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3

I'm married and my husband is anyoyed that I have been going out with them. I'm I wrong to or is he just been selfish, can u tell me what is the problem?

2007-05-24 03:11:12 · 28 answers · asked by sunflower 2

My husband and I, have been married for almost 4 years. From the time we got together, we both knew that going to the Police Academy, was something I have been wanting to do. Now that the time is getting closer to going to the Academy, he is having issues. Sometimes he says he supports me, other times he is saying, that he feels that the Academy will end the marriage. Is this fair???

2007-05-24 03:08:01 · 10 answers · asked by mlou 1

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it

2007-05-24 03:04:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for five years and most of them not happy one's. BTW, we're not married but have a child together. Recently, at work, I've met somebody that i really do like. He's also in a relationship with three kids. He want's for us to be together (he's seperated). I don't know what to do. I know that I'm not happy now with who i'm with.

2007-05-24 03:02:23 · 19 answers · asked by ajewell 1

My husband is a computer whizz and designs websites and stuff. I went onto my computer history and found a dating site. Please tell me what you think?! I confronted him and he said he needs to try and figure out how people log in to that website so he can add that feature to his websites. He says that when people log on the computer uses a code or something and he needs the format?!?! Is he lying to me? What do you think? I really really trust him, but obviously a persons thought drift.

2007-05-24 03:00:26 · 30 answers · asked by girlygirl 4

just a quick question. despite my best efforts I am having trouble convincing my hubby that he's being very difficult. I try to quietly suggest that he seems depressed and finds no joy in anything. he rejects me and our kids when we want to spend time with him or show him affection. he comes home and plops down infront of tv or computer, even eats in front of it. i know he has had a hard day, but so have we and we still want to do something with him. we are thinking about having our third child (it would be his first) and if he is acting like this now why would I bring a third child into the mix. any suggestions would be helpful.

2007-05-24 02:50:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-24 02:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by toni_h1977 1

2007-05-24 02:14:36 · 24 answers · asked by j 2

Hi.
I've been living in Thailand for about 3 years. My husband moved for a job here. I was upset at first, but worked really hard to learn the language, make friends and feel at home.
Now he wants to move back to the US.
He is the one that earns money, so of course, we'll go. But I'm very upset. Is it ok to talk to him about it, or is that just ungreatful whining?
Thanks!

2007-05-24 02:12:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night my daughter and her soon to be ex husband got into this big fight. He has been mentally abusing her for 2 yrs now they have 1 child together . He took all of her belongings clothes and all . I went to the police station at 2am last night and they said there was nothing they could do for her unless he beat her up> What kind of protection is that?? I made them go to the house with me to get what few things he left She has always been a full time mom and has No income what so ever. We live in Indiana and my husband is in poor health and about to have a mental breakdown where can I go to get her help We are just making it with the two of us and cannot affford 2 more mouths to feed Do woman these days have any rights?? Please some one tell me where to start to get her the help she needs . She hasnt got a dime to here name

2007-05-24 02:10:28 · 29 answers · asked by harley w 4

My daughter is 15 and in 10th grade. She lived with her Dad in another state. He moved due to job reasons and left her in his mother's care.

He has been leaving me nasty, threatening voicemails. He is frustrated because things are not working out for him on his job and he is not able to move on or let me move on himself.

He now has left me three messages. One of them said that "Your daughter has failed her Math class. You are a proud mother."

I don't know what to do. I gave him sole physical and legal custody during the divorce.

Now, he wants me to bail him out when he has problems with the child. I am willing to have the child come and live with me. I live in another state.

He wants me to come and live in his house until she finishes high school. I do not want to.

I have failed in my role as a mother. Its such a bad situation and my ex is making it worse.

2007-05-24 02:01:15 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

recently my wife was having a affair and runied our marriage......after thinking about it she got pregnant by this man and tried to say it was mine...lucky later on she miscarried and what not. well she has nothing now and i want to make it worse and try to get her job....she lives in a town where jobs are hard to come by.....anybody got any ideas.....she works at a bank...but has nothing to do with money....works in the very back...

2007-05-24 01:52:47 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1

i am staying with my inlaws .i dont wanna stay with my inlaws anymore i keep on irritating my husband to go out and live but my husband does like the idea of going out of house and live independently.he always wanted to stay with their parents.he will tell to me to adjust with their parents .but i cant adjust anymore.pls do suggest my friends what i can do?

2007-05-24 00:36:44 · 10 answers · asked by thalla 1

hi...i'm a 23 yr old woman married for 2 yrs. my husband wants me to masturbate in front of him when we make love. he says it really turns him on. but i never really could muster up what was needed to do it. i'd love to please him but my inhibitions don't let me...he said we can find loads of other ways to please ourselves and never pushes me into it. but i want to do this...it's not something i scorn upon or find dirty...just that i'm a bit shy to do it in front of him. how do i go about it? how do i lose my inhibitions for doing it? please help me.

2007-05-24 00:31:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do married women cheat only because of not being fullfilled sexually or is it because of other things.

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1 week ago
My big why still remains cuz i can't really figure out why she did it to me twice within a period of two months both happens to be totally differret men. I do have an average dick that on ready most of the night, i treat her right, am not a drunkard, I do provide financial. Or maybe the first time she cheated that guy happened to have a more than average dick than me and that made me less a man to her thats why she may do feel me anymore. Ladies these is for you if you slept with a man that is big down there more than your man would you go back to your and still have that spark.

1 week ago
The reason why am still with her is because i did not catch her in bed with the man whom i was suspecting she was having an affair with, but i saw them together at her workplace why i did confrot both of them in which the man said that there was nothing going on between them, in which later her called my sister and told her the same. He wanted to talk to men but i decline. Do you think if they had slept together, he could have the courage to denie it to me face to face. Whenever i ask my wife she says that am evil minded, and that they were talking just like two neighbours. I really do not want to mess up my child life cuz i know how it is to be brought up by one parent. Am just confused at the moment.

2007-05-24 00:13:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I argued so I left. When I returned home I found the door locked. I forcefully entered my house, through the door, while she was calling the police. I was charged with domestic violence because she wrote out and signed a peice of paper saying she was in fear of her safety.

Now, my wife is remorsefull and just wants me to come home. We have a history of arguing and calling the cops but no physical violence.

My wife and I will never be the same again. This over zelous police officer has turned our lives upside down. What can I do to keep this police officer from wrongfully taking anyone else to jail?

I went to araignment and pled not guilty. I'll be at the lawyers office friday.

Anyone have anything similiar happen? Please help.

2007-05-24 00:08:07 · 9 answers · asked by john p 3