I have been living here in London for five years and were meant to be both leaving in Feb of next yr but last night he said he won't move back until he gets a good job. He's been here 12 yrs, fair enough but I don't see him getting the same kind of money as he is on here in Dublin. So do u get the impression that he doesn't want to move back?
2007-05-24 03:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by sunflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it could be. or it could be that he wants to be secure in the move back. i think he's being sensible about it.
2007-05-24 03:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't give any other details, and Feb is a bit away yet, which gives him lots of time to find a job. It depends on what he works at. As you know there is a boom in Ireland at the moment, and money to be made; but it depends on what he wants to work at.
There is plenty of time to find a job; and if he does, why wait until Feb?
2007-05-24 06:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl I feel that yes he do not want to move back.
let me tell you that you need to be strong when he really tells you the truth. But what ever he tell you please try to understand and respect his decision. let me tell you girl that i have already been in that situation. Ok in the year 2005 my family and parents move to Puerto Rico we were there for one year. On the year of 2006 me and my husband decided that we was going to move back to Massachusetts for the sake of my children especially one of my child that has really bad issues sleeping or not sleeping during the night time. So we both decided that we was going to move. Until one day I noticed that my husband was
getting depressed to the point that he wasn't himself he was crying at all time he didn't want to eat, he didn't want to do anything he was being very un happy. So I talk to him and he did admit to me that he didn't want to move back and I told him how could he do something to me like this. Why would he brake a promise if he promise for the sake of the kids well being and he said I cannot go. I am not ready. Do you know why he wasn't ready it was because his parents lived in Puerto Rico. Let me tell you that by that time I had already had the airline tickets and was suppose to leave on Aug of 2006. So I told my husband that I wasn't happy with his decision but that i was going to respect it. And that I had to do what was best not for me but for the kids. And so I told him that i was sorry and that I love him and that I don't want to leave him behind but that I had to. So I told him I was going back to Massachusetts with our kids. Of course the news that I told him wasn't nothing that he thought I was never going to say so he did took it very hard.So when the time came for me to leave I told him I that i will always be waiting for him and that I will love him no matter and that when ever he thinks he is ready to move that his family will be there waiting for him with open arms.
Guess what happen a month after I move he move down
So everything work out fine after all.
I say to you girl that even though you know that the best thing for you guys is to move. I say talk to your man and tell him what you have on your mind but always respect what he has to say and remember that you could also move down first and then let him move down when he is ready but always remember that when ever you say that to any men they will take it differently
so I wish you good luck and may your man do decide to move cause you guys do deserve it
2007-05-24 04:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by mary o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a good job in London and there is nothing waiting for him in Dublin then it is understandable that he is unsure,has he beam applying for work in Dublin ?????
2007-05-27 09:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Granny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him stay where he is, im in dublin, money here is crap like somee of the jobs they want us to take no matter what experience you have,
2007-05-26 07:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like hes not keen on moving x
2007-05-24 04:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,surely it will be better if he has a good job to go back to.
2007-05-24 08:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to make sure that he has the money to keep his lifestyle.
2007-05-24 03:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
mybe he just means what he says so perhaps he shouldstart applying.
2007-05-24 04:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋