i am staying with my inlaws .i dont wanna stay with my inlaws anymore i keep on irritating my husband to go out and live but my husband does like the idea of going out of house and live independently.he always wanted to stay with their parents.he will tell to me to adjust with their parents .but i cant adjust anymore.pls do suggest my friends what i can do?
2007-05-24 00:36:44 · 10 answers · asked by thalla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
move out
2007-05-24 00:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by CleoCATra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was probably a mama's boy when you dated, but either you didn't date him very long, or ignored this minor tidbit. Turns out to be a major tidbit. This isn't to upset you, this is to get unmarried people dating mama's boys to start rethinking if they really want to marry them. The only thing I can suggest is for you to find a place and tell your husband you two are moving out. If he refuses, move yourself. Use this time when you aren't living with your inlaws to seek marriage counseling. See if he'll go. If he does, great. If not, you can cross that bridge later.
2007-05-24 07:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first thing i will say u
Behave in each and every aspect a sprofessional means
not talking too much unecessarily,maintian ur protocols with ur in laws..,just respect them..,dont loose ur selfrespect in front of anyone even it is ur husband.,
But I want to know onething
y do u want to stay away from them,
ur in laws not good?
if they r good ..then what problem
if they r not then u can say ur husband onething
say we live in same city but in another house with that we can have freedom and relation will be good when we stay far from them ..say liek that
otherwise tell ur hubby to change job go to far from these place.it is only one choice
2007-05-24 07:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by ss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your marriage is never going to last unless you get out on your own it never pays to live with your inlaws at all sweetie he seems like he intends to live with his family the rest of his life you should say it is either you or his family i would never live with the inlaws dear im looking for a very nice and friendly ladie to share my home with me
2007-05-24 07:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he does not get you out of that house soon. he can start looking for a new wife. it is time for the little boy to leave the nest.
(It wouldn't hurt to tell him how much more he would enjoy sex if you felt some privacy) Just a little incentive!
2007-05-24 07:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while.. i think the secret to a happy relationship is realizing you can't change someone..
he's not going to want to move out.. unless HE really wants too.. wheter or not you need to give him some motivation to go or not.. :)
my guess is tell him you can't live with his parents forever and ask him for a divorce.. or a seperation untill he's ready to leave the nest.. tell him you'll go out on your own.. find a place of your own.. start looking for appartments.. and move out... if its that big of a deal
2007-05-24 07:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by steph 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should move out from the parents unless that was the basis on which you married. You should go to your church, as well.
2007-05-24 07:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
is simple,sit and think if they were your parents.
will you adapt yourself to their liking or not.?
treat them as your parents from bottom of your heart.
we all can give advise,coz is free..
Please think of your husband,s feelings and pain inside him.
I dont think moving out will solve everything.
choice is yours.
2007-05-24 07:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by george.m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls make decision of urself. bcos, u know much abt ur husband and his parents than all of us..
2007-05-24 07:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Arun P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take time to do stress tecnique and work something out and don't go to bed angry
2007-05-24 07:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋