recently my wife was having a affair and runied our marriage......after thinking about it she got pregnant by this man and tried to say it was mine...lucky later on she miscarried and what not. well she has nothing now and i want to make it worse and try to get her job....she lives in a town where jobs are hard to come by.....anybody got any ideas.....she works at a bank...but has nothing to do with money....works in the very back...
2007-05-24 01:52:47 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the affair was with a co-worker you can report it to the HR department. I understand how you feel. Marriage is a legal contract. Too bad you can't sue since she broke the contract. Go for the job. She deserves it.
2007-05-24 01:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Schwinn 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You have got a lot of good answers here, I will say that much. I have to agree with them. Let her go, she is already paying for what she has done. Don't go after her job and try to get her fired. She lost the baby (that might have been yours), how do you know for sure that this baby was not yours? She not only lost the baby, but you as well. You deserve better than some one that will cheat on you. The best thing that you can do is go on and be happy with your own life and leave hers alone. She is the one that will have to live with what she did, not you. You need to keep some thing in your mind here. If you bug her very much now, she can put harassment charges against you, even though she is the one that messed up and not you. So leave it alone and go on with your own new life. Oh and one last thought here, be glad that you did not get some STD from her.
2007-05-24 02:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly wouldn't try to do anything. This is a situation where you should keep doing your own thing, and I say this because it's a situation where "what comes around goes around" kind of thing. Even if it's not a business thing, she'll wind up finding bad misfortune in a different way from someone else. I've seen it happen more than once, and honestly, that's the best revenge because it's personal satisfaction and you didn't have to do anything to get that =)
2007-05-24 02:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is bad enough. I know you want to hurt her more, but getting her to lose her job means you'll be paying more alimony in the divorce settlement.
Lay off the wife and get a good lawyer.
2007-05-24 01:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up already!
The marriage is over so move on.
Only a small minded twit would go out of their way to have someone fired from their job for revenge.
I hope she gets on here today and I'd tell her to have a restraining order put against you and for her to sue you for harassment.
2007-05-24 02:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it go. You are holding on way too much hostility. You already stated she has nothing. I know you are hurt and angry, but why not focus on happier things. Like finding new love. Hanging out with friends that make you smile.
2007-05-24 02:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by TTG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I certainly can understand your pain and the need for revenge.
But, you don't actually know that the child she miscarried was the other man's baby.
And, at one time you loved this woman.
Let it go. You'll be happier in the long run.
2007-05-24 01:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let it go man. The only way to move on with your life is to give up trying to influence hers. i understand you feel a lot of emotions, anger and pain are probably in your heart and mind. Don't live your life angry at the past. its easy to say and hard to do, but its time to move on and let her continue on.with her life and you with yours.
2007-05-24 02:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by chinamigarden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to let this go for your sake. This is taking over you. Vengance is not the way to go to move on. She was obviously not the person for you anyway. Find someone else.
2007-05-24 02:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by nurseknowitall 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u mean ex wife...she is not with u anymore let her be u will only get urself in trouble just dont go back to her ok...go out with her friend...lol
2007-05-24 02:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋