cheat wife?

Question

Do married women cheat only because of not being fullfilled sexually or is it because of other things.

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1 week ago
My big why still remains cuz i can't really figure out why she did it to me twice within a period of two months both happens to be totally differret men. I do have an average dick that on ready most of the night, i treat her right, am not a drunkard, I do provide financial. Or maybe the first time she cheated that guy happened to have a more than average dick than me and that made me less a man to her thats why she may do feel me anymore. Ladies these is for you if you slept with a man that is big down there more than your man would you go back to your and still have that spark.

1 week ago
The reason why am still with her is because i did not catch her in bed with the man whom i was suspecting she was having an affair with, but i saw them together at her workplace why i did confrot both of them in which the man said that there was nothing going on between them, in which later her called my sister and told her the same. He wanted to talk to men but i decline. Do you think if they had slept together, he could have the courage to denie it to me face to face. Whenever i ask my wife she says that am evil minded, and that they were talking just like two neighbours. I really do not want to mess up my child life cuz i know how it is to be brought up by one parent. Am just confused at the moment.

Answer 1

If in fact you know, for a fact, she had relations with this other guy twice in two months. Then I guess you know, she's been having an affair with him.

I think it's safe to assume you should sit down with her and ask her what's going on. Do you have kids? I would guess they don't come into the picture with her, she doesn't think so of course.
Is there something your doing, are you working, are you drinking, doing drugs, do you keep yourself clean (hygienic) check all these thing out. Think of what she expects of you.

It could be she just met this guy at work and garnerd a relationship with him. It sounds like it started a long time ago and now it sounds like your going to have to mediate with a marriage consular or sit and talk with her and see if your marriage can be saved.
If she has been having a relationship with this guy, this is something your going to have to accept and live with if you do get back together.

Answer 2

I am sorry your heart is heavy laden. .....There are several things you need to look at and there is no excuse for it...but some women have bipolar disorder that causes them to be irrational in the decision making...please read up on this disorder and see if your wife fits the symptoms.

From what you have written I do not understand why she would have an affair.....most of the time women have affairs because they feel they are not getting enough attention from their spouse...its not always sex...and the size of the male anatomy is not really and issue.....the old saying is..."its not the size, but what you do with it "....

Make sure you have all the FACTS before acting on your feelings. Believe me...a child growing up with a happy single parent is better than a child growing up with two parents that fight all the time. Think about that too.

I wish you the very best.

Answer 3

You are most confused... Talking on the job site with a man is no grounds or proof that this woman have being sleeping around on you.. unless you have proof or a confession from her or the man.. You have nothing. It would be unfair of you to judge her for something she haven't done. There is ways you can point if she is cheating you have to get smart and you have to obtain some proof..Women well... most of us do not cheat because of sex we cheat because of betrayal..I said most of us not all.. There is some cases that the woman is just bored and frustrated and that causes this horrible mistake... But how do we know that in this case she is even cheating if you can't catch her? do your homework and find out like i said you have to get smart and if there is something you will see..Till then you have nothing and for all we know you just insecure and accusing your wife of cheating.. I would advice for you guys to get some marriage counseling... Good luck.

Answer 4

To answer your main question. Women cheat for a few reasons, sex is just one of them (just like men...) Women ARE more emotion, generally speaking and you may simply not be fulfilling her emotional needs.. You may be a perfect stand-up guy and your "instruments" perfectly tuned, but if it's not harmonious outside the bedroom, ain't NOBODY gonna dance!
Spend time together... doing normal stuff, all the stuff you used to do initially.

Answer 5

There are many factors which may affect your relations with her.
Just money & sex.
There is need of healthy relations.
I think it is absent in your case.
Sex & love are two different things, don't mess up.
Compare your current relations with her to your relations at the time of marriage.
What you find? is there any change?