I'm married and my husband is anyoyed that I have been going out with them. I'm I wrong to or is he just been selfish, can u tell me what is the problem?
2007-05-24 03:11:12 · 28 answers · asked by sunflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SELFISH SELFISH SELFISH - the problem is - he isn't the centre of attention while your parents are there - he is now a little lost boy and doesn't know how to deal with it except by sulking - buy him a nappy and a rusk
2007-05-24 03:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by jamand 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels left out. Why isn't he going along on these outings? I understand you may want some time alone with them - one night - but your husband shouldn't be excluded from the outings, that is selfish on your part. But if he's refusing to go, then he shouldn't have anything to say about it at all. They are your PARENTS it's not like you are out at the club with your single girlfriends.
2007-05-24 10:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's being selfish. Just say sorry and that you realize he's only saying something because he cares. Especially if you dont see your parents a lot. He needs to realize that they're a big part of your life too! Just make sure you show a little extra attention to him some way at some point.
2007-05-24 10:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem, unless you guys really can't afford to take them out and your doing it anyway. Maybe he is jealous that you are spending all your time with your parents and not the time with him that he is used to. Whenever you guys go to bed, reassure him when your parents leave you will be able to devote more time to them...tell him to stop acting like a baby...lol...you know how men are (ok, women too)....they want that attention!
2007-05-24 10:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was one time, I'd say he was being selfish but "last couple of nights" makes me think you aren't paying any attention to him. Frankly (and we have a great relationship), if my daughters wanted to spend time partying with me, I'd think there was something wrong. Parents are not friends, and friends shouldn't be your parents. You are married to your friend, pay attention to him.
2007-05-24 10:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong , that is your family. My boyfriend is very close to his parent too. Sometimes it gets irritating having to go there all the time but I do not mind as long as he returns the favor. Just make sure your willing to do the same with him or else it is not fair.
2007-05-24 10:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Teresa R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How often do you see your parents? Was he home alone with the kids while you were out? If this was a rare event for you and your parents, then he maybe needs to get over it but if you are frequently going out (with anyone) and leaving him home alone then he has reason to be annoyed. guess i need more info.
2007-05-24 11:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you don't see your parents very regularly as a rule? Even if not, he is being very selfish. You only have one set of parents and you should treasure them. But you're going to have to tell us why he wasn't there. Babysitting?
2007-05-24 10:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by proud walker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are your parents and your husband should not be annoyed with you for spending time with them, you have the rest of your life to be with him but your parents wont be around forever, Why can't your husband go out with you and your parents.???
2007-05-24 10:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Granny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like someone else said, he's jealous and wants to be the center of attention. I think it's really sad that he's being such a big baby.
2007-05-24 10:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋