What to do stay or leave?

Question

After talking to my husband about the pictures on the website
he lied about Every thing ...I got him to tell some truth but he still lying about where the pictures was taken it bad enough that he took them but in out bedroom,and he will not tell about it. I can't take the hurt no more please help.
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The pictures was placed on adult web site

Answer 1

I guess it depends on what the pictures consisted of. Also all depending on how bad the pics are do you trust him and will you trust him again. If a relationship does not have trust then it is not going to work. Try talking to him and find out why he did it and why he insisted on lying to you about it. He obviously has some issues telling you the truth and there is a problem with him too. He needs to talk to you about it. If he is not willing to talk about it than you need to leave because who in their right mind would want to stay with some one that is not willing to put any effort into their relationship. Keep your head up and remember he is just a man and no matter what you do not need a man to be happy in life.

Answer 2

You have to ask yourself if your relationship is worth salvaging and if it is will you be able to forgive him and move forward. Don't sell yourself short by any means. Of course he is going to lie whether it be verbally or by omission, but you have to conclude whether he is lying to keep from hurting you more or is he is lying so he can continue doing the dirt he has been doing. If it is the latter then your best bet is to cut your losses and move on.

Answer 3

Depends on many things. One doesnt walk away without knowing ALL the particulars. I'm sure there are many things that only you know, and your gut will tell you how to resolve what's going on here.

Answer 4

What? More explaining needed.