2007-05-24 05:09:01 · 13 answers · asked by akk345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You either have to forgive and forget, or continue fighting. It's your choice.
2007-05-24 05:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be very tough going. Your trust for your husband is gone. You prob. always question his loyalty if he is late or when he is gone too long. I don't know what to tell you. My husband cheated more than once so I will never trust him again. I think it depends on the person whether they can go on with the cheating spouse and try to work things out. I hate to give the standard answer "seek counseling" but maybe it will help you. If you continue to fight, it's best to separate. Esp. if you have kids. They don't need to hear that. It upsets them. Good luck.
2007-05-24 12:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that when a guy cheats there are a lot of trust issues involved afterwords. If you really want to make the relationship work you have to learn to forgive and trust again. If there are a lot of issues that are irreconcilable you may need further counseling. Be willing to share your feelings on the tough issues, like how bad this hurt you and how you feel when he leaves the house now etc. Good-luck!
2007-05-24 12:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight about what his infidelity well i wouldnt put up with no cheat when you take your vows there sacred and u still fight no good i kicked my husband out 2 months ago but we did not cheat on each other even though he thought i did because i went out with my brother a few times to the bar i work at im a bartender but the fights go bad so i kicked him the the curb life is too short be happy hon gl to tc jewels
2007-05-24 12:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look in your heart to see if you will be able to forgive him. That means that you don't bring it up everytime you have a fight. It also means that you have to trust that he is going where he says he is going when he leaves. This is not an east task and the reason that you guys are arguing may mean that you haven't forgiven him yet. If you feel like you can not work through it, you may have to think about taking things to the next step. I hope that everything works out for you.
2007-05-24 12:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try counseling. Both of you need a neutral party, to guide you through the process of learning to trust each other. And to find out why he cheated and the problems you both had a year ago. Good luck, I hope this helps.
2007-05-24 12:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Alex L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to attend marriage counseling. Obviously you are still hurt and cannot trust him. I don't know if he is truly making an effort to get your trust and you just can't get over it, or if he is still being shady and causing you to keep suspecting him... but either way, with a marriage counselor you can at least get your feelings out and find a way to either be able to move forward with the marriage or call it quits.
2007-05-24 14:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Twizzle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe u need to move out and get some time in between u too.That helps sometime..but theres no trust there is there? there never will be either. I dont wanna say he'll do it again..but u know the sayin..Maybe he needs to feel a little pain..and be cheated on..
2007-05-24 12:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by tankkaray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get therapy if you think there is a chance you might still love each other.
If not, then call a lawyer and get a divorce.
2007-05-24 12:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop fighting, your the wife be submissive to Him and only Him forgive Him for the past...move on....sheesh like a buncha highschoolers in here today
2007-05-24 12:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋