we dated for 1 year and had a baby together and then got married and stayed married for a year. 2 months later we split up he has a girl friend and i have a boy friend but we are both still in love with each other what should i do ??
2007-05-24 06:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by iloveorlandobloom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No question, if you both still love each other and committed to making this marriage work, than yes go for it, but if your both not and still wondering about others out in the world, don't bring such misery to a child. Children need a loving and peaceful home to strive in.
2007-05-24 06:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not go back! You dated one year had a baby,stayed married for a year? Two months from what did you break up, that last year? Already you and he have found out you are still in love but have moved into other relationships? The question is; what is the definition of love and commitment? Do you need understanding......apparently you both are immature and "sorry for the child." Marriage is not something one can open and close on like a revolving door at macy's. You may be experiencing, a what you would say; joyous accasion,but there is no one laughing! You are still married and dating other people who do you think you are charlotte from charlotte's web.What a tangled web we weave.....Love is unconditional..it does not come in spirts....sex is it active with your dates as well? You and he needs some time......alone away from anyone just alone.......Think if you can!
2007-05-24 07:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by God is love. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys still married?
If not maybe you should drop your current boyfriend and him drop his girl friend abd start dating not be in a relationship but date your ex because sometimes when your prego your hormones are out of wack , and when a new baby comes everything is all nuts and that could have been the reason why you guys had to split but you guys still loving each other is not a bad thing your just in a bad situation! Be fair to current other halfs let them know the deal for someone get hurt!
2007-05-24 06:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, of course you still love each other, you loved each other enough to get married and have a child, but you need to remember what made you break up in the first place.
Even with the love and such, there was a reason that you didn't get along. If you both have moved on enough to start dating others, it might just be the end of the road for you guys. Good luck.
2007-05-24 06:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sure you or both on the same page and you both truly love each other, why not. You didn't say if you went through a divorce or not, did you ?. Anyway it goes your both not married to anyone or tied down to anyone , give it a try because there is a child involved and if your positive that you really and truly love each then sure because that baby will have a mommy and daddy which they deserve.
Best of luck To the Both of You.
2007-05-24 06:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you end up in love , there should not any questions about the way you think . A freight coach would now not discontinue it. Since that you maybe torn between two humans ,you're keen on neither of them . You might care about them each and every. However that isn't the form of affection that humans battle and die for . It is not the kind of love so that it is going to last a lifetime , and it may be no longer the type of affection that you conveniently have to marry or commit for . Be free like a butterfly until you to find that form of affection .
2016-08-11 13:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by milak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a wonderful and beautiful thing...But you both have someone else in your life. You must think of them as well. In all honesty, it seems that you and your ex spent a great deal of time together but something didn't quite fit-hence the breaking up and getting back together again.
I would only get back together if you were both single, and two the relationship wasn't so strictly tied. I fear that once you and he get back together, it won't last...again...I'm not sure why you both broke up in the first place, but whatever it was for, make sure the issue(s) are resolved. Look for your own benefit and that of your child.
2007-05-24 06:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by break_margarita01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason an ex is an ex. If now that you both are in new relationships you still feel drawn to one another, talk about it. Explore why you are still attached and still have feelings. If you think that what you two are feeling now is enough to build a healthy relationship with then do it. But be honest with yourself and each other. You don't want to give it a try and have it blow up in your face later on down the line.
2007-05-24 06:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Christina S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay separated!! There was a reason why, of coarse, that you guys moved on. It will never be the same between you guys at all, ever. There will never be that trust that was there once before, you will always question his commitment to you as he will with you. It sounds to me like you BOTH was young and nieve in believing it was true love. Stay apart, trust me you both will be better off that way. True love is out there for you and when it comes your way you will know it, there is just that feeling you can't shake out of your heart. There is a difference in your head and your heart, you'll feel it when it hits you. Good luck, and worry about what's important right now and that is your child. Let her grow up and see mom is strong minded.
2007-05-24 06:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that can answer that. Think about why you two broke up in the first place. Was it just stupid fighting going on or was it because of a serious issue. You cannot help how you love or who you fall in love with but you can help not putting yourself in a bad situation and you are the only one that knows if it in deed was a good or bad situation. Not sure I gave you much advice but just try and think of the good and bad times you two had together. Try and weigh the pro and cons of getting back together before you make a decision.
2007-05-24 06:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly_2blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋