Marriage & Divorce - 27 April 2007

Do not
Come closer
Though I want you here
Do not
Look at me
Though I want to see you
Do not
Touch me
Though your contact warms me still
If your love is gone
If
Then what’s the point?

2007-04-27 14:27:28 · 21 answers · asked by Lydia C 3

I'm 16 and want to divorce my parents, is this possible? My parents are pretty horrible to me. Does anyone have a site I can go to?

2007-04-27 14:18:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife of 2 years yesterdaytold me, that her last boyfriend used to wear her bathing suit during sex, and she was turned on by it. She asked me, if I would wear one for her. Personally, I do not mind, but I am curious as to what to expect. What does it feel like ? Is it comfy? Do other men wear them?

2007-04-27 14:17:02 · 14 answers · asked by j_borden_10000 1

2007-04-27 13:54:15 · 53 answers · asked by princess 2

2007-04-27 13:45:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-27 12:41:44 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha 1

Should I try at least once in my life?

2007-04-27 12:40:10 · 20 answers · asked by amee 2

I dated a man for 1 1/2 years. Recently, I became pregnant. We agreed to get married. He said we would get engaged soon, but I had a miscarriage. He said we would still get engaged, because he was thinking of getting married, but then he has recently started saying he no longer wants to get engaged and would rather just breakup instead. I feel very crushed and have told him many times that this really hurts me alot and he shouldn't do it. He says right now more than anything he wants his freedom (no more kids) and he just wants to break it off. He says he feels pressured into everything. He already has 2 kids from a previous marriage, but I have none and have never been married. When I first met him, he told me he wanted to get married some day and maybe have children. But for the past 6 months, he's been saying he doesn't want any kids and I do, so he should leave because he's changed his mind. My thoughts range from serious depression to disbelief to revenge. What do I need to?

2007-04-27 12:39:19 · 14 answers · asked by oh really 3

Is it a good idea to get married just to save 200 dollars on car insurance, plus get fininacial aid through college, and any tax refunds at the end of the year because of claiming married? Is there any other things that you can save on because of marriage? We are currently engaged and will get married someday, but i think we should we should do a sort of a fake marragie for now to save on money.

2007-04-27 12:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by mrneighbordude 2

he only kissed them both but left me for a month with the 21 year old. he swears its only me he wants and how sorry he is.he is 37.we have 2 children and i am living with him at the moment. do i stay or do i go,i really dont no what to do,can a marriage work after the 2nd time of doing this. please help.

2007-04-27 12:26:00 · 61 answers · asked by chief 2

Hubby left 7 months ago and there is no chance of us getting back together to much abuse and etc and i was wondering when would be a good time to get a divorce?

2007-04-27 12:11:24 · 28 answers · asked by rebecca l 1

He'd rather buy weed than put back money for baby that's in hospital..or for house we're supposed to be getting in.He also refuses to got to work everyday.....what to do?

2007-04-27 11:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepkids mother always uses me as a reason to not let their dad see them. She always tells him she doesn't trust him because she doesn't want me to be there! Of course I'm going to be there I love those kids too and I am their step mommy after allI! I am not going to have my husband go on a trip from El Paso to Austin and not go....cause the next words out of her mouth will be ...if your stepmom cared about you she would have been here! Is it always a loosing battle? All I want is to have peace! When its time for us to have the kids I want to have them and vice versa! What's her problem?

2007-04-27 11:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by Terry 1

Been divorced for 2 years and feel like somone has died but no closure. Have one child with her and rips my heart open every time we talk. Will there ever be any type of closure in this situation. Will it ever get better. I'm shell shocked with relationships now. Should I turn gay? Is that type relationship any easier. Naw I should say not. It would not be anything easy about getting a thing-a-ma-gig up your who-who! SO DAMNED CONFUSED!! By the way, in case I'm reconized on this here forum, that was a joke about turning gay. I somtimes weep when I poop much less the other direction. I slay me!!! HA!HA!

2007-04-27 10:33:14 · 8 answers · asked by elvis 1

ok this past weekend my husband went to pick up some car parts. I went home to indiana while he is in texas. Well i get home i cant get a hold of him and he isnt calling anyone i thought he was missing. Ok this happend friday no call sat. and late sunday i get a call. He went to dallas. He said he couldnt remember my phone number and thats why he didnt call. Then he said he spent the night there. Now he has these girls on his myspace and she lives close to where he went. Everytime i ask him if he cheated on me he saids he wouldn't do that i dont know what to think.

2007-04-27 10:27:13 · 23 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 1

What do I do. He raised his voice called me a b$%^&, grabbbed my arms, took my keys and let me leave. He keeps calling and I miss him and I have never had problems before this. I cant eat or sleep. What do I do???

2007-04-27 10:24:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's kids ( Jordain 7 (today), Jocelynn 5, and Jacob 4 yrs old) have been wanting to see us and we've been wanting to see them but their bio mom won't allow for us or even him to visit the kids without HER supervision during the visitation, My husband and I have been struggling "her demands" for about 2 years now and I am wondering if the kids would be better off on down the road if we just laid low and let time pass for the kids to get old enough to make decisions on their own, and hopefully eventually they will want a relationship with thier dad and I? What should we do?

2007-04-27 10:24:14 · 8 answers · asked by Terry 1

I know that the chances of them ever hooking
up are slim to none but the fact that it was even a thought gets to me.

She just married my husband's brother (brother in law) and I invited them to spend a month in my home.

Should I say something?? She thinks she is so pretty, truly she is her bests years and me....my worsts

I am smarter than her, well educated, but she is obviously beautiful and sexy.

any advice?

2007-04-27 10:22:32 · 16 answers · asked by MARIA 2

I recently found out that my boyfriend took some vicodin pills out of my medicine bottle. I take it sometimes when I am in pain. Now, he admitted that he has an addiction. He says that he's been addicted for about one year. I don't know what to do. I have a 4 year old daughter. The thing about my bf is that he is the sweetest, smartest man I have ever met. He is in college right now getting straight A's, he has a great job, and he is completely normal. He treats me like a queen, he is very patient, and he accepts the fact that I have a disability (he has taken care of me when I was sick). BUT, he did lie to me. He does have an addiction. He did steal pills from me. He only takes 3 pills a day, which shouldn't minimize his addiction, but I don't know what to do. He has never put me in any kind of danger, and he proved to me by his medical records that he has been getting the pills legally. Should I break up? I love him, but I have my daughter in the picture too.

2007-04-27 10:15:04 · 22 answers · asked by chickenbeansoup 1

The ex and I were married for four years. The marriage was annulled due to personal reasons. My current husband is the father of my son, and when I was married to the ex, he would be at the house occasionally to see our son. So obviously my husband now had met my ex. They got along fine but my current husband always knew that the ex was a horrible person.

Just before the ex went to jail, he had made some threats to me and my husband. Now the ex has called me and wants me to forgive him for all he has done in the past.

Should I tell my husband? .... Should I forgive the ex? (He is in jail for 20 something odd years, so tech. I don't feel like I have to do much. I sure as hel1 wouldn't ever go visit him.)

2007-04-27 10:03:08 · 35 answers · asked by Mrs. K 3

My wife and I have be married for about a year and a half. We've had alot of problems during that time. We broken up with each other too many times. It has taken me losing her to relize that she was the best thing that ever happened to me. I've tried everything I know to try and win her back. But she dosn'et belive anyhign I tell her. I didn't treat her like I should have, she tried so hard to make it work for us. I didn't hit her but I know I made her hurt with the stuff I would say to her. But now I really want to make this work. But she has already started the papperwork for divorceing me. I haven't been served yet, but I know its coming soon. I really don't want this divorce. I want to contest it, but I don't know if that would do any good. What are my options if I do, if I contest ,can I ask the judge to order some kind of counselor to help us with our problems. Or is there anything else I can do to try and save our marriage. Thanks for any advice

2007-04-27 09:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

for domestic violence??

2007-04-27 09:05:59 · 21 answers · asked by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4

Two years ago my husband and I separated, but never divorced. Together, we have two kids. In Aug 05 our children went to live with him as I had no place at the time suitbale for them. I was visiting them at my parent's house 2 days out of the week until Oct 06. In March of 06 my boyfriend and I got pregnant. In Oct. I was on bedrest, waiting for baby and keeping my other two children 4-5 days out of the week and still obligated to pay child support (400/mo). My new son was born in Nov. At a recent court date, the judge seen that I kept my children 4-5 days out of the week for 6 months and planned to continue doing that, but did not termintate the order. Back pay added up during pg. If I do not pay every penny of current support between now and the next court date, I will go to jail. Unlikely support will be terminated. About to lose place to live. Only way to support new child and these children is to give my part of the custody to my parents of my two oldest. Can I?

2007-04-27 09:05:15 · 6 answers · asked by Bree42084 1

2007-04-27 08:57:29 · 25 answers · asked by Boo47 1

Do you think a marriage is more or less likely to succeed if a couple moves in together before they're married? For arguments sake we'll say they've been together at least a year.

2007-04-27 08:48:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

"Husband been acting strange, now asking for a divorce.. ??"

So, i talked to my husband today and he said some more awful things to me.. i KNOW there is something else he isn't telling me. He seems to sincerely WANT the divorce.

I've talked to his parents, trying to find out if THEY know what's going on with him.. and they said he's been acting volatile to them too. (They don't have a clue why either.. JUST because he can?)

My husband for some reason, wants to take our children from me.. even though i KNOW he can't do this as he has NO reason to. I'm not unfit or anyhting, i believe he wants to take them as some kind of leverage over me/to hurt me some more!

I don't WANT to tell the courts that i don't want him seeing the kids WHEN we divorce, but considering his current unstable mental incapacity.. i think that would be best for now. (Until he gets the help he needs..)

2007-04-27 08:46:37 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

My husband has cheated on me a couple of years ago, and when I found out I talked to her and she sugar coated it because she wanted to still have some conncetion with my husband. Once my husband told her it was over supposively the communication between them stopped. I don't know what to believe. I was wondering now at this point since we live on the opposite ends of the U.S. should I ask her what really happened? Do you think after a couple of years she wouldn't really care and spill it all? My husband as in most men, wouldn't a lot of times just come out and tell there wife everything. Also, who is to say she will tell the truth. But since this has happened I just keep wondering and it hasn't ever went away.

2007-04-27 08:41:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you feel about premartial sex and living together before marriage and why?

2007-04-27 08:37:18 · 20 answers · asked by swindlebobby 2

I'm a divorced father, and i am attracted to my friends daughter who is also my babysitter....She is a very nice young lady and very sexy. I did catch her checking my out one time getting me out of the shower, and she is always touching me wanting to give me massages...............What should i do? Any suggestions?

2007-04-27 08:36:24 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wanted to add ...... i really love her and want her .... but am afraid how should i make a move......i dont think she will make a move....also if i make a move and if she gets angry how do i save the day ...... suggestions guys .......thank u

OLD QUES: HI.....I am meeting a married woman in a hotel in 10 hours....she is very very friendly with me ..... we have even s*x chatted a couple of times .... but then she is like she does not like it ... I cant exactly figure out her intentions.....we are meeting in a hotel and are goin 2 be together for 5 hours.....she is a very good friend.......should i try and go for her........i am scarred i might loose her.......pls reply fast

2007-04-27 08:34:39 · 16 answers · asked by rahulkhanna2345 1