Just wanted to add ...... i really love her and want her .... but am afraid how should i make a move......i dont think she will make a move....also if i make a move and if she gets angry how do i save the day ...... suggestions guys .......thank u
OLD QUES: HI.....I am meeting a married woman in a hotel in 10 hours....she is very very friendly with me ..... we have even s*x chatted a couple of times .... but then she is like she does not like it ... I cant exactly figure out her intentions.....we are meeting in a hotel and are goin 2 be together for 5 hours.....she is a very good friend.......should i try and go for her........i am scarred i might loose her.......pls reply fast
2007-04-27 08:34:39 · 16 answers · asked by rahulkhanna2345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most of the time in like situations the woman and even the man almost always somehow manages to confess.
Usually it's done to clear the conscience, hurt one
of the people involved or the uninvolved.
You told us, is that not so.
Maybe, it is possible to reconsider.
Good luck.
2007-04-27 08:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by zurioluchi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is a good friend, Why are your meeting in a hotel room if you are not having sex??? Last time I checked, good friends did not meet in hotel rooms unless they had something to hide. If you want to keep her as a friend, don't. If all she wants is sex, then she is not a friend. If you really care for her, maybe you should talk to her about how you feel. If she wants a relationship with you, it's time to get rid of the hubby!
2007-04-27 08:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by fyinfo_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? What if that became your spouse assembly yet another guy? How ought to you like her? She is already being untrue. Her intentions are which you place the strikes on her in a sensual way. Why basically 5 hours along with her? do not initiate something you may not end.
2016-10-13 22:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are meeting in a hotel room.... something is going to happen... I don't think you will have to make a move. NO ONE meets in a hotel room for 5 hours and just talks!
2007-04-27 08:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by me a 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here is how it goes down....
You show up at the hotel in about 10 hours. The woman is ready and waiting with another man in the closet. She gets you naked and he pops out and beats your ***. Then they steal your wallet, credit cards, and identity while leaving you unconscious with no clothes.
The other scenario involves you getting a really cool STD.... Continue asking this asinine question if you want to hear about it.
2007-04-27 08:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by monkey tuesday 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If a married woman wants to meet you alone in a hotel for 5 hours, then she just wants sex.
2007-04-27 08:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by c 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you really love her.. then you would be willing to wait for her to leave her husband. She is married. Be honest with her, tell her your feelings. Ask her if she has any true feelings for you. If she doesn't, tell her you understand she is married and you still want to continue to be friends. If she has feelings, ask about her feelings for her husband. Is she going to be willing to leave her husband for you or are you just going to be something on the side? If she is not going to leave her husband - are you really going to be able to emotionally handle her sleeping with another guy every night? If you really love her, you would not want to share her.
Honestly, both you and her need to talk everything out before 1 of you get hurt and you both lose a good friend.
2007-04-27 08:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mother_of_2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you're thinking with the wrong head on this one and no matter what anyone tells you the deed will be signed if presented - so to speak.
The only advise I have is "wrap that rascal", and be prepared for the inevitable fallout in time.
2007-04-27 08:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. Cancel your "hotel meeting" she is married for goodness sake. If she can screw around behind her husbands back what makes you think she wont screw around behind your back if you two get together. Go find a single woman.
2007-04-27 08:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kari R 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Find an unattached woman. She is scum for even agreeing to meet with you and you are stupid if you think this is love. You are just asking for trouble if you proceed with this. If she has children with her husband, this is even worse. Don't risk a child's family life just to get your rocks off.
2007-04-27 08:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by ladywildfireok 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋