Been divorced for 2 years and feel like somone has died but no closure. Have one child with her and rips my heart open every time we talk. Will there ever be any type of closure in this situation. Will it ever get better. I'm shell shocked with relationships now. Should I turn gay? Is that type relationship any easier. Naw I should say not. It would not be anything easy about getting a thing-a-ma-gig up your who-who! SO DAMNED CONFUSED!! By the way, in case I'm reconized on this here forum, that was a joke about turning gay. I somtimes weep when I poop much less the other direction. I slay me!!! HA!HA!
2007-04-27 10:33:14 · 8 answers · asked by elvis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not so sure you will ever get the closure your wanting, but time makes it more bearable. I feel the same as you right now about another relationship, but you will someday find someone who can love you the way you want. What has to be hard for you is seeing her each time you pick the child up, that in itself can't be easy, Divorce can be like losing someone to death, done both, and I would have to say that divorce comes close because this person rejected you and gave up on the relationship, with death they didn't choose this. Take it one day at a time.
2007-04-27 11:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any list of the position the money got here from? you are able to't in simple terms arise with $50,000 without there being a link to the source one way or the different. in the course of the divorce you've seen the business agency files through a court order to work out if there grow to be cord transfers or deposits and also you likely might want to have discovered the source of the money in case you've gotten tried complicated sufficient. so some distance as why she did it? She needed a divorce, for regardless of reason, and needed funds stashed away on excellent of what she grow to be going to make you pay in alimony and baby help. truly you've been minuites far off from being raped. evaluate your self fortunate that you discovered each and every thing out and be at liberty that you made out more advantageous like a bandit than she did. That on my own might want to operate closure.
2016-11-28 03:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're still going through a lot of emotional struggle, which is understanding since you can't run away from the fact that your marriage is over since you have a child and still have to see her on a regular basis. I would recommend starting to see a counselor about this. Most people really hate the idea of psychotherapy, but if you are still feeling shell shocked as you say, this may be too large of a struggle for you to overcome on your own. Talking with a therapist might help you sort out your feelings and begin to heal. You sound like a descent guy, you might just need to convince yourself that you are someone worthy of being loved and giving love.
2007-04-27 10:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by jillagig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where you the cause of the failed marriage? If so then it is guilt you live with (and what you deserve). If not, you may need to lay on the couch and talk it out so you can find a way to move on. I have a sense of humor too, but I'm being serious right now. There's a whole world out there. GO GET IT!!!
IVAN - GO GET IT!!!
2007-04-27 10:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this helps I heard it takes eight years to get over a divorce, I am almost on my seventh year.
2007-04-27 10:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ivan S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 09:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by King 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! you are funny....yup, you'll make it alright..........you have that kind of attitude.....it's hard the frst 2 yrs.......even after that time , you have scars.....and i would say dont even THINK about another relationship right now or soon for that matter....youo will only take those scars w/ you for someon else to deal with...i'm living that scenario.
2007-04-27 15:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will heal. try staying busy and hanging out with friends so you sont think about it as mcuh. start dating again. it is always easier to move on when you have osmeone to move on to
2007-04-27 10:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋