Marriage & Divorce - 27 April 2007

my husband and I have been seperated for 18 months. We live 4000 miles away from each other. He has his photo on a lot of single (dating) sites. He now wants me to move to be with him. He also has emails from other girls, but I cannot prove that he has had any affairs. Should I move 4000 miles to be with him and forget all that has happened? We have been married for almost 10 years now. Is there any way to confirm my suspesions?

2007-04-27 08:31:07 · 15 answers · asked by Shorty 1

qpr northener, i would apprechiate it if you reply to this if you see it. x

2007-04-27 08:29:04 · 5 answers · asked by o_wise1_wannab 2

So her father called her a pig. He meant as in piggish (look it up). Maybe she is. The point being, why should name calling be detrimental for life? Maybe that is why there are so many lawsuits in the USA. Everyone is so thin-skinned.

Like should Imus' statement have scarred smart, skilled young woen for life? Please.

2007-04-27 08:28:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a single mother with three kids and I want a divorce. In order for me to do this I need to locate him and the union is one way that I could get some info.

2007-04-27 08:20:25 · 6 answers · asked by jasmine b 2

Does anyone live in NYC know a lawyer they can recommend? I need someone to review my settlement and resolve some questions/concerns I have. Thanks.

2007-04-27 08:13:39 · 1 answers · asked by cats4g 1

He made a joke of me with two other guys we did not even know and I called him on it so he threatened to break up with me. What is his problem ? Then we went to a doctor's office and when I was seeing the doctor he talked to an attractive young girl, ( he is 36 by the way )that is just today. I need to start giving a daily rundown of his behaviour to make some sort of sense of it.

2007-04-27 08:13:00 · 17 answers · asked by Kendra H 2

2007-04-27 08:10:18 · 35 answers · asked by chunky 1

HI.....I am meeting a married woman in a hotel in 10 hours....she is very very friendly with me ..... we have even s*x chatted a couple of times .... but then she is like she does not like it ... I cant exactly figure out her intentions.....we are meeting in a hotel and are goin 2 be together for 5 hours.....she is a very good friend.......should i try and go for her........i am scarred i might loose her.......pls reply fast

2007-04-27 08:09:31 · 28 answers · asked by rahulkhanna2345 1

2007-04-27 08:00:25 · 17 answers · asked by sonia 1

I use to be involved with a married man we were both married at the time. I have divorced and he is still married of course. But I feel as though he enjoys doing this and he thinks he can have his cake and eat it to. Should I let his wife know to scare the hell out of him or just let sleeping dogs lie.

2007-04-27 07:55:30 · 21 answers · asked by kimberly s 1

2007-04-27 07:45:35 · 17 answers · asked by hcj25 2

I've never seen her like this what the f**k, I'm spending the night some where else tonight. good thing or bad thing?

2007-04-27 07:44:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

After watching Alec Baldwin explain himself and his situation on The View to Rosie O'Donnell and Barbara Walters this morning I can conclude that the legal system is a beast and every blood-sucking lawyer will effectively separate their
client(s) from his and/or her assets. Then they will say it's over. It's true that the man gets the short end of the stick in custody battles in California divorce courts. It's clear that Kim Basinger is USING her daughter to get revenge on her ex. That is very sad. If my ex-wife disobeyed three court orders in a row and it prevented me from seeing my child I would be exasperated myself.

2007-04-27 07:43:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for two years, & we have a 10 months old daughter. I cannot take the abuse anymore, every day I am being criticized & attacked for, things like: how I cook, how I do the dishes, how I talked, how I dress my daughter. How I park the car, blamed because there is a scratch in the drywall, or because the kitchen counter is not sparkle clean. Because what I feed my daughter, because she doesn’t sleep thru the night.
You name it and it is my fault.
Also, I am not a racist person but everyday I have to hear him making racist comments (he is white American), he even applause my oldest daughter (she is 5) if she agrees with him or make fun of certain people. I know I have to leave; I do not want to have a racist daughter, who is half Hispanic!
I cannot let him influence them anymore; I cannot let his verbal attack hurt us anymore.
I need some ideas in how to probe, his abuse in court.

2007-04-27 07:42:21 · 7 answers · asked by Aniv B 1

Is there a woman who come home and give massage naked and the other person is also naked?

2007-04-27 07:35:19 · 12 answers · asked by anamika s 3

i would like to get a divorce but i have alot of expenses right now and am in school and not working should i wait it out until i can support myself he is not abusive he is a cheater.

2007-04-27 07:32:09 · 20 answers · asked by hcj25 2

2007-04-27 07:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering, my husband goes out after work while I am at work with people to get free pizza and half price beer. He goes out every wednesday and sometimes it is hard to get him up in the morning. Also he has started going out on the weekend too and we have the same problem. Is this excessive? I only ask because I'm wondering if this is ok since we have been having marital problems...is it fair for me to at least get the weekend together to work on things? His single friends keep asking him and he just goes cause he doesn't want to be at home. Help me!!

2007-04-27 07:30:15 · 22 answers · asked by superwmn315 2

My husband has been working out of town for the past 5 weeks. Normally he comes home on the weekend but chose to go to Nascar this past weekend rather than come home. He doesnt always answer my calls so I checked his voice mail one day. There was a message from a girl from his past on there talking about meeting up. She lives south of where he is. (I am north) If he can make plans to meet up with her I figure he can come home to be with me and our 3 kids. He also lied to my 11 year old and told her that he put money in my account and he did not. We have been married for 13 years and its been a pretty rocky marriage. What would you do in my situation? Oh yeah... he is a control freak and likes to turn things around on me so they apear to be my fault.
In the past he has had problems with drugs and made it so that we ended up homeless. I am not willing to go through that again. I don't have a support group that I belong to and really dont have many friends nearby.

2007-04-27 07:29:31 · 22 answers · asked by Rosie 4

what else would you call her?:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v95/riboflavin/fark/pigbaldwin.jpg

2007-04-27 07:22:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

have 4 school aged children ,he is disabled and on a military pension ,social security , who is entitled to some of the $

2007-04-27 07:21:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-27 07:20:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is the link to the article: http://www.thesuperjabs.com/why-men-dont-want-to-get-married/

2007-04-27 07:19:54 · 24 answers · asked by merlinvicki 2

My brother in law comes over to my house everyday to bathe and do his laundry. For the past two weeks, everytime he takes a bath, my husband asks me to join him in the tub. He says that his brother is very fond of me and it makes him feel very comfortable when he and I bathe together. My brother in law is not disabled or mentally challenged. He is a very capable and normal 35 year old man. My husband feels that his brother may be suffering from some form of depression and my bathing with him helps him feel better about himself. He says that as his wife, I should be more than happy to do whatever it takes to make my brother in law happy, and if bathing with him is what it takes then so be it. Is this right?? Should I really be taking baths with my brother in law??

2007-04-27 07:12:43 · 34 answers · asked by Flushing06 1

He lives 3 hours away and is being a huge jerk about it. I believe that his interest-free loan ended when he cheated on me.

2007-04-27 07:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a very good friend. One day she was gone out with her family and two kids for three days and she came back one day early and its night time around 12:30 because of kids school. She saw this car parked in the corner of her house and gets suspicious. She goes inside from the garage and tell her kids to be quite because your dad is sleeping. Suddenly her husband comes downstairs and he goes, you , were'nt you suppose to come tomorrow and she said , kids have school tomorrow thats why I came today. She wants to go in her room and her hubby stops her but she pushed him and goes up in the room and see that there is this naked girl in her bed who cover herselp up with a blanket and trys to hide in the closet and says o my GOD . My friends hubby comes up and my friend said who is she and he says, she just came to give me a massage and this girl leaves . She does'nt believe him and he calls this girl on her cell phone in front of my friend and tells her that I am in big trouble.

2007-04-27 07:08:56 · 24 answers · asked by anamika s 3

I read a question on here from a woman who was upset that she hadn't had sex with her husband for two weeks and I laughed out loud.

Could most of you - like me - do two weeks standing on your head? And what's the longest you've ever gone without making love to your wife? Why?

2007-04-27 07:04:13 · 12 answers · asked by Neerdowellian 6

when is a ex-spouse entitled to a ex-spouses military pension

2007-04-27 07:01:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

has any one recieved the money for the noncustodial tax credit.
im having all kinds of problems from the state on mine.any info will help.thanks

2007-04-27 06:54:49 · 4 answers · asked by mckeever2004 2

with all the surveys what is the real answer?

2007-04-27 06:51:45 · 23 answers · asked by chuck p 1