I use to be involved with a married man we were both married at the time. I have divorced and he is still married of course. But I feel as though he enjoys doing this and he thinks he can have his cake and eat it to. Should I let his wife know to scare the hell out of him or just let sleeping dogs lie.
2007-04-27 07:55:30 · 21 answers · asked by kimberly s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He enjoys doing this just like you did when you were married. Of course now that your divorced, the thrill is gone. plus..who wants some guy in your bed that is still married right? Kind of crimps your style from landing another guy in your bed doesn't it?
So why tell his wife? You both have low moral character. Yours hasn't changed any. Just the situation. So just tell him that you're not spreading your legs for him anymore because you've found someone else to spread 'em for.
Oh, he may be devestated but that's life isn't it?
So...I agree...let sleeping dogs lie.
2007-04-27 08:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be vindictive and hurt his wife just to get revenge on him. You're a big girl and knew what you were getting into being involved with a married man. Do the responsible thing now, and break things off with him. And find yourself a man who is available, both emotionally and physically.
2007-04-27 15:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has his cake and is eating it because you are allowing him to still have you while he won't leave his wife. Obviously, he doesn't want a full commitment to you, he stays with his wife but plays with you, little does he know that he will end up alone. Leave the wife out of it, tell him that he needs to leave his wife for you or you will no longer see him.
2007-04-27 15:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell his wife for her health and safety, not to get back at him. If he was with you, he has been with others. Who knows what he is taking back home to her. The fact that you are divorced has nothing to do with it. Look at from the other way, If your ex was cheating on you, wouldn't you have wanted someone to tell you??? Her life may depend on it! Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-04-27 16:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by fyinfo_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself ... you were involved with this man. Why cause unnecessary problems for the wife now. I am sure she suffers enough with her husband running around on her. Just let it go and move on. Whatever happens with him now, happens. At least you stopped seeing him which is good. Live your life and let him live his. He will get found out sooner or later and get what he deserves.
2007-04-28 02:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you give that stuff away to all the married guys ? Maybe tell his wife maybe she wants some to Hell why don't you all just move in together your getting her juices from him anyway mmm bet that taste good
2007-04-27 15:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better off to just let it go and move on, chalk it up to lesson learned and avoid the married guys next time.
2007-04-27 15:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Trynitee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let sleeping dogs lie. You are a cheater too
2007-04-27 15:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're sitting here talking like he's some bad guy because he wants his cake and eat it to but when you were with him you were married too and you knew he was married! his wife deserves to know but i would be prepared because you're no innocent victim who didn't know what you were doing
2007-04-27 15:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reasonable thing to do would be to tell him (assuming this is what you want) that he needs to move forward and either get separated and initiate a divorce, or its over between you.
2007-04-27 15:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋