I have a very good friend. One day she was gone out with her family and two kids for three days and she came back one day early and its night time around 12:30 because of kids school. She saw this car parked in the corner of her house and gets suspicious. She goes inside from the garage and tell her kids to be quite because your dad is sleeping. Suddenly her husband comes downstairs and he goes, you , were'nt you suppose to come tomorrow and she said , kids have school tomorrow thats why I came today. She wants to go in her room and her hubby stops her but she pushed him and goes up in the room and see that there is this naked girl in her bed who cover herselp up with a blanket and trys to hide in the closet and says o my GOD . My friends hubby comes up and my friend said who is she and he says, she just came to give me a massage and this girl leaves . She does'nt believe him and he calls this girl on her cell phone in front of my friend and tells her that I am in big trouble.
2007-04-27 07:08:56 · 24 answers · asked by anamika s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can you explain her , why you were here and this girl says, yes I will that I was there only for the massage. After that he said I am really sorry and now they are again normal and happy. My question is this that what you would have done in that situation and are ther these kind of girls who come home and give massage naked and her husband was also naked..
2007-04-27 07:13:14 · update #1
Geogiex I don't need advice from people like you. Anyways I am married myself and have very cute two boys and I was in my home that night.
2007-04-27 07:17:34 · update #2
Actually she does'nt work and worried that what will I do if I leave him or she leaves him. He says I won,t give you a penny. Pay mortgage of the house yourself and other expensies also.
2007-04-27 07:23:44 · update #3
I told her if I were you I would have leave him right away but she is very insecure about the fact that what will happen if after I leave him. I don't understand her whats wrong with her , I think she has no self- respect . I am very worried about her.
2007-04-27 07:31:30 · update #4
Tell her to kick him to the curb where he belongs and get on with her life. Life is way to short to let a man walk all over her.
2007-04-27 07:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A naked massage? Oh come on! What advice do you need? Obviously he was cheating on her. Im surprised she did'nt beat the crap out of her and him!!!! What is wrong with some people? You know what the sad part is? The fact that they have children and she is probably a good wife who just is'nt as "attractive" to him as when they first met blah blah. She needs to seriously throw him out and file for divorce or seek some serious counseling cuz THE PAIN she must feel, and then in HER OWN BED too........ Disgusting.........
2007-04-27 14:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by Hannibooboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Friend husband have been doing this for a while to be so comfortable to bring another women into there home. Your friend have to find out what went wrong in the marriage and why her husband want to be with another women. I would not suggest a divorce unless he is being abusive to his wife but rather have the wife and husband sit down and talk about saving there marriage by finding out what each one wants in the relationship and succeeding at it.
2007-04-27 14:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by erroll f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have kicked his but to the curb.
A naked massage, what a LOAD OF CRAP!
She is being blind to what was really going on because she would rather believe the stupidest lie in the world rather than believe he was cheating on her!
2007-04-27 14:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is in mans nature to cheat as cave men when a female would get pregnant the man would go and find some one else it goes to show you people are a lot like animals nonetheless if he made a commitment and sore to only honer your friend he is a person who lies and does not keep his word and a marriage is about truth and trust if he wanted something like that his wife surly would do that for him because she loves him but him not asking her tells me that he doesn't care she should leave him and look for Mr rite also the kids will understand as long as she speak to them as adults not baby's ask them for advice and let them know what she is planning in advance
2007-04-27 14:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by mike t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there are not women that come to your house and give naked massages, unless they're giving you something other than a massage.
Are you seriously saying that his wife is so naive, she believed this bs?
2007-04-27 14:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes this stupid to believe that people get naked for a massage is about the dumbest thing I have ever heard! kick him to the curb!! He's a no good cheating jerk!
2007-04-27 14:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your friend. She is married to a liar and a cheat. It is very diffcult to work a marriage under those circumstances. They might want to get into counseling BOTH Asap or I am afraid the marriage is over.
2007-04-27 14:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ed S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her husband was cheating and got busted with a naked broad in her own bed. What advice do you need on this??
2007-04-27 14:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Flushing06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care about your friend. Take care of you and your family first.
Now, it seems you were one of this girls giving a massage! Right?
And now you are in trouble!
If so, tough luck!
2007-04-30 00:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Servette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋