My brother in law comes over to my house everyday to bathe and do his laundry. For the past two weeks, everytime he takes a bath, my husband asks me to join him in the tub. He says that his brother is very fond of me and it makes him feel very comfortable when he and I bathe together. My brother in law is not disabled or mentally challenged. He is a very capable and normal 35 year old man. My husband feels that his brother may be suffering from some form of depression and my bathing with him helps him feel better about himself. He says that as his wife, I should be more than happy to do whatever it takes to make my brother in law happy, and if bathing with him is what it takes then so be it. Is this right?? Should I really be taking baths with my brother in law??
2007-04-27 07:12:43 · 34 answers · asked by Flushing06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!!!!!! Your husband is crazy. Why on earth would a man want his WIFE to be in the tub with another man, let alone his own brother. YOu need to get a divorce. He sounds crazy.
2007-04-27 07:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding! You are dealing with some sick people. That so-called husband has a major problem if he could ask you to get naked with his brother.
Then your wondering if you should be taking baths with your brother in law? Well, then you have to be sick too.
2007-04-27 07:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh god i hope that you are joking. Your husband is totally wrong about this. And your brother in law is big enough to bath by himself. If you don't want to do it then dont and your husband cant force you. If he does leave him NOW!
2007-04-27 07:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most certainally. Apparently this is a very theraputic treatment for what obviously is a very unbalanced man who comes from a dysfunctional family. This would also explain your husband's theory behind this as well.
I would say that you should consider this an act of kindness if it helps him through this troubled times. It also shows that your husband has very strong family values, seen only in denizens who inhabit places like Mississippi, Alabama, Louisana and the mountains in West Virgina. Meritorious indeed!
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2007-04-27 07:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His brother will probably like it if HE took a bath with him. You are an adult and should NEVER do something you are not comfortable with. That is going beyond your call of duty as a wife. What are you going to say when he ask you to go further than that with his brother??? This is not normal girl.
2007-04-27 07:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh. No. There's a serious issue here why your brother in law requests that and why your husband thinks that's ok.
2007-04-27 07:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your full of it and you should be old enough to know the answer to that or just totally controlled .Hell no you don't take a bath with him ! What kind of respect do you have for yourself? None obviously
2007-04-27 07:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! You should only bathe with your husband it isn't share and share alike. Something is definitely wrong with his brother he needs to get a life and find his own woman.
2007-04-27 07:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by leximus5555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - this is OK ... for your Husband & Brother In Law ...
But it is ONLY RIGHT FOR YOU if you have a
Joint Account in Luxembourg with your Husband where all his MONEY for this MUST be going!!
You have one "sick puppy" on your hands!
You confirmed your Brother In Law is not mentally challenged
Can I presume your Husband is not " " ?
erhhhhh, that only leaves .................. of the 3 of you!
Put your foot down girl!
2007-04-27 07:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by marbella man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never heard of bathing with an in-law as a treatment to help depression?
2007-04-27 07:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋