2007-04-27 08:00:25 · 17 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is an outburst of expectations and affection. Allow them to come to terms with your personality as you adjust yourself in their company. This is very delicate phase of married life never give up more than what you can sustain in long run, but at the same time allow them to realise they are demanding more than what they should. Encourage discussion and avoid confrontation. All the best.
2007-04-27 21:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Prem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, mother-in-laws occasionally want to control their daughter-in-laws because they "took my baby boy". Most men are mammas boys anyway, so mother-in-laws want to have some control over what their son's wives are feeding them, where they're taking them, etc. Husbands get this goofy idea about controlling their wives from either their mothers or their buddies saying "Yeah man you gotta wear the pants in the family. Don't be a pushover" etc things of that nature. Some men just can't stand the idea of being controlled by a woman. They don't usually think about marriage as a partnership in which control is shared by the two individuals. Of course some men feel the need to control because of the lack of control they have in other aspects of their lives. Because of this they tend to overcompensate by being super controlling in their relationships.
2007-04-27 08:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by spicy_salsa69 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are girls controlled after marriage?
Only because people still have the tenacity to think that women are the weaker sex and the weakness always seems to be perceived in their minds. A mother in law? It's Momma's Boy going off with that not perfect girl. She MUST be watched to make sure she does everything right...
2007-04-27 08:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground. There is some weakness that they sense in you which makes them think that they can control you. Or, they may be just controlling people. You let them know from the beginning that you are not going to tell you what to do? If you set low expectations then you will be treated low. If you set high expectations and you will be treated like royalty.
2007-04-27 08:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
under 18: The minimum age for marriage contained in the State of Virginia is sixteen years for the two bride and groom; besides the indisputable fact that, if the two occasion is under eighteen, consent to the marriage would desire to take delivery of via the daddy, mom, or felony mum or dad. this may be carried out individually via the parent or felony mum or dad earlier the guy issuing the license, or via a written consent stunning sworn to earlier a notary public. particular provisions are made in Virginia regulation to permit marriage for underage events whilst the female is pregnant and for circumstances wherein underage applicants have no parent or felony mum or dad.
2016-10-04 00:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i don't know but i can tell you this you let them they just going to keep it up the only way they would stop is just let them know how you feel about and just let them know this is not what marrige is about and the mother in law should not be in ya'll life
2007-04-27 08:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by DC all day moniemonie1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband does not do that. He knows better. But if you are having that problem, do what is best for you don't let anyone control you.
2007-04-27 08:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by hwlajnitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is, you teach people how to treat you. You need to expect to be treated with respect and dignity, and if you act like a victim, you will be a victim. Teach that you have a mind and if they say you do this or that that you don't want to do, then just say, "no, I am going to do this." REMEMBER, YOU teach people how to treat you.
2007-04-27 08:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by KAREN F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a little boy is taught not to cry...coz he is the man..yet he wants to...even when he grows up...so he yells..he yells at his family, his most loved ones...his life partner...he wants to impose his "personality" which he himself doesn't accept...some men just don't get the fact that there might be something called "sharing"...and mother-in-law cannot accept that she's loosing grip on her little boy...so it's ultimately upto the "very patient" creatures on earth - "GIRLS"
2007-04-27 10:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to be controlled is by allowing someone to control you. SLAP THEM!
2007-04-27 08:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋