He lives 3 hours away and is being a huge jerk about it. I believe that his interest-free loan ended when he cheated on me.
2007-04-27 07:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you have documentation that he owes you the money? A note, and email, something he signed? Does it have repayment terms on it that he hasn't met? Has he paid you anything on it?
Did anyone witness that it was a loan and not a gift?
If you can prove it, you can take him to small claims court and get a judgement against him. However, even if you have documentation that he owes you money, if he's still paying you every month, and hasn't missed paying, then the fact that you loaned him money interest free is your problem. You can't "rewrite" the conditions of a loan just because he made you angry.
2007-04-27 08:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek a lawyer about this. Or look up the small claims court in your area. I do hope that you have evidence of the loan, like some sort of signed agreement. If not sorry to say but its going to be hard to prove in a court that you actually leant him the money.. and if your ex wants to be a jerk about it.
Good luck
2007-04-27 07:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judge Judy! Small Claims Court.
2007-04-27 07:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judge Judy
2007-04-27 08:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by KAREN F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is you probably wont' get it back, unless you take take him to small claims court, and the fees for that will probably be more than the amount you loaned him, but it's up to you. I've never lent anyone more than $100; simply for this reason =) Good luck!
2007-04-27 07:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 00:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by goodfellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gather your evidence of the loan and file a Small Claims suit.
2007-04-27 07:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a contract with him to pay it back? if so, take him to small claims court with that contract and milk him dry. if you dont have a contract, then you've been had. consider him your 1500 dollar mistake. sorry, but those are your only two options. ex's rarely repay their debts, especially if the relationship ended on a sour note.
2007-04-27 07:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his butt...cause you will never see the money again! You might think that paying you back would be the right thing to do, but if he is a huge jerk, forget it!
2007-04-27 07:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by philly_romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to small claims court but as the old saying goes "You can't bleed blood from a turnip"
2007-04-27 07:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋