2007-04-27 07:45:35 · 17 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes. it sounds like you are recovering from a bad relationship. give yourself time. it is probably good to stay away from all men until they start to look more human again. when your faith in them is restored then you know you are ready to try again.
2007-04-27 07:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by adelaide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a perfectly normal human response. But if you expect to find your mate you have to get over it. Analyze what you are doing to attract that type of person. If you can pin point it, work on not doing that anymore. Solicit help for trusted friends and family if it is difficult for you to look at yourself objectively. Determine what your needs are and stick to them. Do not make unnessary concession just to be with someone. Drawing a line in the sand will let a potential mate know that on some issues you mean business and they should not try to change you. You also earn respect from people too.
2007-04-27 14:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by soulsearcherofthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal. After my ex and I separated, I hated all men. I compared them all to him and felt like I could never trust a man again. It took months before I even went out on a date, but it gradually got better and I realized just because he was a total looser didn't mean they all were!
2007-04-27 14:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. What you have to look at are the people around you. There are people who are in good strong relationships so it is possible to find a good man. You just have to keep your eyes open
2007-04-27 14:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it is normal to feel that way. But never make the new guy go through something that the both of you can't handle. Just pray on it
2007-04-27 15:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by REV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a good man? ALL men have their faults. The A**holes that pride themselves in hurting woman and living off them just make us open our eyes to what men (and women) are capable of. It is scary to think people can treat us this way. But they do. Its not just us....they do it to everyone. There are good people out there. Unfortunately people that have been hurt are more cautious and we tend to smell through the bull***t. You are cautious because you know what to look for. Keep looking they are there. BUT TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS! You don't want to repeat your past mistakes.
2007-04-27 14:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by oh2bjenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, you should see me when I am riding in my car having a woman moment hating the entire male species singing my favorite song when I am pissed off. ALL MEN ARE DOGS. I jam in my van them after that I am alright. Then I go back to business as usual.
2007-04-27 14:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by kimberly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. And then when you least expect it, a good man comes along.
2007-04-30 04:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy you broke up with the dog. Mr. Right is on his way.
2007-04-27 14:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for you to feel that way,but you'll find out later its not true!
2007-04-27 15:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋