Should I try at least once in my life?
2007-04-27 12:40:10 · 20 answers · asked by amee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should have never gotten married! You can't be serious! Just for fun? There's no fun in ruining your marriage or deceiving your spouse.
When your spouse finds out about the "FUN" you had, don't be surprised if divorce papers are drawn OR you get your head knocked!
2007-04-27 12:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go ahead if you want to risk losing the one that you love because of it. Maybe the one that you love should also have an affair since you want to. How do you think that you would like that? I doubt very much that you would like your love to do that to you so don't you think that you had better think twice before doing something so stupid? Affairs...even one night stands are a sure way of destroying a relationship. Just remember that.
2007-04-27 21:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal. Apparently you have found something out there that looks mighty tempting and you want to try it out. The old saying goes. Just because it looks good to you don't mean its good for you. Sometimes you stick your little buddy in something and pull something out you can't get rid of so be careful. I just want you to put yourself in your wife/girlfriend shoes. If she were to meet someone and have a fling-one night stand "just for fun" would you be okay with it, because if you can honestly say you can accept it then-you are lying. Don't risk everything you have for a piece of coochie that is not worth it. You are thinking with the wrong head right now and when he real head gets its senses back it going to let you know that it got the both of you in some trouble that you can't get out of ..........Don't be a weak man....stand strong and have values. Its easy to cheat but its hard to resist temptation, go against the grain and challenge yourself to do something hard-be faithful. good luck
2007-04-27 20:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....I did, and now im going through a seperation, and ultimate divorce......its a really dumb move unless you want to end your marriage, you cant keep it a secret forever,it will eat away at you. Is there something missing in your marriage that would make you want to stray? Some excitement,etc? If so, then try to spice up your home life before going elsewhere.
2007-04-27 20:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by lolly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should the one you love "just have an affair once in their life" as well?
If your gonna do it, you should give them the option as well!
2007-04-27 19:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! How would u feel if the one u love had an affair with someone other than you??
You are pathetic and ungrateful!
2007-04-27 19:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sagittarious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell did you get married if you want to be with other people? Marriage is a serious commitment, if you want to have "fun" with other people behind your partners back you can't honestly say you love them.
2007-04-27 20:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Pepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely - do what you want, from experience, keep it as a one night stand, dont do the affair stuff, its too emotional and its tuff on the heart.
2007-04-27 20:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think we will make enough mistakes in life so there isn't a need to make them on purpose!
Trust me, this won't put money in your pocket, make you happy or impact a child's life. In other words it's not worth it!
2007-04-27 19:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends.....how important to you is the one you love? what would happen to t hat relationship if she/ he(?) found out about your affair? should you be concerned about losing the one you really love?.........you think hard and long about it before you have this"FUN"
2007-04-27 21:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋