I know that the chances of them ever hooking
up are slim to none but the fact that it was even a thought gets to me.
She just married my husband's brother (brother in law) and I invited them to spend a month in my home.
Should I say something?? She thinks she is so pretty, truly she is her bests years and me....my worsts
I am smarter than her, well educated, but she is obviously beautiful and sexy.
any advice?
2007-04-27 10:22:32 · 16 answers · asked by MARIA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be sure that they don't overstay their 30 day welcome.
You may also want to inform your brother in law.
Is she this way with all men, or just your husband?
Does she really have a "thing" for him, or is she that way with everyone? This doesn't justify her behavior, but it might help to explain some things.
I would be sure not to leave your husband alone with her.
You might also want to confront her, and if she doesn't get the message- kindly ask them to leave.
2007-04-27 10:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tarheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have this problem now... The sister in law us not yet married to my brother in law and we dont live together. But she is so flirty that I banned my husband from engaging in any kind of conversation with her. I am not insecure, I am just realistic and she is way too touchy and overly reacts to everything my husband says or does she is over the top flirting with him. His brother knows it but he just looks the other way. I did confront her and she didnt even reply, she ignored me in my face! That is why I had to stop him from following her conversations. However, II know it will not be realistic to think he will not talk to her, since she is part (wanting to be) his family, and I dont want to just be unhappy hating on her. So I want to know what jappened with your situation. Will the girl stop?
2015-10-29 19:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Karla Diaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband know how you feel about this? Maybe if you told him he would set some limits if she is trying to get too close.
Also, it sounds like you have some insecurity, so maybe you are jealous of her and are reading too much into her behavior? Regardless, your husband would never give into her even if she is truly flirting, right? have comfort in knowing that. Just a thought.
2007-04-27 10:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let her come between you and your husband.
Tell them that they have to leave, because the situation is not working out.
You should be able to feel comfortable in your own home with your husband.
Never do that again!!!
2007-04-27 10:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she so much as makes a move on your husband you will kick her a** and if your husband truly loves you he will tell her to leave him alone because he is happily married to you.
2007-04-27 10:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what was your basis of saying that she is flirting?
I know how you feel. I find it rude that your husband would compliment her by telling you that she is beautful. To me it's just really inappropriate.
Take good care of yourself. Hopefully your husband was just trying to inspire you to fix yourself up.
2007-04-27 10:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by LIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront her, then if that doesn't work - tell your husband...then kick them out! This is your house, your life, and your husband.
2007-04-27 10:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Michele 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time for them to move out of your house
2007-04-27 13:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her flirting with my husband is inappropriate and unacceptable behaviour.
2007-04-27 10:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say talk to your husband first and then if it still continues then you should talk to her and let her know that it is not alright with you
2007-04-27 10:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Belgrademitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋