Marriage & Divorce - 2 April 2007

2007-04-02 06:20:01 · 16 answers · asked by littlelibbylue4 1

He asked me what I've done what was truely motivated by love and had a benefit for him.

2007-04-02 06:11:24 · 13 answers · asked by Schmetterling 1

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2007-04-02 06:07:01 · 14 answers · asked by I LOVE WIGGERS 1

my husband left me six months ago.we have been together 7 yrs.he said he could not get over the fact that i cheated 1 yr before that i was on drugs then.so he left .still payingall the bolls and seeing the kids every day having sex with me.wel;l nedless to say i had been clean 1 yr sence i had cheated.i caught him at a hotel with a girl we both no.i am 33 he is 40 and she is 28.so when he left i relapsed doind drugs again.so any chance i guess i blew.all these months he has been so distant says he wanted to ghet caught and hurt me ya right busted...went on his cell phone bill witch of corse is always off but whatever he hasent wanted me said it over move on.he has been talking to her sence they got caught 3 months.i got clean again now he is always telling me how pretty i am and in his eays i se he still loves his family.i caled her and told her.he says he does not luv her.we went and tok the kids4 the weekend out of town 4 the first time was great .she calel at 4am .does he even care.

2007-04-02 06:04:48 · 2 answers · asked by dominicstrange 1

I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an surprise for my girlfriend because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their man did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?

2007-04-02 06:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by Dave K 1

I have an essay due about why the laws for child support on delinquent fathers should be more strict. I have my opinion but also have to have 3 other sources of reasons.. can anyone help me on finding this information please?! My essay has to be 4-5 pages long! I'm having trouble locating such resources...

2007-04-02 06:01:04 · 12 answers · asked by Beth C 1

i found some movies and dirty magazines in my husband truck. why is he keeping them a secret???? he watches them at work he says and i find that really weird...... this seems very odd.

2007-04-02 05:58:07 · 2 answers · asked by missywst 2

If someone says in the begining of your relationship that the sex was not good and that someone else was the best sex they ever had. Should I be upset? Is this someone who could really love me? Do I have a future with this person?

2007-04-02 05:30:40 · 15 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

I filed my divorce back in Nov., didn't follow through with it because we were trying to work it out. He stopped drinking but now has recently started again. He got a DWI, he takes off with his friends and doesn't come home sometimes. Why do I continue to let him treat me that way. I want out, I'm scared, I love him but he always blames me for everything that goes wrong in his life. I don't understand why I'm always trying to make things better when the problem isn't me. I want to break the cycle and just move on, I'm tired of going backward. I want to move ahead!

2007-04-02 05:28:32 · 12 answers · asked by FEDUP!! 2

They tell each other almost NOTHING of what is happening in their lives. I find that to be VERY VERY strange. She said its like if somebody has problems or shows weakness then others will take advantage or use that against them or something.

In my family its like, tell the truth, say what's happening, then if you are hurt or sad or suffering you ask for help , and mostly get help too.

How should I deal with the secrets? Ignore them? Try to get some honest truth? I'm clueless.

2007-04-02 05:27:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have not heard of one marriage of anyone under 55 that did not have at least one adulterous partner.

People treat their kids like BMWs. They have one because the neighbors have one.

Families don't spend time as a family. Everyone is so busy running around.

Divorce is too easy.

Why bother?

2007-04-02 05:18:20 · 21 answers · asked by charlie girl 1

My wife moved to another state with her kids, few months back. She just quit her job and move south. We talk and I visit her few time, after a few visits, she turned table. She said that I was causing problems with her kids and family by visiting her. She asked me would I help her sister out, I help and drove her sister and her kids to where she at, few weeks later after I help her sister move. Then she want a divorce, two days later, she want to try keeping the marriage together, after she found out she does not have a job any more, now its been a week since she said that, now she saying she have to sell her stuff and she have to move where her mother is at. She does have her sister to help and no one is helping paying the bills. She got mad few weeks ago when I visit my daughter who live another state, from a prior marriage. She said I disrespected her by going to my daughter’s basketball game. This was her last game of the season. I asked her to go with me, but she did not want to.

2007-04-02 05:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by blkngd 1

this world is full of difficulties.always war and sadness what is going on with the peopel around the world.

2007-04-02 04:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by muhammad javed 1

Is it hard for men to just be honest when they r in love . Why can't they just admit the feelings inside are bigger than them?

2007-04-02 04:57:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband told me that he only married me because I was pregnant and diagnosed with a potentially terminal illness. What would you do? This was ten years ago.

2007-04-02 04:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by Liz A 2

Isn't it hard when someone you still love so much cannot even contact you now and then, it's like you cannot even be friends and you are not a part of their everyday life anymore? Doesn't that person miss you back? It really makes one feel worthless:(. How did you cope with that in your case? When you passed the misery and anger phase, did you ever say hi to that person again?

2007-04-02 04:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by stargazer 2

My bf (who I hope to marry one day), is previously married with 2 kids. He and his former wife had decided they wanted the kids to attend private school quite a ways away ofr junior high whcih is in 3 yrs. He told me that he will be willing to relocate or do whatever it took to get them there. This is a prior commitment he made with his x, and thats the way it will be when that time comes if there is no alternative. My problem with this is when we marry don't I get a say in life. Just because he made this prior commitment, shouldn't I still get a say? I mean career changes and private school are big expensive things. I think my opinion should matter, regardless of prior commitments, it will be my life too wont it? I'm expected to treat the kids as my own and love them as my own but anything attaining to them is none of my business, what I say doesn't matter because I'm not the parent. I think it's ridiculous that I'm expected to treat them no different then my own but have no opinion.

2007-04-02 04:49:21 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa 2

I am in the process of getting a divorce and I just received the Respondants Original Answer.
1. General Denial
2. Prayer
Respondant prays that Petitioner take nothing and that respondent be granted al relief.
My attorney is out of town...what does this mean? Somebody help!

2007-04-02 04:44:50 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer C 1

She is a very sexy woman. Yesterday, not only did she bring me a beer, she had her shirt unbuttoned down to her cleavage and kept bending over in front of me. Now I cannot get her out of my head. She has never brought me a beer before while working in my yard. She always waves and smiles at me.

I am so attracted to her that I am now fantasizing about having sex with her. How do I control this or should i? I'll be honest, I do not want to control my urges.

ps: She is married to a sterile geek with money and I am a man's man. I think she is attracted to my physical looks.

2007-04-02 04:39:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-02 04:31:50 · 24 answers · asked by princessa 1

2007-04-02 04:26:48 · 16 answers · asked by mysteryousmtz 6

I have recently gotten married and for professional reasons, I need to keep my current last name but would like to add my husband's last name. How do I go about hyphenating, is it a legal process, or do I just submit the marriage certificate and request to keep both names?

2007-04-02 04:14:26 · 4 answers · asked by Cindy C~ 1

I just got engaged the other day but we are going to be engaged for about five years cause I want to get through college before I get married. But I'm afraid to tell our parents right now because I don't think they'll understand. I'm afraid they'll say we're to young and won't let us be engaged. I truely love my fiance, what should I do?

2007-04-02 04:14:19 · 13 answers · asked by tiger_princess_2008 1

After being with someone for years do you still kiss passionately?or do you think that all goes out the window sooner or later?

2007-04-02 04:05:20 · 38 answers · asked by Lorraine D 2

My boyfriend has been living with me and my kids for 2 years. For that time, he has been giving me $200 a month. My expenses (rent, utilities, food) are about $1000 a month. Should I be asking him for more money? How do I talk to him about this without sounding greedy?

2007-04-02 03:57:39 · 20 answers · asked by Mom 2

I really like this guy and we get intimate most of the time. we are not in a relationship with each other yet...i just want to know if he has another woman or possibly lives with someone... should i further investigate this or would that be a bad idea

2007-04-02 03:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

being passive aggressive or found a glitch in our marriage to avoid me? He's going this weekend to a gaming dinner (where they serve fresh hunted meat).

I find these extremely repulsive. He went about a month ago, and after it, he spent the weekend in the guest room.

The first time, his friend invited him last minute ... past 2 times, he went out of his way searching for one and is driving 2 hours away to go to it.

Last time, I requested that we do not go near each other for a couple of days until all the "meat" has been processed throughout his system.

I mean, I can't imagine kissing him after that, or being nearby when any bodily functions erupt ... I had him to use the guest bedroom and bathroom too.

I am a vegetarian, AND DON'T MIND WHEN HE EATS REGULAR MEAT, but it's this "game" meat that really truly grosses me out about this situation.

I gave him no problem about going last time, and he honored my request above, so is he trying to avoid me for a weekend again?

2007-04-02 03:39:28 · 18 answers · asked by Reserved 6

We both live together and having been spending all the time together but recently arguing all the time, driving us mad. She wants us to spend less time together and lead our own lifes as well. She's spending more and more time with her friends and not inviting me out anymore.

I understand what she is saying and agree but just finding it hard!!

Been together for 1yr. Is there any hidden message or is that how things get after a year together? We live together with 2 of her friends and im having to go home to my parents to give her space is that right or normal?

2007-04-02 03:31:27 · 39 answers · asked by AJ21 1

I was going out with this guy for a year but he ended up getting hooked on drugs and doing so many stupid things because of it lying and stealing being the main two. Anyways I was dumb and had stuck by him hoping to help him and well that didnt work and my feelings more than changed. I during the past year left him many times and got back together with him after he begged me and saying he would change. Now its really over and I to be honest cant stomach to even look at him with all he put me through. Im completely inlove with someone else now and never want to be with him again but its not sinking into him

2007-04-02 03:31:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're in financial difficulties, my husband is very proud and wont ask for help, my in-laws offered to help. Should I go behind his back and accept the money. I can make sure he never knows about it. Any advice?

2007-04-02 03:28:19 · 31 answers · asked by Sweetheart 2