After being with someone for years do you still kiss passionately?or do you think that all goes out the window sooner or later?
2007-04-02 04:05:20 · 38 answers · asked by Lorraine D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married 20 years, and we still kiss passionately. Our 14-year-old daughter breaks us up if she's nearby with, "Ew, you guys, quit it!" Yeah, it's pretty funny.
2007-04-02 04:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Different terminology...but my husband and I have been together over twenty years and still kiss every day. Love and passion is still a big part of any happy marriage.
When my Dad was living in assisted living a few years ago, there were a couple in their late seventies who lived across the hall from him, and Thursday nights were their "date" night.
They would have a candlelit dinner in their apartment, have their favorite dance music and then the door would be closed....It was really sweet. They had celebrated their 57th wedding anniversary. They spent more time kissing and holding hands than most young couples.
It will only go out the window if you become complacent and allow it to.
Have a good day.
2007-04-02 04:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever said the relationships are easy was a liar! Its harder to keep the flame alive than it is to extinguish it. It takes work on both sides to keep the fire burning and it takes effort. It's easy to get into a rut, but planning a little romance does wonders for the passion. Breakfast in bed, Joining the other person unexpectedly in the shower, putting I miss you notes in their briefcase, making coffee for the person before they wake up, etc. Devotion takes effort on both sides and appreciation.
Take each day as it comes with the thought that this person means the world to you and you want them to know. 2 years, 5 years, 20 years from now, still show that appreciation and the flame will burn as bright as ever.
2007-04-02 04:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by TrixyLoo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been married to my wife for almost 8yrs and we still make-out like we did when we first met. I do believe it depends on the individual's involved with each other but if you are married or are even in a long-term relationship kissing is one of the best ways to show your affection and attraction to the one your with next to sex. Even with sex kissing is a major part of that as well. So you take out kissing what do you have you might as well be messing around with a prostitute. Really kissing is probably one of the most important aspects of intimacy in a relationship if that goes well the relationship is bound to FAIL!
God Bless and I hope this isn't going on with your relationship!
2007-04-02 04:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a kiss with someone you've been with for so long can not be passionate. I don't think something special like that would just be thrown out the window. You also have to keep things passionate with your guy.
2007-04-02 04:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Beanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I hope it never goes away!! I don't think that passion should ever be allowed to go away. It takes effort and energy to keep the spark in a relationship but that is what makes those couples you see sitting together still snuggling at the table when they are in their 80's and so obviously still in love. They worked at it and kept their relationship in the forefront of their lives!
2007-04-02 04:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I've been with my partner for 10 years now & we still 'snog' passionately, our 16yr old Daughter has a habit of walking in right in the middle of one of these and finds it to be 'eugh!!'.We apparently need to "get a room!".
2007-04-02 05:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my husband's job in the RAF means he is away for a few months at a time, when he comes back home it feels like a first date again, excitement and butterflies all at once - is great for passionate snogging!!
2007-04-02 04:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Comes and goes. I think that when your with the same person for a while you fall in (and sometimes out of) love all the time. So it would depend on the stage your relationship is going through.
2007-04-02 04:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still kiss passionately and cuddle all the time. We can't keep our hands off each other. It's great and only gets better as time goes on.
2007-04-02 04:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 18 years this year and have been together 21 years and only in the middle of passionate sex do we snog with any passion, cuddling just for the sake of it has gone though.
2007-04-02 04:12:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋