Marriage & Divorce - 2 April 2007

He put tomato sauce in the bed while I was still sleeping ... I woke up and got out of bed to see this mess, ran in the bathroom where he had my tampons scattered all over the bathroom.

Once I realized what he did, he came in laughing hysterically.

I admit it was good, but I just bought these new white sheets, and I was wearing light pink pajama bottoms.

He said he'll clean it all up, but I seriously doubt he's going to get the stains out of it.

Would you be mad if your hubby did this to you?

2007-04-02 03:12:39 · 24 answers · asked by Reserved 6

I had 5 years of pure marital bliss before I made a huge mistake I'll most likely never forgive myself for (I didn't cheat).My husband doesn't seem to be able to get past it and has served me with divorce papers but I still love him and don't want to give up. Would you walk away without a fight from the one person who loved you and took care of you like no one ever has before and in turn give them what they want or would you sacrifice your dignity and ask for another chance one last time?

2007-04-02 03:07:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband more than anything in this world but I'm not sure he knows that. I don't know if show him enough how much I care. Does anyone out there feel the same way sometimes?

2007-04-02 03:07:02 · 5 answers · asked by K9Girl 2

Just want to make each day special for him. Any unique ideas? Thank you

2007-04-02 02:40:38 · 11 answers · asked by Caroline 1

For my wife and I, they are Roberta Flack, Peabo Bryson, Sade (jezebel), and Luther Vandross.

My wife and I both love the black artists from yesterday. Some of the greatest love making songs were by black artists.

2007-04-02 02:40:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

yesterday my hubby got mad cause i didnt balance the check book and he took off for about 3 hours and went fishing, i know petty right. well when he came back he acted like nothing had ever ahppened. here i was very angry, when i tried to call him, he wouldnt even answer his phone, but he comes home like nothing ever happened. well, then after awhile his anger kicked back in, and he was calling me all kind of names, and telling me how dumb i am etc. etc. well, i just lt it go in one ear and right out the other and didnt let him bother me. well, then all of the sudden he was happy again, and wanting to shower with me and do are thing, u know what i am talking about. i dont get it, why is he acting this way? any advice or opinins would be nice on why u think he is acting this way.

2007-04-02 02:40:17 · 14 answers · asked by greengrass 3

He's very nice and then zaps me with something outrageous. I would like not to have any contact with him. Short of giving him the kids and moving to Montana or Spain, any suggestions?

Please, no "you have the kids so be friends" advice. If we could be friends, we would have stayed married, no?

2007-04-02 02:39:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been married for 9 months but had been living together for 4 years. Since we got married he has gained over 30 pounds and has tried to stop smoking his pack a day only to give up before one week. He has been a surfer all hia life but lately he is too heavy and out of breath to stay in the water too long. When i try to talk to him about his health he says one is going to die anyway so might as well enjoy. And when i tell him about his appearance he laughs and pushes his belly out more. Im a health conscious person, i workout and try to always look good for me and him. he doesnt seemed to care. I ve interest in having sex though he hasn't to i give in but no in the same way. i feel this is affecting my marraige and dont know what to do

2007-04-02 02:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by mclm 1

My wife and I have been separated for sometime. I have been seeing someone else now. But about a month ago she said we need to take a step back so i can deal with the marriage issues. We have only talked a handful of times and been intimate once in the last month(about 2 weeks ago) She rarely responds to my emails. and only talks on the phone briefly. Can a woman really be like this just to see if I will go through with the divorce? Is she just trying not to influence my decision? I know that I am going through with the divorce, but i know its a long tough road.

2007-04-02 02:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This allowed men to get a breather from them.

2007-04-02 02:23:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 26 yrs old and my hubby is 40 have been married 5.5 yrs now getting a divorce.I signed a pre-nup the day before we got married it was handed to me by his lawyer i signed it without reading it.This afternoon i will meet with my lawyer but was warned that fighting a pre-nup could take a long time year or more.He feels that since i do not at present have the means(a job) to fight the pre-nup that i should except the money the pre-nup entitles me too. The pre-nup states that i can keep any gifts from the marriage or personal belonging. Is my attorney taking the easy way out?

2007-04-02 02:20:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf (who I hope to marry one day), is previously married with 2 kids. He and his former wife had decided they wanted the kids to attend private school about 1 hour away. He told me that he would be willing to relocate or do whatever it took to get them there. This is a prior commitment he made with his x, and thats the way it will be when that time comes if there is no alternative. My problem with this is when we marry don't I get a say in life. Just because he made this prior commitment, shouldn't I still get a say? I mean career changes and private school are big expensive things. I think my opinion should matter, regardless of prior commitments, it will be my life too wont it? Am I totally wrong here, cause that's how he's making me out. He's basically saying we have to pack up and move and I get no say. What if I like my job and house and I don't want to. Is this unfair?

2007-04-02 02:09:04 · 15 answers · asked by Vanessa 2

BF of 5 years proposed 2 weeks ago. Yesterday had an argument over the purchase of a house. I am ok with the purchase, but house needs work. I said that I would like to have put in the paperwork, that IF a divorce or seperation happened I would not take the house, nor be responsible for the mortgage.Yes in a way that is selfish on my part, but I thought it would be good for him, I mean, hes already had 2 divorces & lost everything except the clothes he was wearing. He got mad, told me now we aren't getting married. No big deal been together this long with out it anyway. Anyway, my question is, was I wrong to ask to have that stipulation put into the paperwork? And was it really worth ruining a whole day and half the night over? I would like to thank you in advance for the advise and please dont judge me for not being married, I have also been married & divorced.

2007-04-02 02:01:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

...i saw two sisters on tv that had sexual relations with each other - consenting adults - who cares - if i want 183 wives and 793 concubines who cares if it is all in the open

2007-04-02 01:58:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We decided that Sunday would be a day of enjoyment for the both of us and then be on the ball the rest of the week. The only problem was, I could not get him away from the tv. Does this say something about our relationship? We did have some bedroom fun though. I really wanted to go out.

2007-04-02 01:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by just me 2

Tell us in 25 words why you are the
most romantic couple and deserve a dream wedding

2007-04-02 01:52:38 · 6 answers · asked by mel 2

I know theres the honeymoon stage. where everything is fresh and new but what about in the middle of married life after youve been married 10 years? when kids are in there teens and not ready to leave but able to take care of
themselves.

2007-04-02 01:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by pkuchick 4

2007-04-02 01:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by 12evalution 2

If you could go back to one point in your life and change something you did wrong would you(not knowing if it might change everything good that has happened to you since then)?

2007-04-02 01:44:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous