Just want to make each day special for him. Any unique ideas? Thank you
2007-04-02 02:40:38 · 11 answers · asked by Caroline 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Help him with some task that he dreads doing or that has needed to be done.
Go out of your way to make his day run smooth. Think about everything he does in a day & if there is anything you could do for him so he doesn't have to, do it.
I don't know if ya'll live together, but like, I am married & my husband has never been the sort to demand that things be done "just so" or that I wait on him hand & foot. HOWEVER, to make things nice for him, I try to get up & make his coffee for him, make his lunch, etc... When he gets off of work, he goes to the gym. I try to have his bag all packed for him & the blender with all his ingredients ready for his smoothee when he returns.
That kinda stuff.
Also, you would be surprised how many men like to find a nice note of encouragement or "Just thinking of you" hidden somewhere - in a tool box, on their windshield, etc. You never know when he's having a bad day & will find one. It might be the only smile all day!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-02 02:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by datgirl88 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Action speaks louder than words. I'm sure you've heard that before. Material things don't always work either because that is like trying to buy the persons love or friendship. Be kind, loving and caring. Do what comes natural. Above all just be yourself around him. Your love for him will shine through. Always listen to what he has to say and show him respect when ever you are in a conversation. Men don't like women that talk over them. Nor do they want a mother. They already have one at home. Nurture him with kindness and concern for him.
2007-04-02 09:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One day, you could do breakfast in bed. Another day, you could just greet him at the door wearing a robe. There are many things you can do to show your boyfriend how much you care. Just by taking his plate to the sink, or getting him a drink. Simple things is what makes guys melt. Also, massage him every chance you get. Thank you and good luck.
2007-04-02 09:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave post its all over the house, in fridge, on toilet etc saying the ways you love him. Write him a passionate love letter, give him a body massage, wait on him hand and foot for an evening.
2007-04-02 09:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by draken 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make him his favorite meal, put a towel into the dryer so when he gets out of the shower he has a warm towel, leave little love notes in his lunchbox.
2007-04-02 09:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be careful with that. it's a nice thought but he may get used to that spoiling each day and start to expect it, leaving you wondering when it's your turn. you don't have to MAKE each day special. being with you should be enough.
2007-04-02 09:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MAKE HIM A HOMEMADE CARD, OR TAKE HIM ON A PICNIC. OR JUST COOK HIM A NICE DINNER. THERE ARE SO MANY LITTLE THINGS YOU COULD DO.OR JUST RANDOMLY GIVE HIM A BIG OL HUIG SAY I LOVE YOU AND WALK AWAY. IT WILL LEAVE HIM "AWED"
2007-04-02 09:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by JENN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just listen with all your focus on him
No distractions
2007-04-02 09:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by caretaker 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men don't care about non-lovemaking things. Get real!
2007-04-02 09:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Call him and say "I love you"
2007-04-02 09:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by treasureyourself 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋