Marriage & Divorce - 2 April 2007

My sister has custody of her 3 daughters in NY State & has been offered a good job elsewhere. How far can she move her family? Her husband has them every other weekend. Any insight or tips/links would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

2007-04-02 11:26:45 · 6 answers · asked by SavageLettuce 4

I let her wear the pants. I find pants quite cumbersome to be honest with you.

2007-04-02 11:25:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-02 11:18:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband likes other guys looking at me, and even gets turned on with the idea that other guys want me, well he even buys me skimpy cloths to provolk it, it not like he tells me to sleep with other guys, but it makes me feel uncomfterble.
how can I tell him this.

serious anwers only please.

2007-04-02 11:05:59 · 7 answers · asked by jozlilnanjos 3

2007-04-02 10:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by babak r 1

My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we
decided to get married. There was only one little thing bothering me. It
was her beautiful younger sister.

My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight miniskirts,
and generally was bra less. One day "little" sister called and asked me
to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I
arrived, and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she
couldn't overcome.

She told me that she wanted to make love to me just once before I got
married and committed my life to her sister.

Well, I was in total shock, and couldn't say a word. She said, "I'm
going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want one last wild fling, just
come up and get me." I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up
the stairs. When she reached the top she pulled off her panties and
threw them down the stairs at me.

I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline straight to
the front door. I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car.
Lo and behold, her entire future family was standing outside, all clapping!

With tears in his eyes, my future father-in-law hugged me and said, we
are very happy that you have passed our little test.....we couldn't ask
for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family."

And the moral of this story is:

2007-04-02 10:41:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A true marriage is a spiritual sacrament that not only transmutes man’s physical nature, but is the means to bring all levels of Creation together into a singular state of being.

In our endeavor to begin to look beyond the counterfeit facade of what is false and of this world, we must then recognize that words spoken by a priest or justice of the peace -- a formal contract -- or the act of entering into an agreement that is ordained by tradition, culture, or the law of man -- does not automatically invoke the Higher Power of God.

Once properly understood, marriage can in fact be used to put all of man’s interactions with God into a proper perspective -- in that, with growth and work it is a union that possess the possibility of a true marriage being formed, and not a true marriage in the genuine sense of the word by the mere recital of words.

2007-04-02 10:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it

2007-04-02 10:20:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-02 10:19:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Grandma was aware of on going adoption, never fought it, never tried to see them (even before the adoption). Now here we are two years later, the children have been removed from the abusive and drug addicted father, and she has had no contact. Now she wants the kids, I love my kids and want what is best for them, but they don't know her anymore, and I can't guarantee she can be trusted with them..... I just don't know what to do

2007-04-02 10:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ ~Isabelle's mommy~ ♥ 5

I have been married for almost 8 years. We always have some type of problem. I got hurt at work and can't work right now. The doctor said it might be a year before I can go back. I made good money, but right now I'm getting workers comp. My husband told me last night if I couldn't help pay the bills and other expenses I might as well leave. Is this love? I love this man and thought he did me also. We are buying our own home and I have always paid the majority of the bills, now what? I am at a lost of what could cause a man who said I love you do this to me. Please advise

2007-04-02 10:08:29 · 11 answers · asked by cejay1953 6

How much child support would a working father in MN pay for two 3 month old twins? I just need any type of ballpark here... I know it will vary, but I have NO clue at all.
Thanks! :)

2007-04-02 10:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Tracy 3

We've been married 11 years and our sex life is confined to the bedroom and 2 positions. I'm totally bored with our relationship and feel like our marriage has become like a sentence.
If I purchase any toys, books or lingerie and ask to try something new or try to talk to my wife about our relationship in the bedroom she gets angry about it and tells me we're "too old" for "these" things (even a different position in bed) and tells me we're not kids anymore. She tells me if I'm not satisfied with her and that I should leave her and the kids and get a "hooker", or says other hurtful things. If I ask to go to couples therapy she also gets mad.
I've tried candles and romanting music, and sexy notes but she tells me that if I loved her I wouldn't ask for anything else.
We have 2 great kids that I love, I want to work this out but I find now I often fantisize about what it would be like to have a partner that was passionate and open minded.
Does anyone have any realistic advice?

2007-04-02 10:01:56 · 17 answers · asked by Zaferus 6

This guy has been a good friend to me, but I could tell that he and his wife are not doing so good. Recently I found myself falling for him, with the way he looks at me, I know he's married and is off limits. The other day when I confronted him with my feelings, he kissed me. I didn't know what to do or say, there is this strong connection between us, but we just cannot do anything, What to do?

2007-04-02 09:54:10 · 27 answers · asked by Eliza 3

My friend says he will have to pay, but I say he doesn't. Just so that she is prepared and knows that she may possibly have to end up supporting her son on her own, who is right?

2007-04-02 09:53:57 · 18 answers · asked by NestleGirl 2

2007-04-02 09:47:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately when my boyfriend and I go out we get asked how long we've been married, when we're getting married and etc. We are not married or even engaged. We don't wear rings on our left hands or anything. Why do people assume we are married? We don't discuss marriage or argue in front of anyone. I'm afraid my boyfriend is going to start putting pressure on himself and end up leaving me. Help!

2007-04-02 09:46:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is in court today finalizing his divorce. I want to be supportive and say the right thing. Can anyone help me with the right words to say? Thanks so much.

2007-04-02 09:44:56 · 13 answers · asked by electra1978 2

My sons girlfriend is 27 and spanish. We live in Cape Town. She is nearly 6 months pregnant and is so possessive of my son. They do not live together as he cannot tolerate her tantrums and arguments. When they argue she continuously phones me to find out where he is and what he is doing. As I dont want to get involved, I asked her very nicely to please not involve me anymore as it wasnt fair on me. That evening I got 7 sms's where she called me a whore and basically said "I hope you die you *****. She also said that when they got married she would put me into an age old home and I could die there and good riddance. I am not even on pension as I am not that old. I feel this is verbal abuse and harrassement. Should I get an interdict against her. We are not use to this sort of behaviour in our family, and I dont really know what to do about it. Your help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-04-02 09:34:03 · 2 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4

Hi,
We have a relationship of more than 10 months, recently my gf left me beacuse we where both at a lot of stress because of work and college, and we didn't had a lot of time for talk, since a week and a half ago we were arguing for every simple thing, and one day after I got out of work she called me and telled me that everything was over and told me alot of stuff that I aparrently did and she never told me before, I didn't knew I was making her so mad and sad, but I'm sure she took that decision without proper reasoning, is it possible she took the decision just becasue she was mad, it's the first time it happens and I know she still loves me and I know she is confused, is there any chance to be together again and what can I do? thanks in advance, I really appreciate your advices.

2007-04-02 09:31:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not cheating nor have
I but I love to here about other peoples experience on hopping the picket fence in search of lush grass.

2007-04-02 09:30:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband want to take me and the kids camping for about a week this summer and I don't want to go. I don't want to go anywhere and I don't want to be in a camper for a week with him and four kids ages 2,4,7, and 9. It does not sound fun it sounds like a lot of hard work for me. I'd rather stay home save money and be comfortable. But I can't tell him I don't want to do this because he'll get mad at me and guilt me into going. What should I do?

2007-04-02 09:20:34 · 30 answers · asked by heidi t 3

Ok, there is more to the story. Yes, there are more signs than just the call, that was deep and sounded like they were in love. They would go swimming at the lake house every weekend after everyone went to bed (just them) they talk all the time. I found them UNDER the dock at 2AM and they said they were talking. He would lie and say he was going to the store and call her, if its his sister why not call her in front of me or the kids? THey were not only talking like lovers, they were talking ugly about me for no reason....he has pics of her in her bathing suit from 20 years ago in his truck with several others, none of me.....after all this he still calls her everyday and NOT me. I have cried, lost 20 pounds ( I was already skinny) for what? I was not the one telling my new brother how much I loved him over and over again and calling each other BABY ! Last I found STAMAX in his truck, that was not for us because we were not sexual that much, he stopped more and more as the months passed

2007-04-02 09:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by peaches8866 2

I really need some advice on how to move away from my family and abusive boyfriend? My family really doesn't care and as the other questions stated, my boyfriend is overly abusive. How to get away from them. I so want to move, but I can't because of the curcumstances. Any Ideas?

2007-04-02 09:13:12 · 15 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5

My wife of two years just informed me that she was born male and had sex change surgery a few years before we met. My wife is very pretty, very feminine, and i could never tell that she had been anything but a natural born female. Even the sex was amazing. However, now that I look back, there were some telltale signs in that she didn't have any photos of her as a young girl for our wedding photo (she said that she lost all of her photos in a hurricane, which seems logical to me); and her invitation for her 20 year class reunion came addressed to Paul as opposed to Paula, which we just laughed off at the time. My question is, how should I deal with this? I am not sure how I would have reacted if she told me before we got married, but now I feel betrayed. Your opinions?

2007-04-02 09:12:20 · 29 answers · asked by John D 3

pages had been "abused" my son called me to tell me what he had found i was really mad that my husband would have a magazine like that and not only have it but use it! should i have just ignored it or was i right to kick him out?

2007-04-02 08:55:55 · 35 answers · asked by notyochic 6

I continue to say no and its putting a strain on our marriage. She trying to force feed religion on me. What should i do?

2007-04-02 08:51:25 · 14 answers · asked by RARE AIR 1

I really think most don't get caught.. I think women are in denial and like to think most get caught, so they can pretend their men or men they know and like aren't cheating...

2007-04-02 08:47:22 · 15 answers · asked by svetlana 3

1. They can't cook
2. They won't want sex that much after you marry them
3. They are usually beyond "broken in" due to many previous lovers.
4. They will cheat eventually and take half your stuff.
5. The list goes on and on

So why is it again that you want to marry an AMERICAN woman?

2007-04-02 08:46:57 · 14 answers · asked by Joe B 2

my husband comes home late 1 or 2 hour late. i found i comb and some choclates a lipstic from his car. i asked him about all this he got mad on me.. he doesnt want to tell anything..he said if i keep asking all thisthen he will start dating someone..what does it mean its so hurting . i m crying what does it mean...

2007-04-02 08:29:43 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous